Twinkle- I had a scan at 8 weeks 2 days. I called them because I had spotting the week before. They confirmed it was old blood. My drs office doesn't set appts till about 10 weeks, where they can pick up the heartbeat with a dopplar, he said when you hear it on the dopplar, your pretty much out of the danger zone. I was relieved. But if you want to see ur LO sooner, I would call them and tell them you were concerned about spotting lol.. totally a little fib, but no harm done.. hubz went with me and we got to see baby Hayes together

It was so special.. and pretty weird too just seeing him incubating in there lol.
Jes- I totally understand the priorities, thats why I dipped off here for months and months before coming back on.. and then still sometimes I just focus on myself for a few weeks. When ttc with my first marriage, I was soo absorbed with bnb. (ADDICT) and it really took a toll on my mental status... I'm just glad to know that after all these years it wasn't me that was the problem like i originally thought.. I used to really beat myself up about it.. come to find out.. it was my dead beat ex husband that never wanted to

ugh jerk.. sorry.. kinda veered off the point of that and started talking about myself. lol.. I've never heard of crossfit.. but am totally jealous, it seems like some of you girlies are a bit more active than I ever was. I have my spurts.. but this past year, has not been one of them.
Oh, and good luck with your new job. Is it a total switch? or just a move around from what you're doing now?
Sbmack- Yep.. totally take it easy. and dont worry about the spotting unless its bright red. I'm noticing that I don't lift anything over 25-30 lbs. And those are things I just can't avoid, like wood logs to put in the stove for heat when hubz is gone.. etc. but if I start seeing stars (which has happened once) and/or I get short of breath I stop. I'm noticing that I'm pretty short winded these days..
Hi brit brit :wave: whats going on with you and your cycle right now?
ash- how is everything with yours as well? did the spotting stay away..
Glam- Hey sweetcheeks.. I so need to read back so I get in the loop on whats going on with everyone but wanted to say HI!!
MOOKS--- where you at?? I know I speak for everyone when I say WE MISS YOU!!!
and thank you all for the nice comments about my ring.. I'm so in love with him, our baby, our ring.. all of it.. it feels like the next chapter of my life is starting!

Hubz doesnt know yet, But i went to town today and bought his.. so I'm going to propose to him now on valentines day lol... bahaha.. so unorthodox.. but it'll be funny.
:yawn: well it's time for bed for me..