LunaBean
Noahs Mama & 7 angels <3
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(not that it looks like I'll be having a baby anytime soon as I can't seem to keep hold of one longer than a few weeks..) we've been talking about this quite alot, and my OH is in her last year of teacher training, so will be finished and hopefully working by the time I have the baby, so I'll be doing the whole 'mummy' thing, breastfeeding etc, and she'll be goin out to work, but we've decided that she can take over at the weekends, I'll express at weekends so she can feed the baby,(I'm gona combination feed anyway, I think babies get fuller and sleep longer if they are fed formula at night), and take it out for the day or whatever, and she'll be 'in charge' as such. Whether it goes to plan or not is another matter lol. I'll be returning to childminding a few weeks after I have the baby, so will have a few other kids too, so don't think OH will feel like I'm at home with the baby 24/7 and she's missing out.
She doesn't want to give birth to her own kids until shes at least 30, she's 22 now, and even thinks that she doesn't want the baby calling her mummy because she'll feel really old lol.
I'm having a break from TTC at the minute, can't face another MC..going for a few tests to see what's goin on in there and being referred to a specialist for pregnancy counselling because my epilepsy medication can cause abnormalities in babies
Also, as much as we've planned this for years and are both really excited, when I got pregnant for the second time last week, my OH totaly freaked out for a day, but then she was fine the next day. It's natural! I suggest getting some books, someone suggested 'The other mother' written by non-bio mums, I got it for OH and it really helped!!! Amozon has it for about £7 including P&P
She doesn't want to give birth to her own kids until shes at least 30, she's 22 now, and even thinks that she doesn't want the baby calling her mummy because she'll feel really old lol.
I'm having a break from TTC at the minute, can't face another MC..going for a few tests to see what's goin on in there and being referred to a specialist for pregnancy counselling because my epilepsy medication can cause abnormalities in babies
Also, as much as we've planned this for years and are both really excited, when I got pregnant for the second time last week, my OH totaly freaked out for a day, but then she was fine the next day. It's natural! I suggest getting some books, someone suggested 'The other mother' written by non-bio mums, I got it for OH and it really helped!!! Amozon has it for about £7 including P&P