
im sorry MrsJerome

i know its not what you wanted.....men go through weird emotional mood swings. i know my husband was back and forth back and forth with his decision to to get pregnant again. there would be months where i thought we were "trying" he would actualyl ask me if i was "fertile" or not and then he would pull out last minute and say he wasnt ready, leaving me in the air for months!!!! then the last baby we miscarried he was not even happy when i told him i was pregnant

so i was so upset when i lost the baby that i told him it was his fault

after that i decided i wouldnt even "think" about pregnancy, i would just let whatever happen to happen, and it seems as tho he got a big case "sir humps alot" and we ended up pregnant. he is happy this time, i think, he gets all wokred up about finances, and he really gets upset with me if im impatient or seem to be stressed towards or in front of the kids. last night he told me to get it together because i wasnt treating our kids right

that hurt my feelings.......and honestly, the only thing i did that he didnt like was i told my 8yr "keep your mouth quiet, i dont want to hear you bossing (brother) around anymore". he said i raised my voice.
anyway-maybe your hubby is just having second thoughts and he doesnt even know why yet

have you asked him his reasons for being apprehensive?
maybe skip a month of ovulation testing, and the soft cups and let your time together be more natural and fun.....sometimes the stress of "trying" can cause psychological infertility, and make him less likely to accept it

hope you feel better soon
