melanie82 & buffy it is difficult but like melanie82 said the other girls who have gone on do give us hope. Buffy are you guys ttc? I'm hoping I don't have to wait that long, but I haven't even reached that road yet, still working through the ectopic.
Hey hon,
Yes we're trying to conceive again. For me I just wanted to start as soon as possible, but we were told to wait for 2 normal periods to occur before we started trying again so it was last October before we were safe to try again -around 10 weeks after my operation. They say it's safest to wait a while if you've had surgery. The time I fell pregnant with my ectopic we had been trying for well over a year - probably near to a year and a half, so I was devastated when it wasn't a normal healthy pregnancy. I'm hoping i don't have such a long wait this time, but so far I am onto my 8th month of ttc since the ectopic, so it's taking a while again I think. I have a holiday abroad to look forward to at the end of this month, which is helping to take my mind off trying for a bit. It was starting to become an unhealthy obsession and every month when arrived i was getting really down Once i get back though I'm worried i'll be back to being an obsessive nutter again. I may book an appointment with my doctor after the holiday just to have a chat about things and get checked out to see whether everything is as it should be and if there is any reason why it seems to take me forever to get pregnant!
Here is hoping for a healthy pregnancy soon for me and everyone else here!! xxx