babytots
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firstly i would like to say thanks to star-dust for posting and to siyren for letting the sept-embryos know.
well what can i say i'm heartbroken i was nearly home and dry reaching the 20 week mark and never dreamt of this happening again but it has.
my poor princess was very poorly and decided it was time to grow her wings. i went for a gender scan which was free and was told baby had no heartbeat. he also said she had severe abnormalities. he couldnt see the back of her brain and her spine hadnt formed at the bottom properly. she also had fluid around her stomach.
even though it doesnt make it any easier i am glad she decided to grow her wings. i couldnt of bear the thought to find out she was poorly then have to make the heart wrenching desicion whether to carry on with the pregnancy or not. she was sooooooo badly wanted by her mummy and daddy and its something i could never do but then what sort of life would she have it wouldnt of been fair.
i have to ring the labour ward tomorow and get booked in for a scan where they can confirm this and then go from there. i'm petrified of having to give birth and have no healthy baby to show for it.i'm not strong enough to go through it everytime i think of it i burst into tears and i am dreading the day when it comes.
i should of known something was wrong as i was concerned about lack of movement. i was at the day unit about a week or so ago and she heard the heartbeat so i guess she gre her wings between now and today.
the really cruel is that i'm sure i still feel movement but of course must be my body playing tricks on me or something.
i will continue to update my text buddy to let you know how i get on as its to hard for me posting in here again.
take care of yourselfs and your bumps.
to my fellow sept-embryos thank you for being there for the past 15 weeks for being my friends and for making the past 15 weeks an enjoyable and fun time (especially you star-dust) i am truly going to miss you all. hopefully in time i might have the strength to pop in and see how you are all getting on. thank you again i have never met such wonderful ladies and i will never forget it. x
well what can i say i'm heartbroken i was nearly home and dry reaching the 20 week mark and never dreamt of this happening again but it has.
my poor princess was very poorly and decided it was time to grow her wings. i went for a gender scan which was free and was told baby had no heartbeat. he also said she had severe abnormalities. he couldnt see the back of her brain and her spine hadnt formed at the bottom properly. she also had fluid around her stomach.
even though it doesnt make it any easier i am glad she decided to grow her wings. i couldnt of bear the thought to find out she was poorly then have to make the heart wrenching desicion whether to carry on with the pregnancy or not. she was sooooooo badly wanted by her mummy and daddy and its something i could never do but then what sort of life would she have it wouldnt of been fair.
i have to ring the labour ward tomorow and get booked in for a scan where they can confirm this and then go from there. i'm petrified of having to give birth and have no healthy baby to show for it.i'm not strong enough to go through it everytime i think of it i burst into tears and i am dreading the day when it comes.
i should of known something was wrong as i was concerned about lack of movement. i was at the day unit about a week or so ago and she heard the heartbeat so i guess she gre her wings between now and today.
the really cruel is that i'm sure i still feel movement but of course must be my body playing tricks on me or something.
i will continue to update my text buddy to let you know how i get on as its to hard for me posting in here again.
take care of yourselfs and your bumps.
to my fellow sept-embryos thank you for being there for the past 15 weeks for being my friends and for making the past 15 weeks an enjoyable and fun time (especially you star-dust) i am truly going to miss you all. hopefully in time i might have the strength to pop in and see how you are all getting on. thank you again i have never met such wonderful ladies and i will never forget it. x