Things I cannot say out loud....

He's still sleeping and I feel like such a weakling because I don't dare wake him.
Looking at plane tickets to thr Netherlands now, only £99 for Soph and me both ways. Considering it!!!!
 
You should! Just tell him you want a break away with people who will actually help you so you can get some rest! Big :hugs:
 
Aww, vixiepoo! :hugs: you must have got a terrible fright! But so easy done when you are doing too much.
Lauki, I say be honest with him, tell him that you are exhausted, even tell him how you feel about him being the only one around etc, I bet he'll be upset you felt this bad! :hugs: they just dont realise. Men almost always need it totally spelt out to them!
A tri sounds good! :)

Baby boo, how much would you charge to come up here and use that on mine?! You could make a business out of it! Xx

Ozziehunni! What's with these poos?!!? :sick: everywhere...
 
You're all so lovely :).
My dad phones me weekly and says he feels so bad that he's not closer so he could help me out more, I wish he could.
Hubbies family are lovely and happy for us to visit and play with Soph when she's happy and all, but sometimes you need more don't you?

My dad's coming in 2 months, but that seems so far away.

I just need more energy to be able to play with Soph, it's starting to make me feel like a bad mummy eventhough it shouldnt cause it's not my fault!
 
Vixiepoo - Glad your LO is ok!

We should've all lived closer together!!
 
Lauki- Do it! You need your family. I was looking at flights to go see mine this week too but they are way more expensive than that :(
 
I'm going to see my folks! Woo

I've just been diagnosed with PND and my folks haven't met Ethan yet, so dad's paying for me and Ethan to go to Saudi to see them for 2 weeks.

What I can't tell Mike

I will miss you more than words can possibly say, but I need to see my family. I knew I wanted to go as soon as dad asked me about it.
 
Aww, vixiepoo! :hugs: you must have got a terrible fright! But so easy done when you are doing too much.
Lauki, I say be honest with him, tell him that you are exhausted, even tell him how you feel about him being the only one around etc, I bet he'll be upset you felt this bad! :hugs: they just dont realise. Men almost always need it totally spelt out to them!
A tri sounds good! :)

Baby boo, how much would you charge to come up here and use that on mine?! You could make a business out of it! Xx

Ozziehunni! What's with these poos?!!? :sick: everywhere...

It's a part of teething. Because they put everything in their mouths, it leads to explosive poos. Gross, I know.
 
DO IT LAUKI!!! You will LOVE IT! When Rosie was 3 months I took her to visit my whole family in Massachusetts. 3000 miles between DH and myself for 2 weeks! It was great to be able to pass her to someone else and so great to also be able to have someone pick her up as soon as she started russling in the morning. I would feed her and then GO BACK TO SLEEP! If only for an hour but it was great to have the option. I think if its affordable then you can go for a couple weeks to get some rest and some much needed help.
 
Lauki - go for it!!!

To my aunt - FOR FUCK SAKE! You say you're coming down to see us when you get back from holiday, you got back last night, texted me today to ask when we're coming to see you then get all meh because I say it won't be for a while!! You know we can't afford to keep coming all the time! It costs £40 just in petrol! If you're that bothered then WHY can't you come to us! We've been here 3 months and you only just asked for my address to send me a birthday card, you've not known where I live for three months!!

You say you think of me as your daughter but you've been to your sons house numerous times in two months! And it takes roughly the same time to get to both of us.
Well get it into your head, I'm not your daughter! You threw away a close relationship when you kicked me out for being depressed 3 weeks before Christmas!!
 
Mum, I love you and know you have our best interests at heart. But so help me god, if you tell me one more time to "be careful cos Jenny now (insert new talent, like reaches forward, want to stand up, jerks back) " I will not hold back! I KNOW to be careful! I KNOW what she can do! She's MY DAUGHTER! I care for her every minute of every day. I can see how she progresses.
Oh yeah, and FYI, I haven't caused her to have any accidents, you have poured coffee all over her cos you didnt listen to me! (it was cold btw) I've not mentioned it since but if you keep up with that nonsense I'm going to point it out to you.


Ah, that's better.... :) I don't usually get mad at my mum, but that's been bugging me.
 
Lauki: hope you're feeling better and that you got a rest and booked some flights. Xx
 
dear ratties- please stop being so smelly Im scared OH will say I have to get rid :(

dear foster puppy- please stop whining all the freaking time it does my bloody head in!

dear LO- I wish you wouldnt whinge and screech all day sometimes I feel like letting you eat all day just because it shuts you up. I can't leave the room without giving you something to eat. You had better grow out of that.

dear DS- OMG stfu I do NOT need to hear a running commentary of the bloody TV!!!!!!!! If it's not LO whinging in one ear its you telling me about something I CAN SEE with my own eyes!! Even telling you if you can't watch it quietly go and play, you still do it :dohh: stop, please.

dear OH- stop being so selfish. I am fed up. Some times I just can't be bothered to do anything.
How come you get to stay in bed until just before I leave, let me deal with the 2 kids, make sure your shirt is ironed and coffee ready, let the dogs out for the loo, feed them, change and get LO into buggy ready to leave for school as well as getting myself ready... which means sometiesm I forget to brush my own hair!.. and then you get up and just sort yourself out. DS is old enough to be dropped off at the school gates so how come you can't get up and drop him off before you go to work, especially when its raining!


dear christmas- GO AWAY, don't have enough money to start xmas shopping and I'm terrified xmas will be shit this year :(
 
Mum, I love you and know you have our best interests at heart. But so help me god, if you tell me one more time to "be careful cos Jenny now (insert new talent, like reaches forward, want to stand up, jerks back) " I will not hold back! I KNOW to be careful! I KNOW what she can do! She's MY DAUGHTER! I care for her every minute of every day. I can see how she progresses.
Oh yeah, and FYI, I haven't caused her to have any accidents, you have poured coffee all over her cos you didnt listen to me! (it was cold btw) I've not mentioned it since but if you keep up with that nonsense I'm going to point it out to you.


Ah, that's better.... :) I don't usually get mad at my mum, but that's been bugging me.

My MIL does this too... Especially when it's DH holding Boo!

Actually, here we go...

MIL - your son is a daddy now. He has a two-month-old daughter who he adores and who he spends as much time with as he can (with working 3 jobs). He plays with her and cuddles her and holds her every chance he gets. So STOP telling him how to hold her when we're at yours! He knows! He's doing fine! Boo loves it! So just quit nagging him!
Tee-Emmmm you have to hold her heeead, Tee-Emmm hold her like this, T-Emmm don't do THAT...
Hi my name is Holly and my MIL is a NAG... She's sweet and loving and nice but she nags. She nags her husband, she nags her daughter, she nags her sons. My mom tried her hardest not to nag and taught me to do the same, so my MIL's nagging drives me up the wall.
 
Mum -"oh you've very grumpy today LO"or "Awww you have a sore tummy" (whilst LO is sucking on his hands getting grizzly.

HES F"N HUNGRY!!! I've told you a million times in 10minutes, thats why hes not going down and crying in his bed.
 
MIL- You are always whining that we keep you from LO so we invited you to come see her in her Halloween outfit at a Halloween party. You agreed to come yesterday. We show up and see that it has been canceled because of the weather.. no matter though because when we call to tell you you tell us that you had made other plans and you were spending the night. You didn't even call or text us to tell us you weren't coming.

My daughter is only an infant but if you treat your son and I with disrespect then you will treat my daughter that way I'm sure. I also won't be having you make promises to my daughter and then break them either.

You have no idea how generous I'm being to you. Keep up with your crap and you'll find out real quick.
 
Lo- How on earth did you manage to poo up your stomach? It's in your belly button!

Father- Baby and I are a package deal, you can't have her in your life without me. I'm doing YOU a favor when she visits, not the other way around. And it is not ok to "guess" when the box the medicine came in says to ask a doctor. You could have just called. You are making life hard for all of us for absolutely no reason whatsoever. You don't have to like me, but you do have to respect me as a person and as the mother of your grandchild.
 
To the neighbors in our building with the GIANT truck that were driving in ahead of us with a couch or something in the bed of the truck -

ARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks. Mahalo SO very much, sister, you couldn't just drive once it was clear that the couch was gonna fit under the overhang? Mahalo so much for having your man creep in veryvery slowly and then STOP in front of us.
Couldn't you hear my poor baby freaking out?? I'm 99.9% positive you did. And thanks to you, it took me 15 minutes to calm her down. She was already unhappy about being in the car when she was hungry and she knew we were almost home but then you made us STOP and she lost it.

Mahalo very much, sister. I hope you see us at the building Halloween party on Monday and I hope you apologize!
 
Neighbours:

Why do you wait until the second I put LO down for a nap to noisily throw your rubbish in the bin, take the dogs out to bark at one another, drag your gate along the drive (lift the pole dammit!), or stand outside (right under the window) and talk REALLY loudly? She was down for 5 MINUTES! :cry:
 
In Laws - No she doesnt want to give you a kiss... GET OUT OF HER FACE... and you wonder why she only gives mummy kisses? Because I dont stick my ugly head 1cm infron of her and scaring te living daylights out of her, demanding kisses
 

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