Things I cannot say out loud....

[Lauki]

Lauki: hope you're feeling better and that you got a rest and booked some flights. Xx

We've had a good talk! He slept next to her last night so he could put the dummy back in and he got up with her at 7am!

Waiting with the tickets for a bit cause want to go over in JAnuary!

 

[MissFox]

Mom- when Rosie fell over this morning and I was comforting her because she got hurt/scared do nit take her from me. I am taking care of my child. She is crying mamamamasma for a reason. It is not because she doesn't know to call you Nana yet but because I am her mama and I make it all better. So kindle BTFO so I can sooth her! also don't ever do that again.

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Mom- when Rosie fell over this morning and I was comforting her because she got hurt/scared do nit take her from me. I am taking care of my child. She is crying mamamamasma for a reason. It is not because she doesn't know to call you Nana yet but because I am her mama and I make it all better. So kindle BTFO so I can sooth her! also don't ever do that again.

Ewww.... that would make me angry too!

 

[Dizzymum]

Mum...........I know how much my Dad would have loved Jessica. You don't need to point it out EVERY time you bump into random people when you are out with us. It makes me want to cry I'm having a hard time dealing with losing him, and I don't think you understand. I would give anything to have the memory of him holding her, just for a minute, but I don't.

I held his hand against my tummy when he was near the end, and she was kicking.............I knew they would never meet. It broke my heart.

I miss him every second of every day, my life will never be the same.

Just because I can't talk about it Mum, doesn't mean I don't care.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

@ Dizzymum

Big I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Mum...........I know how much my Dad would have loved Jessica. You don't need to point it out EVERY time you bump into random people when you are out with us. It makes me want to cry I'm having a hard time dealing with losing him, and I don't think you understand. I would give anything to have the memory of him holding her, just for a minute, but I don't.

I held his hand against my tummy when he was near the end, and she was kicking.............I knew they would never meet. It broke my heart.

I miss him every second of every day, my life will never be the same.

Just because I can't talk about it Mum, doesn't mean I don't care.

 

[Dizzymum]

Thank you. I've been wanting to get that off my chest! Can't talk to my Mum, as then I would cry, and probably would never stop! It's too much to deal with. Dad died suddenly a week before xmas last year, two weeks before Jess was born. I still can't believe it. Jessica has been our little ray of sunshine on some very, very dark days.

Thanks for reading x

 

[StarlitHome]

@ Dizzymom.

MIL - I don't know if you'll be at church today but I hope that if you are, you are prepared to not hold BooBoo during the service. I'm not blaming you holding her last week for the unbelievable Great Meltdown that happened later that evening, but just the same I'll be keeping my daughter with me. Especially if she's a) sleeping or b) due for a nap. You can hold her and play with her later when we are at your house and she's happy.

 

[Lettuce]

Oh dizzymum, you poor soul. what a terribly hard thing for you to go through. It's still so recent, no wonder you find it so painful. you're in my thoughts and prayers. Xx

 

[SammieGrace]

DH --- it was very sweet of you to get me an ipad because you know I have been lonely. However, it frustrates me when you ask if I am ok and I tell you I am tired and you say that you will take the baby when we get home, I actually think you mean it. When we got home you dragged your feet and got mad when I asked when you were going to take him. So then you just didn't take him at all. Again!

 

[Ozzieshunni]

dizzy. I get sad everytime someone says how DHs mum would have loved Alex. She would have been so proud

 

[StarlitHome]

MIL -
I know you love Boo and that you only get to see her once a week (although honestly? You could call and drop by after work during the week if you really wanted too...), but you have to understand - Boo lives a pretty quiet life.
At home, it's just me and her and DH. DH and I are not loud people and we don't constantly have TV on or music playing. We don't yell at each other and when we talk to Boo, we definitely don't get right in her face and get loud.
So when you are holding her and you're talking talking talking in a high-pitched baby-talk tone, she likes it and is amused for a short time but then she gets sick of it (and who could blame her?) and so she wants her mama. That's why she starts to cry and fuss, but stops the instant you give her back to me.
It's very, very loud and overstimulating at your house, what with you constantly getting in her face with baby talk, the TV going at full volume, dinner table conversation, and you nagging at BIL or SIL or FIL for different things.
I get quiet and just sit and listen when this happens. Boo? Cries.
You notice that the minute I took her into your bedroom and we were alone, she was happy?
I don't know how to tactfully get this across to you... I want Boo to enjoy visiting her grandparents and family!

 

[Geek]

Dear OH, what made you think it was ok to defrost dead mice (for the snake) on the chopping board we prepare our food on?! I don't care if your're skint you can go and buy another one now.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Eeeeeeeeew Geek!!!!!

 

[Emmy1987]

MIL: don't you DARE ever give LO ice cream ever again or I'll rip your face off. Thank god she didn't want it and just spat it out!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH!

 

[Lauki]

MIL: don't you DARE ever give LO ice cream ever again or I'll rip your face off. Thank god she didn't want it and just spat it out!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH!

Oh wow. I would be fuming too! I've made such a major point of waiting till Christmas to wean Soph that everyone is so scared of my angry mummy wrath,they're not talking about it anymore .

 

[kaths101]

To my mum: I love you and you help me out loads but why are you so intent in wanting jack to eat 'proper food' he is only 2 months old - and no he wont be able to have some christmas dinner as you suggested last week.

Also when he is hungry do you really have to say 'what again' EVERY single time, and its no wonder he doesnt want to feed if your are fussing and then i get another comment ' see hes not hungry' yes mum he is - I know when my son is hungry!!

 

[MissFox]

Haha just like my mom last night as Rosie is shoveling the food into her mouth (literally so much she can't even close her mouth all the way!) "Hmm you should peel that squash. She's going to choke on it! She's putting too much in her mouth!" K mom but if you try to take it away she will scream at you bc it is her food. But if you sit here Ans watch you will notice bite size pieces talking out bc she knows how to handle shoving that much food in her mouth and just spits it out. "BUT THE PEEL SHE IS HAVUNG A HARD TIME WITH THE PEELS!"
Needless to say Rosie did not choke on her zucchini and mashed potatoes

 

[Ozzieshunni]

People have stopped questioning my parenting or saying "You should be doing a, b, and c." I wish I know what I did so I can pass on the trick to you all

 

[milf2be]

to FIL:
stop trying to get me to wean LO he's not ready and it's far too early!
letting him lick your chip (which was covered in vinegar and salt) is not funny and if you do that again i wont let you hold him....EVER
stop trying to take OH away from me and trying to get him to fall out with me. i love him and he loves me. DEAL WITH IT!
why complain about never seeing your grandson when you can see him whenever you want (within reason!), you just choose not to
dont pretend you've got no money to buy LO things (he still hasnt bought LO a single thing) when you're planning on buying a Porsche
To uni:
if you ring me up and leave a voicemail on my house phone when im on holiday to rearrange a meeting and i dont reply, assume i didnt get it, dont wait there hoping im going to turn up when in actual fact im on holiday in devon
also dont lie and say you tried numerous times to contact me and left numerous messages. you left ONE message on my house phone, didnt email me, didnt write me a letter and didnt leave me a message on my blackberry.....should i expect a pigeon to turn up???