strip clubs and porn

[Ozzieshunni]

 

[painted_pony]

I have a feeling this thread is going to end up locked...that's what happens to all porn/stripping threads.

Really? I haven't noticed an abundance of stripping threads!

VERY COMMON. there was like a 16 pager the other day. O well. Hopefully we can play nice this time.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

We aren't allowed to talk about locked threads or Wobbles will come.

 

[My_First]

Each to their own I say, if your not comfortable with it then address it with your partner, if you are comfortable then carry on, I think it's when it gets a bit judgemental it all goes a bit err mental.

 

[mamaduke]

In terms of porn, I'm fine with it - DH & I both watch it, individually and together. It doesn't bother me mostly because we don't know the porn stars so it has a degree of not being a real threat.

In terms of strip clubs, I personally am not interested in them. However, DH goes with the guys sometimes, and the good ones make it easy for me when he gets home.

 

[HayleyZahra]

How did u get that lol ^^^^

 

[Ozzieshunni]

:flasher : but with the : on the end instead of a space

 

[vixxen]

Don't mind porn so much but if the oh wants to spend money on another woman stripping he would be shown the door with a boot up his rear

 

[tina3747]

Doesn't bother me as one offs but I'd be bothered if it was a regular occurrence!!

The money bothers me more than anything else.... If he's gonna pay to go to a club and watch some tarty bit strip I'll do it for £50!!!!

....... As long as the no touching rule applies.

 

[Natsku]

Neither of them bother me (except the expense of strip clubs). I took my ex to a strip club once to watch my friend dance, it was fun (and slightly awkward!)

 

[My_First]

Neither of them bother me (except the expense of strip clubs). I took my ex to a strip club once to watch my friend dance, it was fun (and slightly awkward!)

I too have been to strip clubs with my oh, and had private dances. I actually find it slightly erotic, is that wrong?

 

[Natsku]

Neither of them bother me (except the expense of strip clubs). I took my ex to a strip club once to watch my friend dance, it was fun (and slightly awkward!)

I too have been to strip clubs with my oh, and had private dances. I actually find it slightly erotic, is that wrong?

 

[Zizzle]

I haven't read all the replies so apologies if I'm just repeating what's already been said. I think strip clubs are more a social thing rather than something seedy. For example if my partner said he was going with a group of mates i'd be fine with it because it would be more of a laugh than anything.

As for porn, i'm ok with it. If i'm not in the mood I really don't mind him watching it.

That's just my opinions tho, if you're really uncomfortable with it then sit him down and tell him. At 20 tho he's programmed to think sex sex sex.

 

[Laura2919]

I think its normal. I don't have a problem with porn but I do have a problem with strip clubs.

 

[Button#]

I don't have a problem with either unless he was wasting loads of money at strip clubs. The very rare occasions he's been for a stag do is fine though.

 

[xolily]

not fussed!

 

[BigZai]

There was going to be a study to see the effects of porn on men. The study was shut down because they couldnt find a man that did not watch porn. Check out Dan Savage i loooovvvee him and his podcast he is very sex positive

 

[jenniferttc1]

My husband getting turned on sexually by another female? No thank you! It's a big no no in our relationship. Plus I do everything his fantisys ever asked and my body is not horrible to the eyes so why would he need to go?

 

[BigZai]

I don't have an issue with either of them for both men and women.. every adult is a sexual being and has needs/wants and a right to express them (unless it's something illegal-child pornography,snuff films,etc)

THANKS ALOT!!!
I always thought a snuff film was a porn movie so i thought it was weird when you said something illegal.
so I googled it and thanks to you i ended up reading about some german guy (Armin Meiwes) who killed and ate someone (who willingly participated) and video taped it
yea I wont be eating dinner tonight

 

[Lottie86]

Strip clubs I see as just a bit of a giggle. They can't touch, but may come home gagging for it later! .

Call me insecure but that would *really* bother me as they'd be 'gagging for it' due to being turned on by another woman