Hey LLBean and Dyme_Diva, a friend of mine planned everything with meticulous detail as she wanted a boy with a certain star sign. She had everything down on spreadsheets, came off the pill 3 months before starting to try, decided when to start and caught straight away. She had a perfect pregnancy until her waters broke at 32 weeks. Alfie was bored of being tucked up inside and decided it was his time. He is great now, turned 1 in April, but it was a close call right at the beginning, bless him. He's now a completely different star sign, than they hoped, but hey, whats a star sign when you've got a beautiful baby eh?
I guess what I'm saying is no matter how tightly you plan things, it doesn't mean everything will happen according to the spreadsheet.
As I told my Hubby for the last few years, we shouldn't put off trying because we don't know if it will ever actually happen, so we've got to have time to work around it. We were very shocked when we got pregnant as quick as we did, but dashed when baby didn't survive, so we're back to TTC as hard as possible now. No plan needed for me now, just go for it. LOL.
I wish you luck Dyme_Diva with your new job and your decision, just don't let the planning cause stress. xx