Things I cannot say out loud....

To DH:

I don't believe you that you will actually quit smoking this time. I'm sorry, I really want to. I need to. I feel like a bad wife, cuz I don't believe you. I know this time you're taking anti anxiety meds and have a plan, etc, but you've "tried to quit" so many times....I know you truly want to, but with your stress level from work and baby mama, I just don't think you can do it. :nope: I'm sorry love, I truly do love you no matter what. :hugs:

:hugs: I know how you feel. My DH says he's going to quit all of the time. Still doesn't. It's an expensive habit.

Yeah. I wanna believe him this time, he talked to a doctor and got anti anxiety meds, and has cut back so much. versus a pack or so a day, a pack now lasts him 2-3 days. I'm so proud of him and I tell him that all the time. But he's sworn to me up and down over and over he would quit....I can't even get mad cuz I understand it's an addiction, he can't fully control it. And he has a very stressful job, and a crazy ass ex. But I can't keep totally and fully believing him, and then feeling hurt when he fails, so this time, I'm not holding my breath.
 
to whatever is growing under my eyelid.. go away, you stuck (probably a stye, but it just sucks right now)
 
To myself-

I want to be a Roller Derby girl so frikin bad!!!!!!!! I need to lose weight and go for it this time next year when they have try outs.

I used to be an athlete before I got sick, pregnant, then fat.... I can do this!
 
ooh, roller derby is awesome! I'd be really impressed if you did it!
 
DH,

I know your tired I am too but we have a newborn so stfu. And yes im cranky I quit my job and became fat, I have a fussy newborn so all day so stfu with your "advice". Also we worked at the same place so don't take it personal when I roll my eyes, I quit for a reason more than being pregnant.

Inlaws,

I hate you. That is all xoxo
 
Cowboys Angel - Has he ever tried one of these fake cigarettes whih give you nicotine, but not the bad stuff (no smell either, just water vapour). It helped my hubby who smoked a packet a day quit :).

Sophie fell off the sofa and I feel horible, she's all smiley but has a red spot. She was only sitting all the way back right next to me. I'm gonna tie her down from now on!!
 
We haven't tried those yet, right now he's trying with the help of anti anxiety meds, and they seem to be helping him a lot.... those water vapor smokes are the next step after this if he doesn't manage to quit
 
MIL.. stop leaving me voice-mails of breastfeeding 'advice' everyday! i don't even listen to them! i hear it's you & delete it! and no you won't be baby sitting our not-even-3-week-old baby! just goooo awaayyyy!!
 
MIL.. stop leaving me voice-mails of breastfeeding 'advice' everyday! i don't even listen to them! i hear it's you & delete it! and no you won't be baby sitting our not-even-3-week-old baby! just goooo awaayyyy!!

Sorry this made me laugh, she leaves you breastfeeding advice on your voicemail????:wacko:
 
MIL.. stop leaving me voice-mails of breastfeeding 'advice' everyday! i don't even listen to them! i hear it's you & delete it! and no you won't be baby sitting our not-even-3-week-old baby! just goooo awaayyyy!!

Sorry this made me laugh, she leaves you breastfeeding advice on your voicemail????:wacko:

Ugh, it wasn't breastfeeding advice, but my SIL used to send me really long text messages every day... which would happen to beep just as I was putting the baby down.. then beep again and again because her texts were so long they were broken into 7 messages. I stopped reading them because they sounded like she was drunk and just gushing over how much she loves me and the baby blah blah blah... (if you really love me and the baby, come bring me dinner then LEAVE)
 
MIL.. stop leaving me voice-mails of breastfeeding 'advice' everyday! i don't even listen to them! i hear it's you & delete it! and no you won't be baby sitting our not-even-3-week-old baby! just goooo awaayyyy!!

Sorry this made me laugh, she leaves you breastfeeding advice on your voicemail????:wacko:

yep! everyday! she is psychotic! cannot stand that woman lol
 
I put breastmilk in my sore eye and it felt better :blush: I can't tell anyone cause it's kinda weird, lol! Hey, it worked for LO's sticky eye :shrug: :haha:
 
MIL.. stop leaving me voice-mails of breastfeeding 'advice' everyday! i don't even listen to them! i hear it's you & delete it! and no you won't be baby sitting our not-even-3-week-old baby! just goooo awaayyyy!!

Sorry this made me laugh, she leaves you breastfeeding advice on your voicemail????:wacko:

yep! everyday! she is psychotic! cannot stand that woman lol

Does she think you are doing something wrong? I don't understand... :dohh:

Dear MIL -
I said I wasn't going to get my hopes up when you plan something for us again, but I'd really, really like a pedicure so I sure hope this actually happens.... Please don't cancel at the last minute!
(luckily it's actually her sister making the reservations, etc).
 
Weird on the bf advice! :rofl:

DH, I'm starting not to like you. Seriously. You are not a nice person. I think about kicking you out. I honestly do. I own the flat, and the car, and since I am exclusively bf, you'd have nothing. Think on, think on. Divorces don't just happen cos the other person has cheated, or don't something really bad. Sometimes it's the little things that eat away at it and cause it all to crumble.
 
Weird on the bf advice! :rofl:

DH, I'm starting not to like you. Seriously. You are not a nice person. I think about kicking you out. I honestly do. I own the flat, and the car, and since I am exclusively bf, you'd have nothing. Think on, think on. Divorces don't just happen cos the other person has cheated, or don't something really bad. Sometimes it's the little things that eat away at it and cause it all to crumble.

:hugs:
 
hmm, I have a stye forming.. will BM help with that? lol
 
MIL.. stop leaving me voice-mails of breastfeeding 'advice' everyday! i don't even listen to them! i hear it's you & delete it! and no you won't be baby sitting our not-even-3-week-old baby! just goooo awaayyyy!!

Sorry this made me laugh, she leaves you breastfeeding advice on your voicemail????:wacko:

yep! everyday! she is psychotic! cannot stand that woman lol

Does she think you are doing something wrong? I don't understand... :dohh:

Nope she's just an interfering insane witch. When I was pregnant she'd leave me voicemails about her weird opinions on parenting and going on about dirty baby toys she'd found in charity shops. I eventually told her to stop or I'd change my phone number but she appears to have started up again :wacko:
 
Weird on the bf advice! :rofl:

DH, I'm starting not to like you. Seriously. You are not a nice person. I think about kicking you out. I honestly do. I own the flat, and the car, and since I am exclusively bf, you'd have nothing. Think on, think on. Divorces don't just happen cos the other person has cheated, or don't something really bad. Sometimes it's the little things that eat away at it and cause it all to crumble.

Honey :hugs: I was feeling just like that earlier in the week too! Men... :nope: xx
 

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