kaz29
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I work for a loan company and i go around collecting. I went to a customers house yesterday and ive had problems wiv him b 4 - anyway he cdame out wiv a payment book which is something he has never brought out before or to the door and he asked me how much he owed i look at my info and it said £103 and he says "no its wrong that it should be £83 my girlfriend has been marking this book everytime she paid u so £20 has gone missing somewhere" so i asked why they hadnt brought me the book for me to mark as i had asked them before if they had their book but they said they had lost it and he goes "well its YOUR responsibility to mark this book and ask for it" which i explained that i had asked a while ago and if its not brought to me i cant walk in his house and get it myself, anyway i said ok i would get my boss to take a loook and if there is any thing not right i would pay for it out my wages (i dont have to but by this time he was getting intimidating) and he said i WILL pay for it because he is right and i am wrong to which i said to please not be funny wiv me as i am pregnant and i am getting upset(i had visible tears in my eyes at this point)
But u know when people wont let u speak well he kept cutting me up and it was almost impossible to stay calm i could feel myself getting more angry and i was about to flip so i took this book and said i would hand it into my boss for her to sort it to which he snatched and i mean he really snatched it out my hands and said "oh no u dont, your not getting your hands on that book" so i then said i could no longer stand there and talk to him and i walked off and this is what he said as i walked off "u have been screwing me over for weeks wiv it and i am fed up, your nothing but a theif "
I cant believe he called me that, i just ignored him to stay professional or else we would of had a very big row in the middle of the st and he would of had a pregnant crying enraged female on his hands.
Anyway i rang my boss there and then told her i was upset and what had happend and what was said told her i would no longer call at that customers house and she said ok and that becuse his girlfreind had marked this payment book that he had no leg to stand on cause i never signed for any payment and he could easily make it up and say he had paid more.
Anyway i have not stolen £20 off him, but i then picked up my boyfriend as he got dropped off from work and he was coming wiv me while i did my round and i told him and he lost the plot, said if i didnt take him down there he was going to walk it he stormed off to which i followed him 5 times in the car begging him to get back in and not loose me my job but he was that mad he would not listen, everntually i got hysterical and he got back in my car to which we had a very very big argument and we ended finishing (such a fucking traumatic day) i swear my bf thinks he is batman, he kept saying that if he disrespects me then he disrespects him and that it was no longer about me but it had now become about him. It was awful conversation and argument.
Anyway the trouble one person causes. My oh said that i am the most honest person he has ever met and it enrages him that the prick would call me a theif.
But my oh said some pretty nasty comments last nite as did i when i retaliated and i am not happy at all.
He is intense.....all i want is a peacful life and to enjoy my pregnancy so far ladies the truth is that i have not been able to because of other people around me causing me problems its weird, its like they see me as vulnerable and think to themselves that Kaz isnt going to get any special treatment as we need her to be strong for us etc.....this is from my family as well as OH. I feel like i have done nothing but take on other peoples anxieties and had to reasure them over this pregnancy while ive ended missing out on being able to get excited and be happy as other people treat it like its something to fear.
When i saw that line comt up on that test i had the biggest smile on my face. I was told i would need IVF and i was gutted but i got preg within 5 months of trying and it was all natural so i was so so happy.
I will never forget those people around me spoiling this for me, i want more children but i have been put off now. I wouldnt have another with my OH as he has been the worst one of them all, totally been all about him and his anxieties and ive had to take the brunt of his anger, fears and frustration and also his denial over our daughter. Only now is he starting to excpet i am having a baby his baby and i am 9 months.
My mum is the same, - selfish people when it comes to emotional support and ive been invisible
God llok whats come out over a story about work....must of needed that
But u know when people wont let u speak well he kept cutting me up and it was almost impossible to stay calm i could feel myself getting more angry and i was about to flip so i took this book and said i would hand it into my boss for her to sort it to which he snatched and i mean he really snatched it out my hands and said "oh no u dont, your not getting your hands on that book" so i then said i could no longer stand there and talk to him and i walked off and this is what he said as i walked off "u have been screwing me over for weeks wiv it and i am fed up, your nothing but a theif "
I cant believe he called me that, i just ignored him to stay professional or else we would of had a very big row in the middle of the st and he would of had a pregnant crying enraged female on his hands.
Anyway i rang my boss there and then told her i was upset and what had happend and what was said told her i would no longer call at that customers house and she said ok and that becuse his girlfreind had marked this payment book that he had no leg to stand on cause i never signed for any payment and he could easily make it up and say he had paid more.
Anyway i have not stolen £20 off him, but i then picked up my boyfriend as he got dropped off from work and he was coming wiv me while i did my round and i told him and he lost the plot, said if i didnt take him down there he was going to walk it he stormed off to which i followed him 5 times in the car begging him to get back in and not loose me my job but he was that mad he would not listen, everntually i got hysterical and he got back in my car to which we had a very very big argument and we ended finishing (such a fucking traumatic day) i swear my bf thinks he is batman, he kept saying that if he disrespects me then he disrespects him and that it was no longer about me but it had now become about him. It was awful conversation and argument.
Anyway the trouble one person causes. My oh said that i am the most honest person he has ever met and it enrages him that the prick would call me a theif.
But my oh said some pretty nasty comments last nite as did i when i retaliated and i am not happy at all.
He is intense.....all i want is a peacful life and to enjoy my pregnancy so far ladies the truth is that i have not been able to because of other people around me causing me problems its weird, its like they see me as vulnerable and think to themselves that Kaz isnt going to get any special treatment as we need her to be strong for us etc.....this is from my family as well as OH. I feel like i have done nothing but take on other peoples anxieties and had to reasure them over this pregnancy while ive ended missing out on being able to get excited and be happy as other people treat it like its something to fear.
When i saw that line comt up on that test i had the biggest smile on my face. I was told i would need IVF and i was gutted but i got preg within 5 months of trying and it was all natural so i was so so happy.
I will never forget those people around me spoiling this for me, i want more children but i have been put off now. I wouldnt have another with my OH as he has been the worst one of them all, totally been all about him and his anxieties and ive had to take the brunt of his anger, fears and frustration and also his denial over our daughter. Only now is he starting to excpet i am having a baby his baby and i am 9 months.
My mum is the same, - selfish people when it comes to emotional support and ive been invisible
God llok whats come out over a story about work....must of needed that