SPA -Stick Pee-ers Anonymous - 3 Babies, 3 BFPs and 2TTCers catching up!

[clacko]

That's exactly what mine was like. It sounds like ovulation bleeding to me, I think the change in hormones can cause the brown, something like as ovulation approaches
Your body gets rid of left over blood maybe with it been brown :-/ dunno, mine lasted a week, one day it stopped and had it the next day then didn't have it againx

 

[Cookie_88]

Hmmm. Maybe it is then? Shall see if it makes a difference then lol.
Oh is working late so hoping he's not too tired when he gets home for some bding lol xxx

 

[clacko]

If he seems tired just get yourself some sexy underwear on and sit on his lap while he watches tv and start kissing him! He won't say no haha

 

[Cookie_88]

Lol. I've done the dressed up in heels before. Always works. But he's on his way home now so dinner then doggy dancing commences lol xxxx

 

[Cookie_88]

Morning all. Hope your all well.
So this morning I was expecting my peak reading on my ov kit but instead got my 4th day of high. Very confused. Hoping to get a peak tomorrow now lol xxx

 

[karine]

oh you girls are so lucky to have fun bding.. all our bding has become so sort of blah.. we just get it done, end of story. i would love cuddles or god, even a bit of a roughness but dh is a little bit of a prude i dunno, my friends say all couples go thru this stage, and we have been together for a looong time (since i was 22, which makes it almost 14 years).. problem is i've gotten really close to this guy in the family and recently i've been feeling some weirdness.. i dunno if it's feelings or just that i feel attached because he gives me all the attention dh doesn't. don't worry, i haven't been slutty and done anything i'm not proud of (i would never cheat), i just feel funny when i see him and i think it's the same for him. so i've decided to put an end to our friendship as best as i can, it'll be hard as he's a member of dh's family, but we can avoid each other if we try. it's just so weird, i feel like we get each other and i'm more compatible with him than dh i wish i could go on vacation for a year to get away, this is so strange and confusing for me. i feel so bad for feeling this way, i haven't told anyone but you all.

i just feel like i can be honest cookie, that piece of advice you gave clacko about feigning illness is so me, i can't tell you the number of times i've done that! i just hope you girls don't think less of me. this feels so sucky. i feel like dh is more like my best friend, you know? all the passion is gone and i dunno how to get it back and i think not being able to get pregnant is taking a toll too..

anyhoo.. witchypoo came a day late! was getting excited but she spoiled everything. should be getting to see a doctor next week. will keep you posted, my spa girls xx

hugs and buttyplugs

 

[Cookie_88]

Karine! Sending huge hugs your way!!!!
Trust me I know how your feeling hunni. Last year when oh was working harvest my first bf got in touch again. I thought I felt something and when he messages me I felt like someone was interested. I then had an amazing snugly night with OH and realised how stupid I was being. I'm not saying your being stupid at all Hun. But I understand how it feels to get some attention and affection. But really, it's not worth it sweetie. I don't think you are wanting to follow these feelings, but trust me sweetie it's easy to be lead. OMG I'm sounding like a right whore lol.
But I do think that you and DH need to spend some quality time together. Have you read 50 shades if grey? Me and OH managed to enjoy those books together and trust me, our sex life has improved dramatically. We are alot more experimental which is sooooo much fun and takes away that chore feeling of dtd. I know this is all tmi but our sex life has deff improved from trying new things. There's so much out there which is tame if your OH isn't in to the hard core stuff yet. It's easy to get stuck in your ways but trust me, once you start experimenting then all the doors open.

I hope this doesn't sound lecturing. It's cos I care and want to share from my similar feelings and experiences. Sending all my love your way sweetie. Big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[clacko]

Hey ladies!!! Sorry not replied, damn phone decided it didn't want to tell me I had messages....gggrrr

How are you both? The christening went ok, was as expected really! Didn't have to socialise too much apart from the family members we get on with! The silly witch who I hate was there. She's my ohs sister in laws sister ( my ohs ex) she always does her best to to try and make me feel threatened! I don't think I am gorgeous or anything but I'm far better looking than her and far better personality, her new partner turned up in track suit top and trainers!!! Classy! I dunno just hate been around her and so does oh! I decided drinking a bottle of wine would make things easier to get through haha so oh drove!

We dtd last night and was great! Think the wine might of added to that haha! Tmi we started to have a fondle on the sofa until the takeaway man came haha so had to put all else on hold!

Karine having feelings like that happens to us all, especially when things are a bit off with you oh! I'm sure after 14 years things do get into a bit of a routine! Like cookie said maybe try and introduce new things, maybe a surprise weekend away with oh, get some sexy lingere and some sexy high heels he will be all over you! Maybe you could try a bit of "dirty talk" during the act, tell him to do it harder or something see if be responds. You might be surprised! Maybe have a few drinks first together so your both more relaxed!

I don't mean to sound lecturing either, maybe trying to conceive has taken over sex as isn't a way to conceive and not love making anymore, need to spice it up a little bit and have some fun, jump him while he's sat watching tv lol!

I'm still another 2 weeks away from expected ovulation!!! its ages away! Might start my ovulation tests tomorrow though incase my body decides to try and fool me!

Butt plugs and doggy dancing x x x

 

[Cookie_88]

Fran, I don't know how you were able to be in the same room as OHs ex!!!! I'd be clawing her eyes out lol. Hope the wine helped though. I'm a Scorpio so def a bit if a bitch at times though lol.
Glad you and hubs have had some fun though. Can't beat precious times like that hey xxx

Karine, sending so much love your way sweetie xxxxx.

Afm - I'm now sitting on 6th!!!!!!! Day of high readings!!!!! So apparently I haven't ovulated yet?!? Sooooo confused lol xxxxx

 

[clacko]

I'm a super bitch at times and trust me its hard been in the same room as her! I had the same when we first got together and we went to his brother wedding and she was there and kept trying to touch oh and talk to him constantly! Could of killed her!

It wasn't easy at the christening but I didn't have to see her a great deal, the only thing she said to us was a stupid comment to oh about how much food he had on his plate. The due afterwards was at a farm in the family and I was not walking across a field in heels holding a plate so oh had mine, his and dds food all on one plate and she used that as an excuse to say something. I just gave her a killer look haha!

Ooooo maybe all these highs are going to be a super strong ovulation ? Xxz

 

[clacko]

I'm a super bitch at times and trust me its hard been in the same room as her! I had the same when we first got together and we went to his brother wedding and she was there and kept trying to touch oh and talk to him constantly! Could of killed her!

It wasn't easy at the christening but I didn't have to see her a great deal, the only thing she said to us was a stupid comment to oh about how much food he had on his plate. The due afterwards was at a farm in the family and I was not walking across a field in heels holding a plate so oh had mine, his and dds food all on one plate and she used that as an excuse to say something. I just gave her a killer look haha!

Ooooo maybe all these highs are going to be a super strong ovulation ? Xxz

 

[Cookie_88]

I'd of knocked the cow out!!!! Stupid bitch lol.
Hate that people can have something in you. Makes me super angry lol.

Nahhh, I'm thinking my kit is fooooooked! You can't have that many highs surely lol ccc

 

[clacko]

Maybe your just having a super long surge?!? Does it record what your cycles are like so it compares them month to month or anything like that? It's maybe just picking up your surge sooner than last month, least its giving you plenty of time to dtd! Do you test more than once a day? Xx

 

[Cookie_88]

No I've tested the sane days as last month. It doesn't compare them on the monitor, it's the cheaper one lol.
I've tested the same data as last month. Would be in the 2ww by now last month. So confused lol xxx

 

[clacko]

Awwww no fingers crossed you get your peak today! Maybe your going to have a strong ovulation which is why your having bleeding too!!! Oooooo maybe this month will be it xxx

 

[Cookie_88]

Another high today?!? Maybe the monitor is stuck on it. Might get OH to pee on it later and see if he's high too lol. The bleeding has stopped. I'm so bloody confused. Even if ov was later surely I shouldn't have this many highs? Damn ov kit x

 

[karine]

hi girlies thanks so much for the encouragement, i really need it these days, been feeling like the biggest bitch! believe me, i've tried so hard to spice things up, but dh never takes the bait, he's so shy when it comes to bding.. which is so strange because in the past it was the reverse! so strange but i'm going to keep trying because he is worth the effort (most of the time at least)

funny thing, over the weekend i saw callum (other guy, dh's cousin) at a birthday party, and callum's ex was there.. that's when i realized i may have a crush on him because i wanted to hit her over the head with a cast iron pot. she's so loud and annoying, she made dh bring her over to me to introduce us and when i realized who she was i walked into a wall. thankfully nobody saw that (when i get flustered i walk into doors and walls lol). so when i read your post clacko, i thought, haha, we spa girls are such bitches .. but seriously, sometimes you have to be a bitch!

anyway i'm working on getting c out of my head, haven't spoken to him since the party, i think he's avoiding me too, so that makes it easier kind of.

cookie, fx this is your month hun! and clacko, start testing and bding early, that sounds like a good plan! it doesn't hurt to try, right? i'm hoping to get an appointment with a good doctor next week, will keep you informed.

hugs and buttyplugs!
xo, k.

 

[Cookie_88]

Karine, I'm sending all my love your way. Believe it or not I'm shy with bding at times too. If oh wants me to take control in a more dominant way I panic. But when he's dominant with me I loooovvveees it. But of I've had a few glasses of vino that always helps I feel for you so much sweetie but try to stay strong. Those 50 shades of grey books really helped me and oh take chances and explore our sex life. I used to read him certain sentences too and then next thing I knew we had said toy. We enjoy our toys but don't use them all the time. Just every now and then lol. But it's so much fun. I love to meet him at the door in sexy lingerie and heels. I cook for him and he can't touch me til I say so. Again, vino for courage is needed for me lol.
Just don't let the spark die hunni. Keep things spiced up and read them books!!!!! Can't fault them. Great read for us girls and helped spice up the bedroom for us

Not feeling this is my month now. My ov kit has gone crazy so think we have missed fertile peak time. But heys hossss lol.

Love to you sweetie xxxxxxx

 

[clacko]

Hey ladies so I'm not due to ovulate for another week. Tested this morning and faint line but not positive but having pains in my right side like I do around ovulation! Will keep testing I think . Strange how I only get the lains on my right :-/

 

[karine]

hi girlies

cookie.. i'm gonna buy that book today! RAWR! i have one toy, dh turns beet red whenever i take it out and he promptly leaves the room, so now i just threaten him with it.. whenever he's misbehaving and annoying me, i whip it out and chase him around with it lol. so it's not being used properly! will work on changing that and the one time i waited at the door for him in a thong and a santa hat, he brought callum home (of all the people in the world he could possibly bring home!) without telling me and callum got to the door first! luckily i saw him in time and was able to make a hasty retreat to the bedroom. but i think he got a small glimpse of my fleeing bottom

clacko.. me too, af finished on sunday and i started getting the pains yesterday. so i think maybe we'll start trying from today, and just keep at it every other day because it seems i no longer ovulate 12 days into my cycle, i think it's all over the place now.

big hugs and buttyplugs! have a great day gals xo