What helped us a little was routine. Before bed time every night we would nurse her, change her diaper, lay her in her cribgive her her binky, lay her GiGi (Gentle Giraffe stuffed animal) in her arms, turn on her mobile, tuck her in and turn off the lights. When she would wake up in the middle of the night we would do it all again (Even if she wasn't wet) the routine helped her to know that it was bedtime.
Also, everyone has their own routine. Please do not tell me I should give her her stuffed animal or a blanket, etc. This is how my daughter sleeps and she has never had an issue.
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