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Thats what I'm hoping Lisa! Yes, I have hospital wednesday morning with the rheumotology dept for the antibodies in my blood, my doc seems to think I may have CREST syndrome. Thursday at 2 is Olivia's results, and then at 3.20 an app with general medicine (I'm not sure if this is for my stomach), and the 3rd of may an app with the gastroenterology (or if this is for my stomch?) xx
 
i think you should set up camp at the hospital, sounds like you will be there a lot. The 3 may one sounds like it will be your stomach.
Hopefully these appointments will give you the answers you need to enable you to sort everything out and try for a rainbow!
 
hey everyone! ... we have heartbeat!!! :happydance:

I had a tummy ultrasound. Initially I looked at the monitor and saw NOTHING flickering. All I saw was a blob in the sac. I turned away. The doctor excitedly told my mum to look at the monitor. Both went AWWWwww... I was slightly annoyed and turned back to the monitor and said "but there's no heartbeat". The doctor said there it is! Can you see it like a star flickering in the sky? I swear to you I couldn't see anything!!! All it was a blob to me. Took me about 30 seconds to focus on the mouse the doctor was pointing at and yeah, I saw it. :haha: but it was not like what I saw before in my 1st pregnancy. I had a scan an emergency scan at 6weeks+ in my 1st pregnancy due to bleeding and the heart was really clear!

Anyway, after that, she did a swab and checked my cervix length. That required transvaginal scan and this time round, I definitely saw the heart beating. HUGE RELIEF!!!

I am slightly further along than I thought I was. 8 weeks 5 days yesterday. Cervix length is normal for now. Blood pressure is slightly on the high side so need to monitor that. She started me on Progesterone as stated before which may make my nausea worse. She agrees with me having a cervical stitch but told me to try to push it done as early as 12 weeks because usually they wait until 14 weeks. BUT because I lost our son at 16 weeks 5 days, she said better do it earlier. So this is something I need to discuss with the consultant back in London.

She also advised me to start living like a princess but eat like a diabetic. :haha: I am prone to diabetes thanks to PCOS and family history. Plus I am slightly on the bigger side. Hubby didn't believe when I told him doctor said I need to live like a princess. He said I made that up. :dohh:

Thanks for all your support ladies. I am writing down the milestones that I need to face/cross and seeing a heartbeat was the first. Next is passing the 12 weeks and crossing over to 2nd trimester.
 
hey everyone! ... we have heartbeat!!! :happydance:

I had a tummy ultrasound. Initially I looked at the monitor and saw NOTHING flickering. All I saw was a blob in the sac. I turned away. The doctor excitedly told my mum to look at the monitor. Both went AWWWwww... I was slightly annoyed and turned back to the monitor and said "but there's no heartbeat". The doctor said there it is! Can you see it like a star flickering in the sky? I swear to you I couldn't see anything!!! All it was a blob to me. Took me about 30 seconds to focus on the mouse the doctor was pointing at and yeah, I saw it. :haha: but it was not like what I saw before in my 1st pregnancy. I had a scan an emergency scan at 6weeks+ in my 1st pregnancy due to bleeding and the heart was really clear!

Anyway, after that, she did a swab and checked my cervix length. That required transvaginal scan and this time round, I definitely saw the heart beating. HUGE RELIEF!!!

I am slightly further along than I thought I was. 8 weeks 5 days yesterday. Cervix length is normal for now. Blood pressure is slightly on the high side so need to monitor that. She started me on Progesterone as stated before which may make my nausea worse. She agrees with me having a cervical stitch but told me to try to push it done as early as 12 weeks because usually they wait until 14 weeks. BUT because I lost our son at 16 weeks 5 days, she said better do it earlier. So this is something I need to discuss with the consultant back in London.

She also advised me to start living like a princess but eat like a diabetic. :haha: I am prone to diabetes thanks to PCOS and family history. Plus I am slightly on the bigger side. Hubby didn't believe when I told him doctor said I need to live like a princess. He said I made that up. :dohh:

Thanks for all your support ladies. I am writing down the milestones that I need to face/cross and seeing a heartbeat was the first. Next is passing the 12 weeks and crossing over to 2nd trimester.

Hi Zoe, wonderful news, i am so glad everything is ok.

make sure you do what the doc days and look after yourself and your rainbow.

It sounds like you are in good hands and will be well looked after, so hopefully this time all will be good.

Sending lots of love, hugs and best wishes.:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
Brilliant news Zoe.

Well I got the letter thru this morning with our appointment for the loss clinic where I guess we'll get the chromosome results and everything. Wasn't expecting it so soon, they said it could be 3 months.
 
Brilliant news Zoe.

Well I got the letter thru this morning with our appointment for the loss clinic where I guess we'll get the chromosome results and everything. Wasn't expecting it so soon, they said it could be 3 months.

That`s good that it is so quick. Hopefully you will get some answers which will enable you to move on. when is your appoinment for?
 
its the 14th may at 3:30 - just got to try and find someone to pick Wil up from school and have him for an hour or so now otherwise we'll have to pick him up early and take him with us - we're going to have to take Ailsa as it is!
 
Zoe, thats great news! Rainbow will be here in no time :)
Lisa, tell me about it, hospitals feel like a weekly occurance atm!
Anouska, glad u will finally be getting some answers too!
xx
 
We all have important appointments coming up.

Zoe with her new rainbow will be seeing docs a lot I guess.

Tayla has numerous appointments for herself and olivia

Anouska for her results as well

Me on 4th May to see the miscarriage specialist.

Hopefully we will all get the news that helps us to move forward and try for our rainbows.

We will have to make sure we keep each other updated with any news we have.

Zoe - at the moment we need to hear everything to make sure everything is going well for you.
 
Well, see the consultant..... He doesn't know what I could have wrong with me, but he says he doesn't think it is CREST. Had more bloods, xrays on my hands, feet, chest, hips and pelvis, and he is going to consult with the gastro-whateveritscalled to see if its all related etc. 1 appointment down, 3 to go! xx
 
well i guess thats good news that the consultant doesn't think its CREST (although I must admit I don't know what that is!) but its not great that he doesn't know what it is, hopefully all these tests an xrays will help to get to the bottom of it for you.

Well my mum called last night and has offered to come up and stay for when i've got my hospital appointment for the test results so it means not only will she be able to pick Wil up from school and look after him but she will also have Ailsa as well so DH and I can go on our own which means we can both concentrate 100% on what the consultant says to us.
I didn't ask her as shes done so much for us already, she lives in Kent and we're in Cumbria so its a bit of a trek for her, shes just had an extension started on her house and shes due to start a new job in the next month or so!
 
Tayla - so far so good then - did read up on crest a while ago, so good news that you don`t have that. At least you are having a proper MOT and will know, hopefully, that all is ok.
Is it olivia`s results tomorrow?

Anouska - that`s great that your mom is coming up - as you say, you need to be able to concentrate on what is being said.
We are lucky, we are in solihull, well Warwickshire actually, but our address is solihull, West midlands, very complicated - even more so when i have tried getting community midwives in the past - nobody wants me - we are not in the solihull, shirley or reddicth zone and when i had my little boy, someone came from Warwick to see me.
Anyway, we are lucky, all our family are around so we have lots of people who can help us out - when we go to our appoinment we will probably leave my little one with my mom. our appointment is 11.15am so we should be done for school run, but not a problem if we`re not, my niece as at the same school as my kids, so my SIL can always pick up and take back to hers - very handy.

lets keep our fingers crossed.
 
Yeah, I had a colonoscopy last year, and crohn's was mentioned and then dismissed once I was pregnant, also inflammatory bowel disease, and if its these things this can be linked to antibodies apparently? Yes, Olivia's results today. SO scared, I feel like i'm going to get in trouble for doing something to the baby, even though I know I couldn't have done anything different. xx
 
Yeah, I had a colonoscopy last year, and crohn's was mentioned and then dismissed once I was pregnant, also inflammatory bowel disease, and if its these things this can be linked to antibodies apparently? Yes, Olivia's results today. SO scared, I feel like i'm going to get in trouble for doing something to the baby, even though I know I couldn't have done anything different. xx

As you say, you know you couldn`t have done anything different, it is just one of those unfortunate things.

however, hopefully, by getting olivia`s results and getting yourself checked out, any furture potential problems could be pin pointed so they won`t happen again.

Let us know how you get on - I`ll be thinking about you:hugs::hugs:
 
I will do hun, maybe best to prepare yourselves for a confused an emotional lady later on xx
 
Thanks Anouska xx

Ladies, before I leave work at 1pm, what types of questions should I ask? Obviously I know what was it, can it happen again, can we prevent it, when can we ttc, but anything else????
 
Sorry, only just seen your questions, so too late to respond. Hope all went ok.
 
It was just mother nature, she was fine, no abnormalities, my placenta was fine...... So no reason xx
 
its good that there was nothing wrong but also it must be hard not having a reason why. <hugs>
 

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