Jes- congrats on the weight loss!! I know how much of a difference 10 lbs can make, I gained 6 lbs since we started ttc and it really made me feel bad about how I looked! I'm feeling much better now that I'm down to 120, I want to get back to 118, hopefully within a month!
Sbmack/Twinkle- As far as dtd during pregnancy, I had alot of spotting during the first trimester and my dr. advised me to not dtd for at least 1 week after any spotting. Dh hated that but the spotting stopped in the 2nd trimester and we more than made up for it!

And as far as what Jes said about the sperm, I have heard the same thing! Good luck to both of you at your scans next week!
Ash- Sounds like a great plan to get healthy! I stopped drinking all pop and juice as well about 2 months ago and I feel alot better! Now I only drink water or tea.
Miss May- how was the trip to London?
AFM my cycle is all messed up now, Dh and I got a terrible stomach flu a couple of weeks ago and we were sick for 3 days so I couldn't take my pill at all, I couldn't keep anything down...so not wanting to risk getting pregnant and taking the pill during the tww, I just threw the pack away. We aren't trying though, just bding when we feel like it, and if it happens it happens, but I'm not holding out any hope. I go to my dr. for my yearly in May so I'll talk to him about it then, and we will have been trying for almost a year in May.