I am guessing the weirdness in what was going on was because my body was trying to kick the IUD out. It was expelled tonight at the ER while they sent me to pee in a cup to check for pregnancy. So yup no longer have birthcontrol. The doctor has no clue why it fell out as my cervix is closed and yadda yadda. HAve a follow up with my OB/GYN Thanks for all the help.