Sperm Meets Egg Plan Chatter thread!

[amethyst77]

Ooh some positive signs for some of you, hope to hear about some s over next few days.

 

[honeybee28]

waiting4baby - i normally get positive opks arounf cd16/17, last month i got it cd21 so dont give up!!what cd are you on?

arein - hope you feel better soon hun.

got its tough this ttc stuff isnt it. so exciting yet soooo emotional and heartbreaking at times.

i quite like the 2ww, coz i can dream that i might be pregnant! i love it. i sit and imagine what it would be like to see the two pink lines, and to tell dh and stuff. ahhhhhh!!

hope everyone's doing ok and you are all planning fun weekends (i know its only tuesday, weekends are what keep me going!!), im going to see my bestest friend it's gonna be so fun i cant wait.
xxx

 

[ttcstill]

ttcstill- I called my OB, waiting to hear back. I think I'm about to have a high-speed come apart and it's going to be ugly. I'm feeling really irritable yesterday and today, like PMS-ish but ten-fold.

Oh no that is not good.... I started up again this afternoon so looks like AF will be leaving tomorrow that is normally how it plays out for me! Good luck let me know how it goes!

 

[soph77]

tryfor and honey I love the idea of walking through the door of the first tri together!

tryfor, I really feel for you. I am only going into my 5th cycle of trying, that is only a blip on the time line of what you and some others have been going for. I only know the longing and wanting and hurt I feel when I get af and can image how much you are hurting
I have wanted to start trying for another for years. I fell pg while on the pill 4 years ago and lost it at 8 weeks. I was only half way through uni and we were not even engaged then so the timing was terrible, but I wanted that baby so much and was heartbroken when it went. I wanted to start trying right away, but dh, the sensible one, made me realise that we would be in a better situation once I finished uni and were married and all that. It made sense, but I have been longing since then and am sure that we could have made it work. Now I wonder if waiting was the wrong thing to do.

I think it is great that you have an appointment with the specialist. You can get some answers and a game plan. Apart from that you just need to keep doing what you are doing and know that we are here for you

 

[soph77]

On the flip side - expected my temp to go down this morning for af but it went up.

 

[soph77]

Ness - I see you have your first midwife appointment coming up, how exciting!!!

 

[spencerbear]

Still no sign of AF and she is normally here by 11am on the day she is due. Im never late. Will have to try and get into town and grab a test at some point....if she doesnt show

 

[tryforbaby2]

On the flip side - expected my temp to go down this morning for af but it went up.

Soph, I am praying for you. Literally as I was typing this to you now, I paused, looked out my kitchen glass doors up to the chilly/cloudy sky and sent my prayer to God for you.

Sorry I am very emotional! lmao But, seriously, my prayers were sent and hopefully they are heard with good intentions.

Thank You Love You girls are the sweetest people in the world! And as I have said this before, it hurts us all the same during TTC. I think it would be amazing if we could all get our bfps together or even very close together

Thank You for your kind words

 

[honeybee28]

oooh soph thats exciting, whens af due?

yeah tryfor, i completely agree with soph. we're all here for you sweetpea.

night off from bding tonight, insurance bd tomorrow night. isnt ttc so romantic!?

 

[honeybee28]

Still no sign of AF and she is normally here by 11am on the day she is due. Im never late. Will have to try and get into town and grab a test at some point....if she doesnt show

oooh fx for you spencer!!

 

[soph77]

On the flip side - expected my temp to go down this morning for af but it went up.

Soph, I am praying for you. Literally as I was typing this to you now, I paused, looked out my kitchen glass doors up to the chilly/cloudy sky and sent my prayer to God for you.

Sorry I am very emotional! lmao But, seriously, my prayers were sent and hopefully they are heard with good intentions.

Thank You Love You girls are the sweetest people in the world! And as I have said this before, it hurts us all the same during TTC. I think it would be amazing if we could all get our bfps together or even very close together

Thank You for your kind words

You are so very sweet, made me have a little cry!

 

[soph77]

oooh soph thats exciting, whens af due?

yeah tryfor, i completely agree with soph. we're all here for you sweetpea.

night off from bding tonight, insurance bd tomorrow night. isnt ttc so romantic!?

af due tomorrow, haven't tested for 2 days and they were stark white -
I am not hopeful, I want af to come quickly so I can get started but still there is a tiny glimmer of hope there which I cannot feed with my poas obsession because there are none in the house!
I should be getting some ics in the mail today so if she doesn't coming by tomorrow I may test again.

 

[honeybee28]

excellent, i'll have my fingers crossed for you (in my sleep, it's nearly my bedtime!)
do you normally spot before she comes or not?

 

[soph77]

no, no spotting. usually I get some pain and then very light flow flowed by heavy.
no signs yet that she is on the way.

Anyway I really need to get ready for work!

Catch up with everyone this afternoon!
Have nice sleeps, or nice days ladies

 

[honeybee28]

have a nice day, hope your students behave lol.x

 

[amethyst77]

Have a good day Soph. Still have fingers crossed for you
xx

 

[Waitng4Baby#1]

Fx Soph.

Thanks re grapefruit juice info AreIn.

HoneyBee I'm cd19 usually +opk 14-16 but has been 18 one month. Just wondered if perhaps I'm not going to O this month or whether I've not tested at exactly the same times and missed it or what. Completely with you about all this TTC stuff - enough already. I'm sure DH would never think it before ttc but I'll bet he will be so relieved when I finally get my BFP that the every two night BD routine can stop!!

 

[mommyB]

Ladies I need your help. So yesterday was CD8 so we BD, now we are not due to BD until tomorrow (and use my first OPK). But today I have been getting the cramping in my left side and the EWCM (the stretchy stuff). This is my usual way of telling that I am ov'ing. So my question is.....should I continue to follow the SME paln and BD and OPK tomorrow OR should we do the deed again tonight just to make sure? I am so confused....I would appreciate any advice. Thanks girls!

 

[Waitng4Baby#1]

Ladies I need your help. So yesterday was CD8 so we BD, now we are not due to BD until tomorrow (and use my first OPK). But today I have been getting the cramping in my left side and the EWCM (the stretchy stuff). This is my usual way of telling that I am ov'ing. So my question is.....should I continue to follow the SME paln and BD and OPK tomorrow OR should we do the deed again tonight just to make sure? I am so confused....I would appreciate any advice. Thanks girls!

Could you try an OPK tonight and if positive BD tonight??

 

[stardust22]

Ladies I need your help. So yesterday was CD8 so we BD, now we are not due to BD until tomorrow (and use my first OPK). But today I have been getting the cramping in my left side and the EWCM (the stretchy stuff). This is my usual way of telling that I am ov'ing. So my question is.....should I continue to follow the SME paln and BD and OPK tomorrow OR should we do the deed again tonight just to make sure? I am so confused....I would appreciate any advice. Thanks girls!

Could you try an OPK tonight and if positive BD tonight??

Was going to say the same thing!