TaeBoMama
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No doubt Tae you are a really true friend to her. I'm sorry life works like this, like you said, the one's that don't want kids get pregnant without even trying...it's not fair! I wish I knew why God allowed that to happen. One day we will have those answers.
I hope your friend starts making better decisions, she should know better at 41 that a married guy is not going to leave his wife to shack up with a pregnant woman! But maybe I'm wrong. She sounds a lot like my sister, makes bad choices and can't figure out she's in the boat she is in with life.I hope you can talk her into keeping the baby, maybe that is what she needs to focus on instead of bad men? Good luck. I will pray for her.
It would be nice if this motivates her to make a better life for herself, and better decisions on the men she chooses. When I became pregnant at 20, it changed my whole life for the better! Suddenly it wasn't just about me. I had a little person to think about. And I only wanted the very best for him. I feel bad that I gave him the worst father possible (whom he has never met, but talked to once on the phone). The good news is, I have the most awesome husband who has been there for my son since he was 2 years old, and has loved him as his very own. If I didn't have my son, I would probably not have this wonderful man in my life. So there is hope.