undomestic
~Baby girl due November~
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I'm still torn, as baby isn't due for another few months, about where baby is going to sleep..
I know lots of people who have had their babies in their crib from day one and their babies are fine.. And they saved themselves the co-sleeping nightmare of trying to get the baby to sleep in their own room.. My sister co-slept with her daughter, and refused to do it with the second one, because at 5, her daughter still won't sleep through the night in her own bed. Her son, on the other hand, who was in the crib from the beginning, can be put down awake in his bed, and will put himself to sleep.
There's so many recommendations.. If you plan on saying something to your sister-in-law, judge the time and place you choose to bring it up.. and maybe, say something like, "I was just reading this article and it brought up an interesting point about SIDS.. I'm sure you'd find it interesting" and then give her the article and leave it. Don't bring it up again.. That way you can feel better that you've done your part, and maybe she won't find it as a cause for getting defensive.
I know lots of people who have had their babies in their crib from day one and their babies are fine.. And they saved themselves the co-sleeping nightmare of trying to get the baby to sleep in their own room.. My sister co-slept with her daughter, and refused to do it with the second one, because at 5, her daughter still won't sleep through the night in her own bed. Her son, on the other hand, who was in the crib from the beginning, can be put down awake in his bed, and will put himself to sleep.
There's so many recommendations.. If you plan on saying something to your sister-in-law, judge the time and place you choose to bring it up.. and maybe, say something like, "I was just reading this article and it brought up an interesting point about SIDS.. I'm sure you'd find it interesting" and then give her the article and leave it. Don't bring it up again.. That way you can feel better that you've done your part, and maybe she won't find it as a cause for getting defensive.