Hello ladies!
Sorry for no personals, but I'm glad everyone is doing well! Lovely scan pictures everyone! I'm glad everything is going well for everyone.
Two, my cervix is also a bit funny but they said they wouldn't bother stitching it until 16/18 weeks and that's only if they really have to. I'm not sure I'd want them to do it though, it looks kinda freaky
I'm working away on my birth plan (which I have to have ready for my next MW appointment) I definitely decided on a natural birth, if I really need any pain relief I'll take gas and air (as I already know it works WONDERS for me!). I would like to avoid everything else. I have my OH as my birth partner and decided on our hospital for the birth - I wanted the midwifery led unit at first BUT it's a bit further away and chances are, I will have some sort of complications during labor knowing me
I've decided on having skin to skin too, I think it'll help me bond with the baby because for now I'm really struggling (I think feeling so ill is affecting me more than I'd like it to, I even considered termination few days ago as I was feeling that bad.. but I won't go into my psychological issues at the moment) I'm trying to keep my head up and I know that this is all worth it. It just doesn't seem like it right now. It's kinda why I've been quiet on here, there's a million things going through my head and my damned hormones are causing so many arguments with OH.
Anyway back to the birth plan, hopefully all will go naturally but even if I have to have forceps/vacuum/section I still want my OH to be there and he wants to be there too so that makes it a little easier!
I also want to use my bean bag and ball during labor, try to move around as much as I can. I haven't thought about positions at all, I think I'll have to see what works best at the time. Oh, and if possible at all, I'd like to have a natural water birth but since our hospital only has 1 birthing pool, I'm not getting my hopes up! There's few other bits but I'm not gonna bore you with that
As for sickness, whoever said it gets better in second tri should get a slap!
In my case it's been getting worse and worse, I either sleep all day or take pills all day. I have 2 bowls next to my bed so I don't have to get up to go and throw up anymore. I'm seeing a nutrition/diet specialist on Friday after my scan to see if she can come up with anything that will even slightly ease it off so I hope she has some sort of a plan!
Oh, sweetpea, I'm sorry about your friend. You can only be there for her. Listen and give her a shoulder to cry on if she needs it! I'd definitely never have amnio, the risks are just too high and after trying and trying, I wouldn't want to loose the baby over something like that!