The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[confusedprego]

I have the opposite problem. Everyone already has kids and we're trying to "catch up" or my BIL and his wife say they won't start trying now because they dont' want to "steal our thunder" or upset us. It's nice they're keeping us in their thoughts but I don't want anyone to plan their lives because they're walking on eggshells around us. Yes, it would be hard if they got pregnant, but we would still be happy for them. Makes me feel guilty. Hopefully we'll get pregnant soon and everything will be fine and they'll feel like they can move forward!

 

[JellyBeann]

I'm luckily not surrounded b y pregnant people right now...which makes this whole thing a lot easier. Mind, people who don't know about the MC keep asking when we're having more, why I'm not pregnant, and that's piddling me off!

Anyway, I am currently 7 days late for and 4 days ago and yesterday had 2 s so I'm confused and annoyed I don't know what's happening!!

 

[KozmikKitten]

Anyone else feel like they are surrounded by people with similar due dates?? As I've posted before I have 2 close friends with near due dates, but at work yesterday I worked with 2 women who were 22/26 weeks. I would be 25 today It feels like everywhere I turn, someone is due in early March. Ugh, the reminders are taking a toll on my ability to cope.

I've pretty much counted us out this month. According to FF I didn't O until CD 21 and I have a 28D cycle. Our normal blanket was at the dry cleaners and I was cold a few morning waking up, but that is grasping at straws! I just want my body to be back to normal

I can totally relate! I hear you. I have to go through my SIL's pregnancy milestones knowing she has the same due date as me. She always posts on FB and every time she does my heart sinks. I know I should be happy for her and I do a pretty good job when I talk to her, but it still hurts knowing I shoudl be at the exact place she is.
I also feel like I am out this month. I have not gotten a + OPK and I'm on day 18. We have still been DTD just in case I missed it on the sticks though. I dont know how I could since I've been testing 3x/day.

 

[debzie]

My heart sinks each time i see someone with a bump at the moment and i had got past that stage for a while. Coulnot avoid miss bump today whilst taking my dd to nursery. I was then folliwing her along thecroad praying she didnot notice me and want to talk.

Well i have a positive opk today my earliest ever. Gutted that there is no chance this month but at least it won't be as long now until next cycle.

 

[Mrskg]

Hey debzie she lives near me an came to the house not sure she would travel all the way to you lol xx I've seen her yearly for last 14yrs she's magic I'm just gals she confirmed a lot of what my other readings have said x she doesn't believe mc babies come back to u although she knows plenty mediums that do believe that she also said my body had to go through some blips to prepare for my sticky pregnancy x it's to early for me to test but I'm so dying to know if my aura is right but she said I def Should be pregnant by 31st dec?????? The wait is killing me lol but I'm sure in your position this month you can more than relate to that x

Thanks for all the welcome backs ladies an jess same goes to you feel free to pm me anytime xxxxx

 

[B&LsMom]

Congratulations futurephoto's!!!! fx'd its a sticky one!!

Welcome Mrskg, I hope your ok hunny, I've had a few mental blips too - you can always pm me if you ever want to chat hun

Anyone doing anything interesting this weekend? Me and OH are going to see a live band tonight which should be good

DH and I are going on a date night tonight---Dinner and a Movie and Blake is staying with the in-laws so we should hopefully have a great night together--- and I'm getting my hair done today so pretty excited about that too!!

Have Fun watching the band tonight--what kind of music??

 

[debzie]

Yeah I can relate mrskg. There is one that i went to.years ago and thecstuff shecsaid is still coming true. Except the son she predicted I would have two uears after my dd. Still trying for that one. Might drop her a email and make an appointment think i need something right now.

 

[Mrs Miggins]

one of my colleagues announced she is pregnant the other day. I work in a small salon and we are all quite close. She knows what i have been through this year and i was suprised that she chose to tell me in the staff room in front of everyone. I felt all eyes were on me and sort of cringing, watching for my reaction. The due date for my first loss would have been this wednesday.

 

[Islander]

I was due 7th may...hopefullt get a bfp before that!

 

[Nicoleoleole]

I'm on the 7th day of bleeding from this miscarriage. It's never lasted this long :/

 

[Mrs Miggins]

my first one bled for over 2 weeks Nicole. Hope it eases up for you soon.

 

[keepthefaithx]

hey all

you can take me off.

i had a chemical

d&c sched. for monday.



goodluck to all of you xo

 

[butterfly00]

so sorry to hear that

 

[debzie]

So sorry keep the faith. Surely it was more than achemical.if you need a d&c. X

 

[confusedprego]

Good luck on Monday KTF - I found my d&c really helped with closure and it was essentially painless. I didn't even use the pain meds they gave me. I also had to wait until 230PM - I had to get to the hospital early though so it didn't seem too bad

 

[Mrskg]

keepthefaith i am so sorry i know nothing can ease that pain right now but we are all here for you xxxx

nicole i hope things ease for you soon

debzie here is a link to my reading if you want to read it i will warn you i did try to make it as short as poss but didnt quite work out that way so you mif=ght want to get a cuppa an comfy lol https://www.babyandbump.com/paranormal/730507-psychic-right-9.html

 

[heavyheart]

keepthefaith iam so sorry for your loss will be thinking of you on monday xxx

 

[heavyheart]

keepthefaith i am so sorry i know nothing can ease that pain right now but we are all here for you xxxx

nicole i hope things ease for you soon

debzie here is a link to my reading if you want to read it i will warn you i did try to make it as short as poss but didnt quite work out that way so you mif=ght want to get a cuppa an comfy lol https://www.babyandbump.com/paranormal/730507-psychic-right-9.html

I just had a read through your reading all sounds so positive for you hunny, i hope to be seeing you on here soon with that bfp i have everything crossed for you!!! iam not leaving you behind!!! xxx

 

[threebirds]

So sorry keepthefaith xxxx

We've our first apt at fertility clinic this wk. Will be bringing print out of previous bw. Getting AMH test & OH getting SA. Anxious times but its helping to be proactive. Thinking of all of you ladies x

 

[B&LsMom]

Good luck with the fertility specialist--I hope they can help--that really is a great step to take--thinking of you this week!!