Sw33tp3a, sorry to hear the sad news. They do not do amniotic testing over here unless other tests show have shown abnormalities.
Those that have had scans and told people, I am glad it went well.
I have a really bad headache again today. I just want to go back to bed but obviously that will not be an option.
I will not be writing a birth plan. Something I learned from my last pregnancy is that there is not point planning something you have no control over. With my son I was planning a home-birth or the midwife led birthing unit in my hospital and got a consultant led pregnancy and a planned c-section. No matter what I will need constant monitoring in labour but my hope it that I get a drug free VBAC. I really, really, really do not want another c-section so I hope that things do not get too high-risk again. But it will all depend on what happens in later pregnancy so I am not getting my heart too set on anything this time.
I know it is still very early but has anyone felt movement yet? I felt my son at 13+1 (MW confirmed it was him kicking me the second time on the same day when he kicked the Doppler). I have felt tiny flutters since 10+3 this time. They are really faint and not everyday but I recognise what they are.