So i was talking to my sister-in-law this weekend, and she is 35 weeks pregnant. I asked if she bought a bassinet, and she said she wasn't going to because the baby was gonna sleep in their crib in it's own room. My reply was "oh, i know its recomended to have baby sleep in the same room with you for first 5 months", and she said she didn't want her husband to have a bad sleep.
I understand that husbands need to rest for work, etc, and I was concerned with that myself when we had our first baby, but our daughter still slept in our room in a bassinet and my husband just dealt with it. I know everyone does what works for them, etc, so i didn't say much more about it to her.
My concern is the risk of SIDS when baby sleeps alone. Is this a common thing people are doing, or do most people have baby sleep in the same room in the beginning? I didn't mention to SIL the risk of SIDS (i had assumed she would know about it), but maybe she doesn't? Or do you think this is a thing first time pregnant women say and then change their mind? Do you think I should bring it up again or just wait and see? I would feel horrible if something were to happen to her baby and if she were to claim she wasn't aware of the risk of SIDS, and that i didn't say anything. I also don't want to come off as miss-know-it-all.
What would you do?
I understand that husbands need to rest for work, etc, and I was concerned with that myself when we had our first baby, but our daughter still slept in our room in a bassinet and my husband just dealt with it. I know everyone does what works for them, etc, so i didn't say much more about it to her.
My concern is the risk of SIDS when baby sleeps alone. Is this a common thing people are doing, or do most people have baby sleep in the same room in the beginning? I didn't mention to SIL the risk of SIDS (i had assumed she would know about it), but maybe she doesn't? Or do you think this is a thing first time pregnant women say and then change their mind? Do you think I should bring it up again or just wait and see? I would feel horrible if something were to happen to her baby and if she were to claim she wasn't aware of the risk of SIDS, and that i didn't say anything. I also don't want to come off as miss-know-it-all.
What would you do?