Soy Cycle Buddies 2019 <3 1BFP on second soy cycle 2 BFPs Non-soy cycle

[Tesh23]

Hey girls!

So AF is due today or tomorrow latest.

Yesterday I was extremely bloated and cramped so bad I thought ok any second now and I’m going to come on. I thought I did at one point as I felt leaky. We were out with ds at a play center and I told dh ok it’s time to go lol

But it was just a lot of milky wet cm. Not getting my hopes up because I’m definitely expecting AF. Today just have that yellow snotty cm when I check which is what I had last cycle.

I’m really glad I held off testing this cycle (except that once lol the temptation!) but I feel next cycle I will be even more relaxed as I’m only like in half a mind now ttc as I’ve got a busier schedule now.

Sweden if you put in one more high temp on your chart does it give u cross hairs?

 

[Anababe]

Sweden I thought the same, it will maybe give you crosshairs if tomorrow’s temp is up. Fingers crossed!

Tesh I have felt that wet feeling last couple of days, it’s scared me a few times and I keep having to run to the bathroom. But I do also have the snotty cm before af (although I had it this cycle too!) so I guess it could go either way.

Symptoms are really kicking in now for me at 12dpo. Heartburn is starting in the evenings now. I woke up this morning with tingling in my boobs mainly my right one, they don’t feel any different in size yet but are definitely getting more sore. I’ve been really nauseous last two days and getting Hot flashes and lightheaded when doing my cleaning this morning.

I do also keep getting these achey cramps which is worrying me slightly but I have to keep reminding myself if I was giving other people advice I’d be saying it’s totally normal and not to worry about it! Not so easy when it’s yourself I guess.

Aww I so hope your both joining me very soon! Ive stopped the charting now so I don’t get stressed about temp drops etc but the TTC is so built in me the first thing I did this morning was come on here and check your charts to see what your temps are doing today haha

 

[swedengirl]

I really hope AF doesn’t show up for you Tesh!! Really hope I can be good with the testing this cycle like you’ve been!

If I add a higher temp tomorrow it puts Ov at 19dpo but I’m certain I’ve not ovulated yet. We have had crazy temperature changes and I’ve been a bit sick so I think my temps are off. My cervix feels like it’s beginning to soften today so my guess is I might ov tomorrow. I normally dry out one CP is low and hard. I think I’m a bit dehydrated so upped the water to see if it helps CM. We are BDing every other day this cycle thankfully as we’d be burnt out going everyday and this late Ov!

 

[swedengirl]

Sorry forgot to add my bit for you Anababe!

I think it’s great you’ve stopped temping as I think that would add anxiety. I think the cramping is totally normal, I had af like cramps for the first few weeks with DD on and off. Especially with the increasing symptoms!

Really hope Tesh and I will be joining you too!

 

[Tesh23]

I hope so too Sweden

I’ve read somewhere thatvtemps will bd more accurate than cm or cp in detecting O, but not sure if that’s right.

Every other day def seems the way to go or it just becomes too much. You are def well covered this cycle!

Ana your symptoms do seem so similar to mine, even the right boob hurting more lol. Today I’m just sleepy with a headache, slightly bloated and tender boobs but all that is very AF’y. I should get my spotting for AF today at least. No cramps today.

Will u being a digi tomorrow? I can’t wait to see your test!

 

[Anababe]

Well hopefully she stays away Tesh. You have done so good for not testing this cycle! Your symptoms do sound promising though. Still no sign of af?

I’ll do a digi on Tuesday morning when I get out to the shops but the tests are getting darker on the cheapies. I’ll be happy when I see it in words!

 

[Tesh23]

Pretty sure AF will be here tomorrow on time, because I’m sure ff got it wrong that I ovulated on cd12, I’m sure it was cd14. No cramping at all today or pinching. Just boobs are sore esp the right one and a bit bloated. Cm was a creamy when I checked but was just very little.

I surprised myself with not testing too I think I’m a bit over it lol

Can’t wait to see the digi on Tuesday! Getting progression on ic’s Is excellent definitely a good sign

 

[swedengirl]

I really hope I can follow in your path Tesh with the testing when I finally hit the TWW!

My CM has gone watery. Cervix still HMO but has moments where It has been softer during the day. I’m guessing Ov might come tomorrow as 99% certain it’s yet to happen. If not I hope my temp is lower tomorrow so I have a clearer chart!! It’s been an odd cycle this one- let’s hope off is good!

 

[FaithnHope41]

Hey Faith!

No still no Ov for me. Actually not sure what’s going on with my body this cycle. Had EWCM for past 7 days, not got fully SHOW yet so expected it to happen today but woke to a high open cervix but very dry. Had bad cramping yesterday so hoped it would happen yesterday or today but still waiting! Been pretty relaxed so far but now I’m getting stressed and scared I might no Ov this cycle!

Dang it! I know that has to be frustrating. :/ Are you using your kits this time around?

 

[swedengirl]

No I decided to stay off the kits and take a relaxed approach this month as it got too insane last month!

I’m nearly SHOW today although FF marked me as 3dpo today. But I’m certain I’ve not Oved yet! I’m always low and hard within 48 hours of O.

Tesh praying AF doesn’t show for you today!!

 

[Tesh23]

Sweden your temps and cm don’t seem to be coordinating yet but you know your body, and I would go with that. A lot of things can affect our temps without us knowing too so I wouldn’t rely solely on it.

If you’re finally show today then you def will ovulate soon. Fx it is today or tomorrow!

No signs of AF yet. Got milky/creamy cm this morning when I checked which is odd for before AF. Boobs also feel fuller and more sore. Temp also crept up slightly today and feeling the slightest bit of nausea but it quite possibly could be in my head.

Still plenty of time for AF to show today (would be great if she didn’t!) wishful thinking lol. Will take a test tomorrow if I don’t come on today. No cramps yesterday or today so far.

 

[Anababe]

Morning!

Sweden hope you ov today and you can get on with your tww! Strange how your temps and cm are not matching up at the moment. Fingers crossed something happens soon!

Tesh! Your temp is up.. and no pre af spotting or cramps? Omg your so good for waiting til tomorrow to test especially after that ‘out of timeframe’ faint line haha I so so hope AF stays away and you get your BFP. Have you got a test ready to take in the morning or are you waiting til later on In the day?

Ok so I’ve been sick this morning, Which is really odd for me, I do get severe sickness but not usually til 5-6 weeks. I’m definitely feeling pregnant right now and I would have just known if I’d not tested so far.

My sense of smell is crazy last couple of days so that definitely would have given it away lol I feel a bit anxious because I’ve not tested for a couple of days so I feel like I need to see progression. But I guess strong symptoms are always a good sign!

 

[swedengirl]

Yay that AF is still away Tesh!

Anababe love that you’re getting strong symptoms- maybe the early sickness is a sign of twins?!?

Ok I’m genuinely so confused this month. Never had Ovulation so unclear. I’m now thinking I have Ovd, as my CP is moving down and Cm going sticky/creamy. But when I have no idea. I guess I’ll have to trust the temps and go with Friday. I’m going to BD tomorrow just in case, and then my OH is away until Sunday so it doesn’t really make any difference. So here’s to not really knowing what’s going on and adding to the more it’ll be what it’ll be month!

 

[Tesh23]

Two tiny red spots the size of a full stop . when I checked cm just now along with ewcm - prob wouldn’t have noticed it if I didn’t check.

This means af should be on time today.

Glad I didn’t spend too much on tests this month! Onto next cycle without soy.

Sweden if you go by your chart then it def seems you have ovulated and it seems about the right time for ovulation for you as well. An extra bd can’t hurt but you’re realllly well covered this cycle so yay! And welcome to the tww!

Ana at least you will get to test tomorrow to put your mind at ease but for now (in the nicest possible way) I’m really glad you’re feeling sick! Strong symptoms are most definitely an excellent and hopeful sign right about now. You’ve got a strong bean in there!

Will update once AF shows

 

[swedengirl]

Oh sorry AF is appearing to be showing her evil head Tesh! But yay to not spending hours obsessing over lines and a fortune to do that! I’m really taking a page from your book this cycle and hope to hold out! Should be easier seeing I’ve only just realised I’m in the TWW at 3dpo!

AF is due on the 8th and 8 is my lucky number so Fx! I have a FRER and a digi and will start with the FRER if AF isn’t here by the 8th.

I’ve decided I won’t do soy next cycle if I don’t get my BFP.

 

[Anababe]

Ahh sorry af look like she’s going to arrive Tesh. But you have done really well not testing this time and keeping it more relaxed.

Sweden, yay for being 3 days into your tww without even realising! I’d def go with FF and the temps. Hope you manage to hold off on the testing, but my line eyes are always here to have a look if you do give in early!

Hope you don’t mind me still hanging around here! I’ve not been brave enough to move over to the pregnancy boards yet but Af would have been due today so I may pop in to say hello over there soon. Bit scary making that step, still not really sure I believe it! Lol

 

[Anababe]

Oh forgot to add, Sweden it’s funny you should mention twins.. I was thinking about that last night when I went to bed feeling sick.. can’t the soy make you release more eggs. No twins in my family but that would be amazing!

 

[swedengirl]

Yes! You have a 5% chance of twins when taking soy I read somewhere compared to the normal chance of 0.45%! So ten times more likely! Glad you look at it positively, it terrifies me a bit, although of course I’d be happy!

Glad you’re hanging around- stay with us as long as you want to!!

 

[Anababe]

Yeah it would terrify me too!! But still would be super pleased.

Any sign of AF yet Tesh?

Just done another cheap strip test and I think it’s def getting stronger now? It does still seem quite faint though. I’m 12/13dpo today.

 

[Tesh23]

Ana of course we would love you to stick around for as long as possible! It’s been great having you girls these past couple of months

I think those cheap tests have a pretty strong line for 12/13dpo considering the sensitivity isn’t the best! I’m positive your digi will be BFP as well tomorrow.

No sign of AF yet, but maybe she will show later this evening