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If you guys talk about commitment, get married first! If youre not ready for that step, then youre not ready for a baby. A baby really need a mommy and a daddy in a strong committed relationship aka marriage. I know there are many single mommas out there doing a great job, but research shows a baby does so much better having both there! Im not against age, just not being married first.
Im sorry but thats just nonsense, if you're of the opinion that getting married comes before children then thats your choice but its by no means a 'bigger' commitment than having a child.
Marriage is just a piece of paper that from experience means nothing and is a pain in the ass to get out of. I was previously like you thinking that marriage before children was the 'appropriate' way to do things but have since learned that's a load of rubbish.
Finding the right partner is the main thing before having a child, most certainly doesn't mean you need to be married to them
If you guys talk about commitment, get married first! If youre not ready for that step, then youre not ready for a baby. A baby really need a mommy and a daddy in a strong committed relationship aka marriage. I know there are many single mommas out there doing a great job, but research shows a baby does so much bett
er having both there! Im not against age, just not being married first.
Im sorry you dont see the importance and commitment of a long term relationship in marriage. It should be the most important relationship here on earth and the best circumstance for a baby in a happy and healthy, committed marriage relationship.
Just because there are millions of people out there doing something, it doesnt make it right.
Just because there are millions of people out there doing something, it doesnt make it right.
Unbelievable, go out there and get some life experience.......
Life experience with what? I know what goes on, doesnt make it right. I cant believe people are getting upset over a pro marriage person here. Get some morals.
Lets be supportive and open minded.
Lets be supportive and open minded.
Sorry Jess, it just irritates me when people can't appreciate that people live their lives in different ways and have different morals. I'm not anti-marriage but the world is a much bigger, diverse and exciting place to consider that's the only thing to do before having a child.... You could be married and be a complete idiot so does that mean its fine to go and have a child? I'm guessing no so the bigger picture is to be considered and of course variety is the spice of life!!
Whats the point of asking or posting things if were only suppossed to be supportive and agree with the posters? Sometimes people do disagree or have other opinions, its ok. I think its rediculous we get reported as soon as we disagree with someone. Sometimes people are making bad choices...sometimes its not necessarily good to be "open minded"....it can be a good thing to have a strong view point one way or another. I feel like its hard to get real honest answers on bnb because it always seems no matter what the issue were only supposed to agree with the posters.
Lets be supportive and open minded.
Sorry Jess, it just irritates me when people can't appreciate that people live their lives in different ways and have different morals. I'm not anti-marriage but the world is a much bigger, diverse and exciting place to consider that's the only thing to do before having a child.... You could be married and be a complete idiot so does that mean its fine to go and have a child? I'm guessing no so the bigger picture is to be considered and of course variety is the spice of life!!
I reported this thread a day ago because I knew it was going to get hot button. My request for supportive and open minded communication was to everyone, so no need for sorry Monkey, wasn't just at you, but all of us, even me.
BnB is full of many different types of families and people and we should be open minded to all of them.
There are many different types of life experiences and all worthwhile.
Moral is defined as behaving with right conduct. What is 'right' is personal, and dear to many of us. That our morals are different from the person standing next to us, does not make them any less right.
Children who grow up in single parent households, and traditional households, are equally loved and healthy and happy and good.
Lets just be accepting girls Try to keep our language polite and open to people with all beliefs and ideas.