Evening ladies,
Thought I would come back and post about my TTC journey as promised.
I started TTC in December, but we were NTNP before that. I have really irregular cycles - my longest was over 200 days! I tried Agnus Castus but it really didnt seem to do much. I was a bit wary of taking soy as I had read that it made some peoples cycles worse, and that it had given them cysts etc - but I thought, what the heck, my cycles cant get much worse and i'll just be sensible with it!
So in May I tried soy for the first time - 120mg, 80mg, 80mg, 80mg, 120mg (I think it was) on days 5-9. To my amazement I ovulated on CD16 - which NEVER happens with me!! We BD'd at the right time, but low and behold the witch got me.
So in June I tried soy again, this time taking a higher dose and I tried days 4-8 and took 120mg, 120mg, 120mg, 160mg, 200mg. This time, I didn't ovulate until day 46! Once again the witch got me.
So I decided one last ditch attempt at soy was needed - I couldn't risk a 4th cycle because I was worried about the side effects. Thank god, it was 3rd time lucky for soy!!
For this cycle I decided to try it on days 3-7 as I had seen a lot of women get pregnant using it on these days. I decided that based on my last cycle, less is more - so i opted for 120mg, 80mg, 80mg, 120mg.... and FORGOT to take it on the last day!! I was gutted and thought 'oh well, that was a waste of a soy cycle!'.
We only BD'd twice, just before ov - usually I BD the life out of him lol. I drank wine on 2 DPO, drank caffeinated coffee instead of the decaff I had been drinking for months, stopped taking supplements, didn't use preseed, didn't chart my temp regularly, and ate rubbish! I really was not expecting a BFP this month as you can tell. But somehow, here I am! Perhaps it was just taking a step back and not obsessing over it that helped in the end.
I cant say I had many symptoms - Ive had more 'symptoms' in months where I got BFN's! The think I did notice was from about 9DPO I started going to the toilet a lot - I got up 5 times in one night for a pee, it was ridiculous!! I also had a lot of heart burn. I still dont 'feel' pregnant - I keep expecting to go to the toilet and see the witch has arrived!
I am keeping my FX that all you lovely ladies get to join me soon!!! xxxx
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