Hi everyone, I'm new here and this is my first post.
I am 6w6d pregnant and have known for a week now that I'm expecting. However, I am keeping it very low key and telling very few people (this site is a lifesaver as now I can talk about it as much as I want to!) and tomorrow I will be revealing all to the FOB.
Our situation is slightly unconventional and in all honesty I don't know him very well. I got pregnant after a one night stand and was extremely shocked when I got a BFP. I know he is the father as he is the only person I have had sex with in a long time and I'm certain that I will continue with the pregnancy regardless of his involvement. What I am unsure about is how to tell him. He is coming round mine tomorrow for a cuppa and I don't know what to expect when I tell him.
Just tell him out right, he is responsible as well and it's not your fault. However, I would offer him the chance to take a paternity test so he can be 100% certain the baby is his. I wouldn't trust a person who is practically a stranger would you?
I don't know how old you are but you seem to be strong enough to do this on your own but have you thought about the fact that he may want to be actively involved, including having the child 50/50? Could you cope with this?
Good luck & congratulations