when are you testing lubbird?
Good luck Lucy!
Hope it's not witch lubbird
I need a hug I think the ttc thing is taking it's toll on me and my OH. We didn't bd tonight, well we did, but he didn't finish, and what's the good of that?! He said he's just tired, I began screaming that he thought I was ugly and unattractive and was only sleeping with me in the first place for a baby and as I got my first positive opk two days ago, it's really important to get to it today and doesn't he care?!
We both said some horrible, hurtful things, I screamed, I cried, he screamed, and called me crazy for even thinking such things. He's been decorating all week and driving his sister to work at six in the morning so he promised me he was tired, I can't believe I went off on one like that :'(
We've made up now and both said sorry, I just feel awful that I kicked off so badly, if he's tired, that's fair enough, he's not a sperm machine that just dispenses when I tell him to, he's a man, a busy, over worked man at that. I just don't want us to miss any of our fertile days. Anyone else go psycho on their OH or should I order a straight jacket now?
Well i'm due to test tomorrow (as in today since i'm awake past 12) but I don't know if I will. I'm sick of testing and being disappointed so I might just wait until AF is really late.
We will see how long I can hold out for!
tryingfor1 if you have come off some form of birth control it can take a while for your cycle to regulate the best thing to do is dont worry and ride it out the if this is your first perid its bound to be all not right but the main thing is your are ovulating
it took me 5 cycles to work out i i had a 30 day cycly and 7 cycles to relise that i had a 15 day lp
you said you have ordered a fertility monitor that will be of great help and comfort
there is no point in temping its one of the biggest stresss factors and you dont know you have ovulated untill after you have ovulated
just keep at you will have a baby inside you before you know it we all will
i hope you find this helpful if not sorry for sticking my ore in its just i started of like you worried and worried now im taking the chilled approch xxxxx
ohh emma where abouts in egypt did you go and how did you manage 5 weeks out there
but you came back sun kissed
xxxx