The NEVER had a BFP thread. Lets stick together ladies!

Wow you all are a bunch of well educated ladies! :thumbup:

7 dpo and my bbs are huge and pretty sore, early testing starts in 2 days :D

Looks like we both O'd on the same day. I am 7dpo as well. Absolutely no symptoms here tho. I'm testing on Sept 1st. That'll be 11dpo for me. Fx'd for both of us and everyone else who plans on testing soon!
hopefully 9 is our lucky number! :)

Yes! FX'd it is!!! Good luck when you test!!! :)
 
Wow! I'm thrilled to stumble across this thread. Ummm, I'm 25 the hubby 26 and we have been TTC for the past 6 years. We were NTNP 4 years before that. We both love children and would love to have 3 (although we are still hoping for #1) diagnosed with unexplained infertility :( have been through 523 months of high hopes and heartache. have a normal extremely regular 28 day cycle O'ing on CD13 (usually but no later than CD14 and no earlier than CD12. Have dealt with one crappy OB after the next with no definitive effort or answers. The hubby has abnormal SA with the morphology abnormal and count on the low side of normal. Have given up junk food, exercised religiously, eat healthy, I even gave up almost all coffee (WW3 w/o my coffee) so I limited it to a max of 2 cups a day and most days I dont even finish 1. have tried temping, opk's, BBT, preseed, clomid, and have given up trying at times (thinking I was trying to hard). Something's got to give!!! I've heard time and again that when it's time I will have my miracle baby. But at this point I'm low (very low) on hopes, and losing determination fast.
 
Wow! I'm thrilled to stumble across this thread. Ummm, I'm 25 the hubby 26 and we have been TTC for the past 6 years. We were NTNP 4 years before that. We both love children and would love to have 3 (although we are still hoping for #1) diagnosed with unexplained infertility :( have been through 523 months of high hopes and heartache. have a normal extremely regular 28 day cycle O'ing on CD13 (usually but no later than CD14 and no earlier than CD12. Have dealt with one crappy OB after the next with no definitive effort or answers. The hubby has abnormal SA with the morphology abnormal and count on the low side of normal. Have given up junk food, exercised religiously, eat healthy, I even gave up almost all coffee (WW3 w/o my coffee) so I limited it to a max of 2 cups a day and most days I dont even finish 1. have tried temping, opk's, BBT, preseed, clomid, and have given up trying at times (thinking I was trying to hard). Something's got to give!!! I've heard time and again that when it's time I will have my miracle baby. But at this point I'm low (very low) on hopes, and losing determination fast.


Wow you've had a rough go Its! What kind of testing have u had done on your own fertility? I know you said unexplained but what have they checked? Finding a good doctor seems tough these days.... I was thinking of changing mine but he has the best reviews for an hour and a half around here! Hopefully you will get your bfp soon it sounds like you're doing the right things! Fx for u!
 
I think I may have spotted yesterday....I went to pee and had some brownish blood on my undies. I NEVER spot. I either have my period or I dont. But this looked just like the blood my period has the first hour or two. I wasnt expecting this...especially since few women actually see their ib. I could be crazy SS....if I am I had some weird discharge.

When are u testing?
 
Hello ladies, I am so lost when it comes to TTC... I have been TTC with the Husband for what is about to be our 5th cycle if i do not get my :bfp: I have tried softcups, preseed and even the Robitussin trick and can i just say EEEWWWWWWW! I am so sad that I have not been able to conceive yet and am starting to feel that I am infertile. :cry: I am praying that this month with be our :bfp: am going to :sex: on my most fertile days and hope for the best. I was wondering how long it took you all before your BFP
 
Hi Sarah :) it's completely normal to take up to a year to get preg, I'm on cycle 9 and got yet another bfn today at 9 dpo :(
 
Actually I haven't been able to get any testing done. By the time I get fed up with one dr. and head to the next they want to start all over. I have wasted way too much money and have only had blood drawn once. other than that they all keep saying that Im completely normal theres no reason to test...WTF?! what about not having a BFP in 10 years? something has to be wrong! ive been through 3 different doctors but just started seeing them 2 years ago. money has been tight so its hard to raise funds i dont really have to get new drs.
 
Haven't posted in ages, but I'm stumped.


So...this is sort of strange? I had cycles that are 100+ days long, and started drinking a tea, "Female Toner Tea", and got a period the next day. It lasted about a week or so. But I seem to be having 2 periods this month?

TMI AHEAD! If you want, read on. :blush:



-Let me say, mt bleeding is usually 1-2 days of such intense pain & flow, I am basically under house arrest, then 2-3 days of medium-to-light flow til I am done.


-This period had little to no cramps (mostly), and weird flow.


CD 1: Brown, CD 2 had a small clot in the morning. :shrug:

CD 3-6: Light brown...

CD 7: I had another small clot in the morning. :wacko:

CD 8: Spotting? (Wrote it in my calendar, didn't write what kind of spotting. :haha: )

CD 9: :sex: with DH. THE WORST CRAMPS EVER. These were like the ones I described above, that I usually had with my periods. Rushed to bathroom after :sex: to find bright red blood.

CD 10: :sex: again. No pain, but some spotting. :dohh:

CD 12-23: Nothing. No spotting, a few pains here and there, but nothing major at all. (Although from about CD 17-21, a week ago, my nipples itched ALL THE TIME!)

CD 24: Pains on my left side, so ovary?

CD 25: Pains continue. I had some *cough* me time in the morning :winkwink: , went to the bathroom after.
-While there, I passed a small clot (probably smaller than a US quarter), and continued to wipe pink the whole morning. Went away for most of the day. :sex: with DH in the pm, red wiping continues before bed, enough to stain the sheet.

CD 26 (Today): Had some light red spotting in the morning, and a small clot, ~half the size of my pinky fingernail. Also passed some dark brown stringy stuff?
-Just went to the bathroom, and NOTHING.


So, what do you think, am I on CD 26 of the last cycle, or am I CD 2 of the next one? Am I on a new period, or spotting?

-And is it the tea I'm taking, just adjusting my body? I started the tea the day before I got my 'first' period almost 4 weeks ago.
 
Rin, I don't really have an answer,but didn't want to read and run. I would guess that you are spotting or on a new cycle. It is very confusing, but it must be "normal" for AF to just change randomly because mine has done that for the past 3 months. It hasn't been quite as crazy as you, but I did have 2 periods one month, a barely there period another, a waaaay too heavy period another, and a normal one. So weird how after the BCP AF just has a mind of her own!
 
So ladies, I am kind of excited even though it is probably no big deal, but I have not had what I would call a clear OPK positive since I started TTC. It has always been almost positive/maybe positive or maybe not. Well this morning I got an immediate positive OPK. So I'm thinking maybe I haven't been ovulating, and now I am?? I hope this is a good sign. I'm always encouraged by anything different month to month that may mean I'll get a different result than the standard BFN! Have a great day ladies. Luna I hope today is finally your BFP! Are you going to test again today?
 
Thanks. I think it's a new cycle?

Getting some new red blood this am, but not much.
 
Actually I haven't been able to get any testing done. By the time I get fed up with one dr. and head to the next they want to start all over. I have wasted way too much money and have only had blood drawn once. other than that they all keep saying that Im completely normal theres no reason to test...WTF?! what about not having a BFP in 10 years? something has to be wrong! ive been through 3 different doctors but just started seeing them 2 years ago. money has been tight so its hard to raise funds i dont really have to get new drs.

Are you only seeing an OBGYN or have you seen a fertility specialist? that is probably where you want to go if you havnt already. They are expensive, and many arent covered by insurance, but they also dont mess around when it comes to getting preggo. Hope you can find one (that you like) and that it helps.

as for me, I have no idea where I am in my cycle. This is my first "cycle" since surgery and I think it still might be too soon to tell. My temps have been all over the place and my opts got darker around cd10 and then have been a def negative ever since. I have not been temping long enough to have a pattern and think i might be better off next month and assuming i might have my first normal cycle then. fx for us all.

Luna, 9dpo is early to test... when are you testing again?
 
So ladies, I am kind of excited even though it is probably no big deal, but I have not had what I would call a clear OPK positive since I started TTC. It has always been almost positive/maybe positive or maybe not. Well this morning I got an immediate positive OPK. So I'm thinking maybe I haven't been ovulating, and now I am?? I hope this is a good sign. I'm always encouraged by anything different month to month that may mean I'll get a different result than the standard BFN! Have a great day ladies. Luna I hope today is finally your BFP! Are you going to test again today?

Not sure if you were/werent ov before, but if you got a good + I would get to :sex: tonight/today!! hopefully this is it for you! Do you have a pic of your pos opt you can post?
 
I'm not sure how to post a photo in here from my phone. Is that possible to do or do I have to be on an actual computer?
 
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Blucky, I'm so bummed that you had been getting darker opts and then your opt went negative after cd10! That's usually what happened with me. I have no idea why it was different this month, but the only thing I did differently this month (simply by coincidence) was take caffeine free green tea drops in my water everyday. When school started back up, I decided to take a water bottle with me because I ususlly let myself get too dehydrated while teaching so I won't have to leave my students to use the restroom. I figured I should try to keep as healthy as possible, so I brought my big water bottle and decided to make it more appetizing with the green tea drops. Maybe green tea helps with ovulation??? I'm going to research that.
 
Blucky, I'm so bummed that you had been getting darker opts and then your opt went negative after cd10! That's usually what happened with me. I have no idea why it was different this month, but the only thing I did differently this month (simply by coincidence) was take caffeine free green tea drops in my water everyday. When school started back up, I decided to take a water bottle with me because I ususlly let myself get too dehydrated while teaching so I won't have to leave my students to use the restroom. I figured I should try to keep as healthy as possible, so I brought my big water bottle and decided to make it more appetizing with the green tea drops. Maybe green tea helps with ovulation??? I'm going to research that.

Blucky- That's what my test do all the time. They start getting nice and dark and right before I think they should turn positive they go negative. I even used digital OPK's this month all the way up to CD25 and I never got a positive.
 

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