At my 20 week scan, they set up another appointment for 24 weeks. Said they wanted to get a better look at LO heart and they hope he is more cooperative at getting a look at his spin. Not sure if this is normal or not for the place I went to. She acted like it was just something they did and told me everything looked good so far.
No way I can be a SAHM (single parent here). Not sure that I could. I got restless being home 2 weeks when my son was born. I was lucky that my sister is able to watch my son now, so no stranger anxiety for me at the moment. When LO is born though I'm looking into getting a nanny, as I think 4 kids will be too much for my sister and with 2 under 1 and her 1 year old, that could get nuts.
I'm having all kinds of anxiety about searching for a nanny and then leaving my babies with one. I was really hoping I'd be able to find one through a referal of a family member or friend, but it looks like I have to go the total stranger route.