Things I cannot say out loud....

Can't say this outloud because it's rediculous, but I really want to be pregnant again! I LOVE my LO! He's wonderful! Can't wait to have another! LOVED being pregnant! PS stay happy with how things are until LO is 1 year old! Then you can start trying.

Crazy woman.






:blush:If I could 100% guarantee that I would have a boy I would probably be taking the plunge too with no reservation. Who knows what will happen- amazing when our birthing experiences were so super awesome huh?
 
Thanks girls, I'm just feeling down, I had to buy size 24 jeans yesterday, that's officially the biggest I've ever been, I feel wobbly and gross and dont want to go outside coz I think people are staring at me.
I don't know what to do about the cleaning, I don't think it's fair for it to carry on this way, we had an agreement but I don't want to say anything and rock the boat, we've been here six months without an argument, I don't want to start one over cleaning! I've tried leaving it and waiting for someone else to do it but they never did and it was gross so I did it. They were never the most house proud couple but I'm sure when it was just the two of them they must have cleaned occasionally?
Very sexist here (I'm quite old-fashioned I agree with the 50s lol) but with them both being women I'd expect the house to be spotless but it's like living with three blokes! I love them both to bits, I just wish they would help me.
When they come through to our lounge I think they think I'm sat down watching tv all day, I have the tv on for company but I'm usually trying to settle the baby, trying to teach him something or trying to make him be quiet for a bit so I can clean!

There's no point trying to do anything about my weight now, it's nearly Christmas the chocolates will be comin out soon and I have no will power, before I got pregnant I lost three stone, it was surprisingly easy, after Christmas I'm going to start again, I just need to stop replacing meals with crisps and chocolate!
Maybe I should do slimfast, a shake for breakfast, one for lunch then food for tea, I hardly have time to eat during the day anyway so that part wouldn't bother me too much.
 
:hugs: Tanya. I think you'd be better with some proper soup or something, rather than the shakes. You need your energy just now. I think you should say something about the cleaning, or maybe get your oh to say it? maybe he could make you up a sandwich in the morning so you could just grab it during the day?
I'm sorry you're not feeling good, I feel pretty bad too! I hate my overhang from c section, and I'm still chubby from just being chubby! :( but the others are right, you are def being too hard on yourself. Cut the label outta those jeans and ignore it, and come new year, get ready for a new you. :hugs:

To great Britian: I'm sorry about the strike people, but frankly, they pushed us too far! Why? Because inflation has risen by 7% but our pay's been frozen for 3 years. We are understaffed &resourced. We accepted an extra 2.5 hrs onto our contract with no extra pay. We work unpaid overtime everyday to make sure some of our countries sickest people are treated. Work til we're 68 in a highly stressful environment paying 10% a month? We'll die before we can collect our pensions! Oh... That's the plan? Wankers.
 
Totally agree about the strike. My hubby works for the nhs and it is a joke!

Lo- your new little teeth are gorgeous! But for the love of god stop biting me :(

Oh- thanks for the huge box of Jaffa cakes. Yes I know I love them and it's nice to have 'snacks whilst nursing' but how am I supposed to loose weight! I secretly think you are a feeder :)

Mil- stop being so reliant on everything! You are only 65!! My great grandma is 92 and has a spotless house and can take herself shopping! Get some bloody self respect!

Me- just stop eating! And maybe try being a bit nicer to your hubby. He may be a bit fustrating but he means well.

Sil- your 5 kids are horrid :( they don't get the attention they need and everyone dreads them coming over. It was so not ok for them to throw pears at my greenhouse breaking it :(. I would have appreciated you telling them off rather than me doing it !

:hugs: Tanya. I think you'd be better with some proper soup or something, rather than the shakes. You need your energy just now. I think you should say something about the cleaning, or maybe get your oh to say it? maybe he could make you up a sandwich in the morning so you could just grab it during the day?
I'm sorry you're not feeling good, I feel pretty bad too! I hate my overhang from c section, and I'm still chubby from just being chubby! :( but the others are right, you are def being too hard on yourself. Cut the label outta those jeans and ignore it, and come new year, get ready for a new you. :hugs:

To great Britian: I'm sorry about the strike people, but frankly, they pushed us too far! Why? Because inflation has risen by 7% but our pay's been frozen for 3 years. We are understaffed &resourced. We accepted an extra 2.5 hrs onto our contract with no extra pay. We work unpaid overtime everyday to make sure some of our countries sickest people are treated. Work til we're 68 in a highly stressful environment paying 10% a month? We'll die before we can collect our pensions! Oh... That's the plan? Wankers.
 
Dear insomnia please fuck off. Dear oh please stop asking me every day what time we feed her. Dear friends who've dropped off the face of the earth since ive had her even knowing Ive got Pnd - where's your fucking compassion? Dear sister - you're an emotional vampire who needs to make every situation about yourself. You knowingly try to make me feel low and then wonder why you've not met your niece. You probably never will.
 
Loving all the new baby pics!! Got a new one over here as well lol, must be the season for it!

LO: please stop being ill and screamong in pain. It's breaking my heart. You screaming hysterically throughout you entire water babiess session yesterday makes it feel like i'm torturing you :( what is wrong? I wish you could tell me.. This cant be 'just' reflux. You're not gaining weight properly. Youre always vomiting and in pain. Now i'm back on dairy you are gassy and poos are green again, but the vomiting and pain didnt improve while i was off it..so is it CMPI, or a secondary lactose intolerance from this mystery problem or something?? I'm stumped!


Doctors: why wont you hurry the f*ck up? You've waited until she was 16wks to even do any ultrasounds/xrays/blood tests, after trying numerous medicines that dont work andletting her drop so many centiles. She's 4 months and isnt even 12lb yet! She was 8lb 5oz at birth! I cant believe you fobbed us off for so long, and we're waiting 3 weeks between each appointment.. Last one, we waited 2 hours, and saw a paediatric rheumatologist registrar.. WTF?? Good thing we demanded she speak to the *actual* consultant before we leftas she was happy to send us away with no tests, despite following all of the consultants advice for 3 weeks! The consultant at least shat on your advice and she had emergency scans etc that day, but even so, it's been so long to get to tgis point. Although it is sickening that i had to take LO to A&E to get her on your clinic, since i saw 3 GPs and all they did was told me to stop breastfeedung.. Which i havent of course :dohh: we don't even have an appt to go back for results yet, and it's been a week!!

/Rant over xx
 
Tanya - Don't feel bad about yourself hun :hugs:. I've also gained weight and it sucks, but we shouldn't feel any worse about it! Motherhood is extremely stressful and I'm sure there will be a time for dieting! I agree with Lettuce though, you need some good filling soup or something instead of shakes! If Sophie is really fussy, I just put her in her Bumbo (or swing before she could sit in the Bumbo) in the kitchen next to me while I make myself lunch/breakfast or a drink. Your DH is just being lazy for going downstairs and not helping you out at all. I get it that they work, but my husband has to help me out like once a month because I'm just so exhausted it's unreal!

I hope you feel better about yourself soon, don't talk yourself down so much. Just look at your son and realise what a beautiful and amazing person you've made!!

Lettuce - Yes, she's crawling.. It's so scary :haha:. She can't sit yet though , she needs back support still. Is Jen well too ? It's so amazing seeing little babies grow!!

Christmas - Hurry up already!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh and Vixie: Love your new avatar as well!!!
 
Thanks!

Tanya and Lettuce: :hugs: I know you feel rubbish about yourselves. I wont say the line of "You've just had babies!" as I bet you're sick of hearing it lol, but you're definitely beautiful to us other Mums as we know what you've been through!! If men can't see it, then they're shallow :hugs:

DH: Stop stepping on the creaky floorboard in the bedroom and waking LO up! It's ALWAYS been there, HOW do you keep forgetting?

Neighbours: I'm going to steal your dogs and give them away. Learn to control them! I get you're not well enough to walk/play with them like before, but getting another puppy to come first dog company was NOT a good idea. The first one barked enough on his own, now he has a companion?? What the f*ck?? All they DO is bark!! I can hear them barking THROUGH the baby monitor, and now LO is awake and she's only been down 5 minutes!! I can't put LO down in her crib for naps in the day as we have to have the window open (house is stuffy and warm as it's timber-framed) and your f*cking dogs are right under the window BARKING because they're BORED! They then set off the rest of the neighbours bloody dogs!! So I have to have her downstairs to nap as she doesn't nap in the nursery at the back of the house yet.. But if I do so much as BREATHE differently she wakes up, or the cat comes barging in through the catflap and meows and destroys things to wake her up!!

RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGH!!!!
 
Tanya, my DH is the same! He sleeps on the couch and complains about waking every hour and then he came to bed with us last night and complained about waking up every hour. Eh no, I was the one getting up with Alex. And then he moans when I ask him to change Alex's nappy this morning *sigh* Men.
 
Jen is doing so well, thanks, she has a little cold.

I can beat you all! My DH is still in bed as he has Jens cold.... :growlmad:
Vixie loving your new pic! :)
 
To great Britian: I'm sorry about the strike people, but frankly, they pushed us too far! Why? Because inflation has risen by 7% but our pay's been frozen for 3 years. We are understaffed &resourced. We accepted an extra 2.5 hrs onto our contract with no extra pay. We work unpaid overtime everyday to make sure some of our countries sickest people are treated. Work til we're 68 in a highly stressful environment paying 10% a month? We'll die before we can collect our pensions! Oh... That's the plan? Wankers.

Here here......
 
Freya can stand holding onto Mummy's fingers! And she can sit for a few seconds on her own! And she can get her feet in her mouth! And her consultant says she's the brightest 5 month old he's seen! IN YOUR FACE to the sonographer who told us she would be brain damaged and paralysed :happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance:
 
Well done Freya :dance:. Mummy must be so proud of you!!! Keep going like you are, clever baby!!
 
:happydance::happydance::happydance:Will get DH to take a piccie of her standing tonight and post it tomorrow. When you're told your child will be disabled, you have no idea how much joy even the simple things like that bring.:happydance::happydance::happydance:
 
:hugs: I'm so so pleased for you all! :) well done little Freya! :happydance:
 
:happydance: Yay Freya!

DH, I hate you. I just hate you. You've gone for a nap EVERY DAY for over a week now. Yeah, I'm worried about your health, but how's about eating properly and sleeping normal hours? Fuck you.
 
SIL - your "best auntie" (my arse) socks have come. Unfortunately they were new and not the used pair I was hoping for.... damn it!

DH's "so called friends" - you have all seen Freya a grand total of once since she was born (bumping into us at Marks and Spencers does not count), and you wonder why we can't be bothered to get a babysitter to come on any of your nights out? Sooooo sorry we don't want to come out and get pissed every weekend now, but after all, we ARE parents now, and are 37 - time to grow up me thinks? DH's best mate - you have actioned yourself out of being her Godfather - once in 5 months when you only live 10 minutes away is a disgrace.

DH - thank you for not complaining when I went to bed at 9pm last night. Swimming with Pud, being stranded in the car park with a broken down car, and then Xmas shopping had taken it's toll. I was wet, cold and miserable when I got home, so thank you for cooking my tea, and letting me sleep a bit. Although waking me up at 11.30pm to change her nappy because she'd pooed and you thought you were going to barf was a little out of order.....

Car - if you do that to me again, I will leave you in the roughest area of our city with your doors open, and invite all the local scrots to set fire to you.......

Woman from RAC - did you really expect me to leave a 5 month old baby unattended in the car while I tried to find the name of the street? Shame the (lovely) RAC man who fixed the car confirmed you didn't need the street name (I was in a school carpark for Gods sake!) and that you were being obnoxious because you could. A complaint is on it's way to the RAC as we speak.....

School staff - thank you for being so nice, fetching me water to heat Freya's bottle and insisting we sit in the secretary's office where it was warm and dry to wait for the RAC man. You restored my faith in humanity.
 
Dear flat...
Exactly 4 years ago, at this very moment, I was walking round your empty rooms, surveying my first home. Wondering why they had laminated round the cupboard in the hall :dohh:, and why there was a massive red square on the living room wall? But oh, so so proud. Delighted to have done it all myself! My very own flat.
Now, I live here with my husband, daughter and 2 cats, I'm still proud, I worked damn hard for this. I couldn't have imagined all this 4years ago, such a short time, yet a lifetime ago.
You know what? Pat on the back for me. :)
 
:happydance: Yay Freya!

DH, I hate you. I just hate you. You've gone for a nap EVERY DAY for over a week now. Yeah, I'm worried about your health, but how's about eating properly and sleeping normal hours? Fuck you.

Does he have a penis.. because that seems to many times ensure bad health habits from what I've observed.
 

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