Things I cannot say out loud....

[lisaf]

Lol.. my DH leaves me alone in the shower, but I'll admit I brought Daniel in to peek at daddy in the shower the other day!
I say give them a taste of their own medicine

To my body - you suck, get over this cold fast, I can't take a cold, fussy baby, and incredible heat at the same time
To the weather - if you had balls, I would rip them off...hurry up and cool down, its October FFS!!! it got over 90 degrees in my house today and we don't have AC

 

[Natsku]

I never lock the bathroom door, I usually leave it open a bit as well so Maria can find me if she gets lonely

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Actually, I was wondering why so many of you can be interrupted in the bathroom?! Do you not lock the door?! I always do, even if I'm in by myself...

I used to lock the door when I lived with FOB, but then the cat would cry & pull the carpet up. So I'd be doomed if I was still living with him. Lucky for me, I can lock the door at my mom's & shower/bath in peace

You are so happy to be home aren't you? I bet you are.

Yes, yes I am. It's so amazing

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Alex, for the love of god, SLEEEEEEP!!!!!!!!! I'm tired and cranky and my head hurts and my eyes hurt and you WON'T SLEEP except upright on me and I can't even lay back because you wake up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go to hell sleep regression. If I find out where you live, I'm coming to kill you!

 

[Kalah]

Only reason I can't say this out loud is because there's no one around to hear it.
I'm so worried and scared and confused.
I don't have any money, like none literally zero. Kili's almost out of diapers and wipes and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I just spend today emailing tons of stores and random people on craigslist asking for diaper donations.
I can't get a job because I haven't been approved for daycare assistance. I haven't been approved for any benefits yet other than WIC so I can still get milk/bread/beans/juice, but that's all.
It's not like I've never been this poor before, but I've never been this poor with a child. Half of me is saying go into the benefits office and beg, but then I remember all the other people I've already seen do that just in the times I was in the office and it never works.

My ex has offered me to come back there (I've still got the return portion of my flight, but never planned on using it) but I can't do that. I worked so hard to get away I can't just go back, it would break my families heart.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Only reason I can't say this out loud is because there's no one around to hear it.
I'm so worried and scared and confused.
I don't have any money, like none literally zero. Kili's almost out of diapers and wipes and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I just spend today emailing tons of stores and random people on craigslist asking for diaper donations.
I can't get a job because I haven't been approved for daycare assistance. I haven't been approved for any benefits yet other than WIC so I can still get milk/bread/beans/juice, but that's all.
It's not like I've never been this poor before, but I've never been this poor with a child. Half of me is saying go into the benefits office and beg, but then I remember all the other people I've already seen do that just in the times I was in the office and it never works.

My ex has offered me to come back there (I've still got the return portion of my flight, but never planned on using it) but I can't do that. I worked so hard to get away I can't just go back, it would break my families heart.

Are you living with your mom? She won't help you? Let me ask my Mom if she knows anywhere for that stuff. She is a School Social Worker.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

My mom says Social Services has funds and churches has discretionary funding.

What State are you in? You can pm me if you want.

 

[emyandpotato]

MIL- Yes, for the hundredth time, I'm sure I don't want LO in the pram. I know you bought it specially and it cost a fortune but we told you not to and I love babywearing and am not going to stop so you can play mum with the pram.

Please don't compare you not trying BF because it is time consuming with me stopping after 9 weeks because EE is exhausting and agony and made me ill and LO screaming when I tried to get him to latch broke my heart, not to mention supply issues. It makes me feel very guilty when you act like it's the same thing.

OH- I love you and I know you were trying to make me feel better but saying my post baby tummy is just like yours makes me feel fat You're 260 lbs and I'm 135 lbs, I know I'm chubby but saying we're the same doesn't help.

 

[Spunky]

Only reason I can't say this out loud is because there's no one around to hear it.
I'm so worried and scared and confused.
I don't have any money, like none literally zero. Kili's almost out of diapers and wipes and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I just spend today emailing tons of stores and random people on craigslist asking for diaper donations.
I can't get a job because I haven't been approved for daycare assistance. I haven't been approved for any benefits yet other than WIC so I can still get milk/bread/beans/juice, but that's all.
It's not like I've never been this poor before, but I've never been this poor with a child. Half of me is saying go into the benefits office and beg, but then I remember all the other people I've already seen do that just in the times I was in the office and it never works.

My ex has offered me to come back there (I've still got the return portion of my flight, but never planned on using it) but I can't do that. I worked so hard to get away I can't just go back, it would break my families heart.

I can't offer you any help, but I just want to give you and I hope things will work out for you. If push comes to shove can you use burp rags and washcloths and rinse them? Not ideal, but might help for a day. I'm so sorry hun.

OH- I love you and I know you were trying to make me feel better but saying my post baby tummy is just like yours makes me feel fat You're 260 lbs and I'm 135 lbs, I know I'm chubby but saying we're the same doesn't help.

Guys are stupid sometimes. I think it's wonderful that you're 135lbs! I'd kill to be 135 right now. You're only 2 months pp, give yourself time to heal before you worry about your tummy. I hate my pp tummy, but I try to tell myself it's not just fat, it's where my baby lived. Things need time to go back to how they were.

 

[Lettuce]

Kalah! hope youre ok, what about SVDP or something?

Mils sisters... I'm so mad at you. For mil's birthday today you gave her pictures of my daughter?! Wtf?! That's my job, nit yours. ESP since yours were bigger and mor expensive than mine, thanks for that bitches.

Oh yeah, ESP thanks for the big one you gave of DH, SIL and Jen, yeah, thanks for cutting me out of it, yeah, cheers for that.

 

[MissFox]

aww Kalah! I hope you get something figured out!!! You can't go back! You made it away. I wish I could help!

 

[MizzDeeDee]

aww Kalah! I hope you get something figured out!!! You can't go back! You made it away. I wish I could help!

I agree and I hope you were able to get something figured out.

 

[lisaf]

MIL - when I tell you not to try to get Daniel to look at me and say hi to me when you're giving him a bottle because he tries to look around while he's nursing on me and hurts me. the correct response to this is not to prop him up and face him outwards with the bottle still attached and tell him he's 'such a strong boy'
oh yeah, and your kiss did NOT make the burp come out, it was coming out anyway. And lastly, he did not double in weight since last week, you are just weak and out of shape and don't eat right.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

MIL - when I tell you not to try to get Daniel to look at me and say hi to me when you're giving him a bottle because he tries to look around while he's nursing on me and hurts me. the correct response to this is not to prop him up and face him outwards with the bottle still attached and tell him he's 'such a strong boy'
oh yeah, and your kiss did NOT make the burp come out, it was coming out anyway. And lastly, he did not double in weight since last week, you are just weak and out of shape and don't eat right.

Yes, her kisses made him burp. Why do grandparents say such silly things?

 

[StarlitHome]

Mils sisters... I'm so mad at you. For mil's birthday today you gave her pictures of my daughter?! Wtf?! That's my job, nit yours. ESP since yours were bigger and mor expensive than mine, thanks for that bitches.

Oh yeah, ESP thanks for the big one you gave of DH, SIL and Jen, yeah, thanks for cutting me out of it, yeah, cheers for that.

Wow. Really?

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Mils sisters... I'm so mad at you. For mil's birthday today you gave her pictures of my daughter?! Wtf?! That's my job, nit yours. ESP since yours were bigger and mor expensive than mine, thanks for that bitches.

Oh yeah, ESP thanks for the big one you gave of DH, SIL and Jen, yeah, thanks for cutting me out of it, yeah, cheers for that.

Wow. Really?

That's just ballsy.

 

[Lettuce]

Yup, both of DHs aunts gave her photos of Jen for her birthday, one gave a big blown up pic that I had taken, and another gave the photo of DH, SIL and Jenny. I had given her, from Jenny, 2 frames with 2 pics in each. It totally cheapened my present. I'm still raging. I'm so glad you guys think im right to be mad! It's MY job to give out photos of my daughter.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Yup, both of DHs aunts gave her photos of Jen for her birthday, one gave a big blown up pic that I had taken, and another gave the photo of DH, SIL and Jenny. I had given her, from Jenny, 2 frames with 2 pics in each. It totally cheapened my present. I'm still raging. I'm so glad you guys think im right to be mad! It's MY job to give out photos of my daughter.

Yes it is. I think they are kinda jackasses for that if you want me to be honest. I mean, who gives a pic of a child that isn't theirs as a gift? Who does that?

 

[Lettuce]

Clearly DHs aunts! I'm sure they meant well, but seriously? Think of your own presents!

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Clearly DHs aunts! I'm sure they meant well, but seriously? Think of your own presents!

Well that...and FFS.. it's YOUR baby... seriously who gives a picture of someone else's baby? That's just.... tacky!

I would be very pissed off.