Aww Mary that's amazing news!
Hi Baby Bubble!
When picking up my daughter yesterday from my ex husband's house, I found out that a girl I went to school with and graduated with lives two houses down from my ex. I knew she does daycare/babysitting, but didn't realize how close she was to me - like 5 minutes from my house and right down the road from my work! She has a daughter the same age as mine and they play together. She watches my ex husband's 8 month old son for a bit in the mornings and also watches babies of a few other people I know. I contacted her this morning and she is totally available and willing to watch Cameron if need be, which is a huge relief as I feel I can trust her and was kind of stressing over daycare arrangements for when I go back to work.
I also spoke with my mom regarding staying with my kids (mainly, my daughter) during the summer while they are out of school and OH and I are at work. I'm hoping my ex and his girlfriend can take her as well on the days she's normally over there anyways for visits. My mom is anxious to come over and help, as she's retired and doesn't get out or do much, plus she loves seeing the kids. To my surprise, she is also very anxious and willing to help out with Cameron! I don't know why, but I was just feeling like at her age of 75 and hypersensitivity to stresses and such that it wasn't something she would be interested in
She is in very good health, very mobile, drives and everything... sometimes I forget she's in her 70's
and I totally trust her with my kids, even the baby. I just feel that I would want the necessities for Cameron to be placed on the main level of the house to avoid her having to use stairs while holding him juuuust to be extra cautious and avoid an accident that way
Or I can always take him to her condo with necessary supplies but she's willing to come to our house. I know OH's mom will want to watch the baby as well, but as of right now I'd only be comfortable with her coming to our house because of the dog/drug situation at hers. So overall we have good options for help when I'm back to work.
And with the way OH's current job is looking he may not even be with that company for long
He was called off work yesterday, went in today and was told everyone came in to work. He was not happy and neither am I. His boss is even the one that called him off... no idea why
But not cool. OH already doesn't get a full 40 hour work week and then to be called of unnecessarily doesn't help either. It's not enough to support himself and a family so he has been looking for other options. I'm going to take some time today to help with that as well. Hopefully there's SOMETHING out there that can provide more stability and, even better, health insurance and paid vacation time.