*Single Parenting Rant Thread*

[Rhio92]

I managed to lower the cot, aaaall by myself. Which I'm proud of as there were no instructions and my brother fucked it up. Simple, but I'm proud FOB can take a running jump!

 

[moomin_troll]

i built all of coreys nursery set myself at 5 months pregnant without a man insight lol DIY is easier then men make it look thats for sure

 

[Rhio92]

i built all of coreys nursery set myself at 5 months pregnant without a man insight lol DIY is easier then men make it look thats for sure

Yeah, the stand there banging and sweating and making a mess, and turn round and say 'ooo it's so hard, you wouldn't be able to do it love'. Can we? Hell YEEEEAH!

 

[moomin_troll]

the only thing in my house i needed men to build was my bed because its a 2 man job and i wasnt willing to even try that hahaha

 

[Ginger84]

So frustrated- sold the joint family home at ex DH's request and cause i cant afford the mortgage on my own. Got a moving date in a couple of weeks and FOB has suddenly annouced he is going of the South of bloody France with his girlfriend so wont be able to help with the move!

Not only did he leave with nothing from the house and has left me to clear out junk, sell it, now pack it and then move somewhere else on my own. Cant even watch his son while i move.

His house, his crap, his son but why am i always left to do EVERYTHING! All while he suns himself on holiday.

what an arse.

 

[emalou90]

So frustrated- sold the joint family home at ex DH's request and cause i cant afford the mortgage on my own. Got a moving date in a couple of weeks and FOB has suddenly annouced he is going of the South of bloody France with his girlfriend so wont be able to help with the move!

Not only did he leave with nothing from the house and has left me to clear out junk, sell it, now pack it and then move somewhere else on my own. Cant even watch his son while i move.

His house, his crap, his son but why am i always left to do EVERYTHING! All while he suns himself on holiday.

what an arse.

FOB told me to leave as he didnt want to be a dad anymore and i left him with all my shit i didnt want.. i grabbed everything i needed and wanted and left..
why did i have to struggle with our 5 1/2 month old and pack all the stuff up..


a year later. the house is sold and all my crap is gone haha



sorry about your arse of an ex

 

[wishuwerehere]

I am just generally scared of being alone and being a failure. Thats my rant ... this wasnt how I planned my life and I feel so crap its turned out so bad apart from having a gorgeous little boy x

Couldn't have written that better myself. Very annoying that FOB is swanning around playing 'happy families' with his new girlfriend and my son when it should have been me. Grrr

Ditto

FOB's been suspended from work For not turning up! Today, we were arguing and he came up with a list of things he's done for Connor... That he blates made up!
My german friend has invited me and Connor to stay for a few weeks, but we can't ecause Dickhead refuses to let Con have a passport!
Aaaand I have a headache, and crave a slushie, the house is a mess but cba to move

Apply for one anyway! Unless he has the forsight to have written to the passport office expressing his wish for his son not to have a passport you don't actually need anything from him to get one (I should know - FOB is on Issy's birth certificate but didn't know she had a passport until I told him we were going to Spain a few months after I'd got it...)

 

[littlekitten8]

Yeah your the mum so you can get a passport without dads permission. I am in the process of doing just that lol

 

[moomin_troll]

im feeling so tired today, all i wana do is go bed! i dont drive and ive got to go see the mw today and taking zane with me isnt easy, especialy when hes in a mood and doesnt want to leave the house
im tempted to get a taxi instead of the 2 buses but none of them around here supply a carseat and i dont fancy dragging mine around.

i have no idea on taxi rules about young children traveling.

im in a right mood today if u couldnt tell by my moaning lol

 

[justlove]

im feeling so tired today, all i wana do is go bed! i dont drive and ive got to go see the mw today and taking zane with me isnt easy, especialy when hes in a mood and doesnt want to leave the house
im tempted to get a taxi instead of the 2 buses but none of them around here supply a carseat and i dont fancy dragging mine around.

i have no idea on taxi rules about young children traveling.

im in a right mood today if u couldnt tell by my moaning lol

Can you not ask your MW to to come out to you? When I didnt need to have blood taken mine would come out to me, even after I had baby the HV would come just to weigh baby as it was such a hike/drama for me to get to the clinic as I dont drive either.


My rant today.......... gesh I'm so friggin tired so am feeling very emotional today!

 

[moomin_troll]

my mw knows my situation and no she wont come out to me last appointment i went to she was 30 mins late and i had to get zane from nursery.

after this appointment i think im just going to refuse to go into the surgery because i really dont see how they expect a very pregnant woman to get to them with a toddler in tow

 

[emalou90]

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i love you girls
you've been there for me (some of you) since the day of my BFP!
so thankful to have you.

 

[littlekitten8]

Urgh im shattered! And James was doing everything possible to make me late this morning. And now I've been at work all day and since I've got home hes done nothing but whinge and moan and make a nuisance of himself. And I sooooo can't cope with it tonight lol.

 

[emalou90]

aw, littlekitten shove him off to bed asap! grab the wine and get relaxing!

 

[justlove]

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[moomin_troll]

i love zanes bedtime! lol
zanes been moaning so much recently and today he had a total melt down and was going crazy at me screaming. so hes now im bed and ive got my feet up till i have to do the kitchen.

these are the times i miss having someone around so i can just sit on my ass and make them do the housework

 

[Rhio92]

I've got some new shoes, and for some reason, they've made my feet absolutely stink And it's toolate to have a shower...
I'm feeing pretty pissed off... But then I think, it's only my feet I'm dealing with. FOB used to come home with work every night absolutely effing reeking. And I don't miss that at all

 

[moomin_troll]

its never too late for a shower, or u can just shower ur feet if they are that bad hahaha

 

[Rhio92]

I did in the end Felt so rank, just coudn't cope lol Have now invested in some odourease

I love MIL (FOB's mum's nickname)

 

[emalou90]

i have a tub of raspberry ripple ice cream...

its half empty..

i am armed with a spoon.

bring it on.