Pamela your DH sounds just like my OH
He's made a fisting remark before as well
Jess I'm so jealous of how organized you are! I am pretty positive my OH wants to cut the cord but perhaps I may ask to do it in the sudden case that he changes his mind. It's definitely a special moment.
Bri (hope it's OK if I abbreviate your name?) don't worry, your comment wasn't insensitive as you had no idea of my situation with my OH and dog. I love animals, especially dogs but am not fond of larger breeds personally. And having been around two bully breeds (that of my OH's and also his brother's) with the temperaments they have, it's just something I'm not comfortable at all having around my baby
Their size makes them more of a danger and nuisance, in my opinion. I have three chihuahuas and although yappy at times when they hear a strange noise or see a stranger outside, they are mostly laid back and lazy. They don't slobber or wipe drool on anything. When they do get playful or hyper (normally outside) it's barely noticeable, as they each weigh around 8-10lbs. It's soooo much easier to contain an 8lb dog opposed to a 75lb+ breed. I would not be as alarmed if a chihuahua were to accidentally step or jump on a baby opposed to a large dog. I don't plan on allowing my chis to be near the baby where they are able to possibly lick him or anything and even right now I mostly keep them secluded to the back addition of our house as they shed a bit and I don't want dog hair on everything. Aside from all that, hoping you can get some answers and confirm pregnancy at your appointment! I agree with the others that I'd be going nuts trying to get my hands on any kind of test I could! Even after I got my first clear
at home I had to run to the drug store and buy a $1 cheapie test just so I could pee on something
Kenna I wish my OH would quit smoking. When we first found out I was pregnant he would still smoke in his vehicle with me in it (no smoking in mine!) and I finally asked him not to since he wasn't getting the hint. He chews tobacco more so now which is better because the nasty smoke smell isn't there... but the constant spitting and leaving his bottles around the house grosses me out and I'm constantly throwing them away
I refuse to kiss him when he has that crap in his mouth or soon after. Maybe he'll try hard to break his disgusting habits once his son is here
I absolutely won't allow him to kiss on our baby boy with yucky chew mouth and he most def won't be spitting while holding him!
Pam I am the same. I smoked, but could quit without a problem. It's just not something I can be dependent on. My mom is a lung cancer survivor and dad died of lung cancer so it's something I shouldn't even think of doing anyways.
Where in the hell is Cheryl?!