Dear sister:
[This is gonna be a long one]
I don't approve of you coming to my home anymore with your 2 children because you're "bored" your children are only 1 and 2 years of age and are out of control! I do not enjoy either you or them coming to visit. I apologize for shouting at your 1yo son, but when he purposely runs and jumps on top of my 1 and a half month old babies head, while he's sleeping, it took just over an hour to get him sleeping because your children where fighting and screaming ridiculously, what on earth do you expect? Don't say "he doesn't understand, he's only 1" I don't really see it as an excuse
He could have seriously hurt my baby!
Your 2yo daughter keeps beating up and punching your son and other people because you and your OH physically fight in front of her, your behavior towards your daughter is disgusting, STOP smacking her, swearing at her, slinging her into my furniture and ignoring her, you're making her severely jealous of your son because you give him all the attention and treat her like that!. Also don't use such disgraceful language then smack her for doing the same, she's just copying what she's heard! If you don't want her to speak in that manner then don't do it yourself. SIMPLE. Also don't tell me to "pelt" [aka smack] her for punching me in the face this morning. I understand she shouldn't do that, I told her off, but I will not smack yours or anyones children!
Also it doesn't help when you have them BOTH on a diet of crisps, fizzy pop and chocolate, do you not realize how hyper it's making them? And your daughter is addicted to chocolate
I hate the fact you come up daily, your kids fight, hit each other, swear and you never think of MY baby, who ends up over-tired, naggy and just generally makes himself a handful because of all the noise etc. Also thanks for bringing them up FULL of cold when my baby was 3 weeks old and now they're full again, I told you not to come if they are ill and you do anyway. Don't go through the back door in the morning because I have locked the front, the reason it's unlocked sometimes is because I let the puppy out to do her business when I'm up making feeds at night and I'm that tired I just forget. I can't deal with being up all night then dealing with both my son and your children in the day. It's beyond ridiculous.
If you weren't my sister I'd of disowned you already, but because you are I can't find the courage to just tell you everything, besides, I'm sure you'd just start an argument about it all. I can't believe I don't enjoy seeing my own niece and nephew
I think I may need some advice on what to do/say here ladies
Lettuce. DH and I have fought so much more since we had Alex. I felt like leaving the other week. I actually got out a suitcase and started putting Alex's stuff in it and said I was moving back to California to my parents 
please stop making me cry he's not even 3 weeks old i can't believe your giving me this crap already 
I think you need to tell them this. You're doing a great job. Xxx
