Abz1982
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Now, this is a weird one.
What sort of appreciation/thanks do you expect from someone if you say...give them a gift just because you want to.
You pay for them to attend something even though they have told you that they CANNOT afford it. What do you expect from then in return?
Do you expect a card from your family every birthday and do you hold it against them if they don't (even if they don't give ANYONE a card - well except kids!).
Would you hold it against someone who didn't get you a card for your wedding even if they wrote in a guest book and also took a long time looking for a very lovely quote to write on your memory stones you decided to do?
Would you feel put out because a person helped others and not you, if those others were in a worse place, mentally or financially, or just were not coping?
Would you be annoyed if on your wedding day your sister gave one of your bridesmaids a gift, not for her, for her new born daughter. If she was someone that they rarely saw?
What sort of appreciation/thanks do you expect from someone if you say...give them a gift just because you want to.
You pay for them to attend something even though they have told you that they CANNOT afford it. What do you expect from then in return?
Do you expect a card from your family every birthday and do you hold it against them if they don't (even if they don't give ANYONE a card - well except kids!).
Would you hold it against someone who didn't get you a card for your wedding even if they wrote in a guest book and also took a long time looking for a very lovely quote to write on your memory stones you decided to do?
Would you feel put out because a person helped others and not you, if those others were in a worse place, mentally or financially, or just were not coping?
Would you be annoyed if on your wedding day your sister gave one of your bridesmaids a gift, not for her, for her new born daughter. If she was someone that they rarely saw?