overcomer79
LT-TTC success 3.5yrs
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Not meaning to be rude or offensive, but I think you need to let her raise her baby how she sees fit. Nothing worse than advice from a thousand other people as I'm sure you remember.
Based on my needs, my partner's needs, and of course bubby's needs I've raised each of my children differently. Whatever worked for us worked for us, if you know what I mean. Sometimes that meant ignoring 'recommended advice', and it definitely meant ignoring advice from friends, family members and random strangers down the street.
She'll figure it all out, and ask for advice if she feels she needs it.
This. DS slept in his room from the start. I decided to "follow medical advice" with dd and have her in our room. It was a big mistake as she was an over stimulated baby who required her own space. We didn't sleep for months. I wish we knew she wanted her own space but she can't tell us. All she did all night was scream. She passed out at 6am in her carseat (getting her ready for daycare) from pure exhaustion. Sometimes "medical advice" doesn't work for all families nor babies.