single...and thats the way!

[graceS]

The ex texted me this

"grace i have been thinking and me, mum and dad dont want anything to do with you or the baby after this msg. The balls in your court if you keep it or not. The offer is still there for wednesday if you decide to get rid of it."

(I has an appoitment for an abortion wednesday but i CANT do it)

After
My mum and his mum spoke....
Made it clear they dont want anything to do with it.


=[

Boyssss....i hate them!

 

[Charlotte-j]

what a prick.
if u do keep it, im sure your be a great mum
u dont need him

 

[Pyrrhic]

Morons.

So he's man enough to do the deed, but not take responsibility for his actions.

Well it's their loss when you're holding your gorgeous baby and watching it grow up. They're the ones losing out on a grandchild and child.

 

[graceS]

I am keeping it!! Hes not bullying me to get rid of it nooo way!
They will all change there minds seeing i can cope and they see me walking down the street.
=]
oh yer they also said i wont be able to cope!
Im show them all wrong!!

 

[Jkelmum]

I was 14 when this happened to me then again at 18 ...I now have 3 children and married to my youngest dad with another on the way ....I know its hard now but you will come thru this wishing you all the luck in the world if you ever wanna chat pm me
hugs Serina xx

 

[v2007]

My 1st daughters dad begged me to terminate my pregnancy when i was 16 i refused and she is now a healthy 8 yr old. She was the best decision i ever made.

Have a happy and healthy pregnancy.

Your gonna do so well.

V x x

 

[graceS]

thank you.
i just dont really no and understand how some one can not have anything to do with there own child.
x

 

[Janisdkh]

I am glad you are keeping the baby. You will find someone better. Imagine you have the abortion and you break up soon anyways. He doesnt sound like he cares about. As for his family wow what morons..

 

[Serene123]

Have the baby and take him to court for all the money you can gettttt

 

[Janisdkh]

Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[graceS]

he will be giving me money!!!!!!
i`ll make sue ov that.
I no what his mum is like im just so scareed they will try to get the baby took off me for him and them to hav.

 

[v2007]

Yip take him to court, tbh i hear more and more stories bout how these blokes make babies and just leave the Mums to look after them.
He clearly is a pig.
He may even change his mine when your stalk lands but by then the damage may have already have been done.

V x x x

 

[Pyrrhic]

I no what his mum is like im just so scareed they will try to get the baby took off me for him and them to hav.

They can't do that without good reason hun, ie you are an unfit mother who is unable to look after her child's basic needs.

Remember to record every contact you have with them from now on just in case.

 

[LilMama2be]

Well, it's kind of the opposite for me.
My ex .. i think he wants to be involved.
But mom doesn't really care if he helps or not. its his choice.
ANd if he doesn't, she wont even force him to pay child support...
because she's afraid he wont treat the baby right.

 

[Younglutonmum]

Twatsssssssssssssss

 

[princess_vix]

You'll do just great without him!!

You don't need him you got a gorgeous baby on the way xx

 

[preciousmami]

Hun thats horrible..But dont go getting an abortion just because they arent going to be there the babys better off without him anyway if hes gonna be a prick like that!!
I wish it was that simple for me my ex is manipulating and Id prefer it if him and his mum said they didnt want anything to do with me and the baby instead of pretending they care and emotionally blackmailing me all the time
x

 

[PixieKitty]

Good to see you're keeping little one i'm sure you'll make a wonderful mum!
If he's so intent on not being part of the baby's life then have him sign over his rights, that way he can't have the baby taken off you.
I can't believe his parents are behaving this way, I mean I expect it of young men but you'd think they'd want to see their grandchild. Silly people.

 

[nikky0907]

Have the baby and take him to court for all the money you can gettttt

Agreed!

He doesn't get to decide this.You can at any time take him to court and file for financial support.It's his responsibility too.

 

[Faerie]

I agree with what rafwife said, you need to make sure you're documenting any of his messages, just in case they try and turn things around in the future.
Good on you for standing up for yourself.