The NEVER had a BFP thread. Lets stick together ladies!

[sugarpi24]

Luna hopefully they tell you both are clear!! If not ive heard of ppl getting pregnant with one tube. Maybe IUI or something can increase your chances!! I hope they can figure something out for you and hopefully you get a bfp soon!!

Brittany thank you! I hope the odds are good and play in our favor. ...we will see. Ttc is so stressing ive considered taking breaks!! Hubby it doesn't seem to phase him! I try and not get to stressed out over it...but its hard not to :/

 

[brittany12]

yeah my hubby doesn't want to stop trying, but he doesn't get affected by it like i do

 

[sugarpi24]

Yeah neither does mine! Hes like it'll happen when it happens... :/ he doesn't stress over it or anything...I'm the one getting emotional each month and it sucks! Men! Wish I could just not think about ttc!!

 

[brittany12]

same here! this month wasn't too bad, but now that i'm getting down to the final week of this cycle i'm starting to think about it more and want to test and everything else

 

[sugarpi24]

Yeah usually I don't get so crazy til the last week waiting on af or a bfp...I feel sorry for my doctor I call them and ask are they sure the blood tests are 100% accurate and such...and then once I get a blood test I get my period! Its like of course! this week I cant test early due to getting an injection and it'll bring up a false positive if I do :/

 

[brittany12]

im trying to be patient with this because i know it will happen, but i'm starting to struggle with being patient. I just want this so bad like i'm sure most of us do.

 

[luna_19]

Brittany have you had any testing done? I found it really helped me to relax knowing what is going on. Also my specialist told me to stop temping because it just makes people crazy and that has really helped me relax

Sugarpi it looks like the femara is working for you! Hope you get your bfp soon

 

[sugarpi24]

Yes I agree with Luna...my ob said the same thing about temping ...I just stressed out more cuz my temps were all over the place!! :/ he said it can be a pain in the ass lol

I love femera!! Its so much better than clomid! Less side effects and it got me to ovulate! I'm quite pleased with it!!

 

[brittany12]

i had my progesterone checked and have seen my obgyn and he said i'm def. ovulating. I don't have insurance to cover fertility so i'd have to pay out of pocket and right now with me in school we just can't afford that. Once I graduate if it hasn't happened yet, i'll go get tested. But DH is good!

 

[luna_19]

Well that's good! So instead of stressing just bd lots around o time and you're good to go

Sugarpi I've heard femara is better than clomid, I'm seeing my specialist again on Thursday and am wondering which one he will be putting me on. Seems like clomid is always the first choice for some reason.

 

[sugarpi24]

Yeah clomid is always the first choice my specialist said...its the cheaper approach and some have good results...he did a glucose test on me to make sure I wasn't having sugar issues since it runs in my family and I have pcos...but I was all clear so that's good!! But he said he thought id have a better reaction to femera than metformin...so I'm glad we went to femera. The ladies and doctors there are soooo nice!! It wasn't what I expected at all...thankfully my insurance covers everything except IVF...and I have unlimited IUIs....so I'm thankful for that! IVF is sooo expensive!! :/ a friend of mine has been trying for 10 years and she goes to the same doctor...so hopefully she will get good results too!!

 

[luna_19]

Here fertility treatments aren't covered so no iui or ivf unless you pay. My sil has done ivf twice and each time it cost them around $10,000. Crazy!
It's great you have unlimited iui

 

[sugarpi24]

Wow!! That's crazy! I couldn't imagine!!

 

[NurseJaime]

Got a negative blood test. I'm so crushed.... U really realize how much u got your hopes up when u get a negative. Onto cycle 11 after AF gets here next week. How do u not stress?

 

[awifey]

Got a negative blood test. I'm so crushed.... U really realize how much u got your hopes up when u get a negative. Onto cycle 11 after AF gets here next week. How do u not stress?

Sorry about that.

I try and not stress about TTC by planning what I'll do differently next month. While it is still thinking about TTC, it gives me a goal to work toward and then not just feel upset and think there's nothing I can do. :/

 

[luna_19]

nursejamie

 

[minuet]

so sorry nurse It is really hard not to stress and be down, the only thing that keeps us going is the thought of gaining what we desire - a child.

 

[J_Lynn]

I start clomid next cycle ... I have to go get my progesterone shots next week. I am really anxious to see if this makes me ovulate or not.

 

[luna_19]

I'm starting clomid next cycle too

 

[J_Lynn]

Im pretty excited ) My pharmacist said, "Now - this may give you mood swings, like BAD ones - I like to call it 'clomid rage' ... so watch out" and she laughed ... but she said it may make you horrible bitchy. I'm OK with that. As long as it makes me ovulate