Things I cannot say out loud....

OH~

Do to the fact you have decided you need my share of the house payment this month, we will not be able to buy milk or any other much needed grocries. I will be returning all of Jaxon's christmas presents to the store this afternoon so he will have milk for the next few weeks. Thanks for being greedy and insisting you need it for your beer and cigarettes. Thank you so much, for runining Jaxon's Christmas, and mine too. Yout wlil be the only one getting a present this year, and this is b/c that concert ticket is non-refundable. And yes i am stressed and worrying about paying bills.

MOm, thanks for paying for Jaxon's birthday party. I appreciate it.

W.T.F.

:hugs:
 
so update on the OH thing...got into a huge fight over lunch. He basically told me I have to make 100 dollars buy two weeks worth of groceries, and to use my savings account to pay the damn bills. Im pissed off, and upset. I also have to call and cancel my July reservations for the family vacation at the lake, with is going to then force my brother to cancel since he cant afford the cabin by himself. All b/c OH decided he doesnt want to go and will be taking Jaxon with him to texas weather I like it or not. *cry*
 
If you don't put your clothes in it one of these days you're gonna find that they've magically walked to the bin on their own .. and i mean the rubbish bin.
:D .. now that feels so much better :D

I once told my ex any clothes NOT in the laundry bin, wouldn't be washed. He didn't believe me. 2 weeks later when he's run out of underpants he said "Have you done any washing?" "Yes dear." "Then where's all my stuff?" "I don't know. Was it in the washing basket?" He found all his stuff in the bottom of his wardrobe where I'd stuffed everything that was on the floor. He never did it again! Granted the house looked like a chinese laundry for a few days, but it was soooo worth it! x

HA !!!! I'm so gonna do that :D

I tried that, he just wears dirty clothes now. I think he might have actually washed a load the other week though lol.

Dear OH
You haven't seen LO for 2 days because I've been at my mums and yet you still go to the pub after work. I'm putting LO to bed in 15 minutes wether you're back or not. It's not fair on him to keep him up just so you can see him.
I hate how beer seems to be more important than him and me. I look after him all day, all evening and all night. You play with him (sit on the xbox with him sat on your knee) for about an hour on a Saturday, then when he cries you hand him straight to me complaining about how mardy he is. No he's not mardy he's bored, why don't you talk to him.
You change about one nappy a week, you've bathed him once in his life and complained all the way through it and made him cry. I'd leave him with you for the day so you can see how hard it actually is but I don't trust you to look after him properly.

And no I'm not going to leave him overnight for the first time at 6 months old so we can go to a gig 70 miles away. No i don't need to leave him so he gets used to me' not been there at night, how often do you think I'm going to leave him? Yes I might not be breastfeeding anymore by then (I probebly will be though) but that doesn't mean I'm going to pack him off to your mums every weekend so we can go and get pissed.

Oh and stop being lazy and get a bath, you wonder why I don't want to sleep with you?
 
so update on the OH thing...got into a huge fight over lunch. He basically told me I have to make 100 dollars buy two weeks worth of groceries, and to use my savings account to pay the damn bills. Im pissed off, and upset. I also have to call and cancel my July reservations for the family vacation at the lake, with is going to then force my brother to cancel since he cant afford the cabin by himself. All b/c OH decided he doesnt want to go and will be taking Jaxon with him to texas weather I like it or not. *cry*

Say if he takes him you'll be calling the police and reporting that he has kidnapped your son. See what he says then! :growlmad: MEN!
 
well my oh called me from work and apologized. Still pissed off at him...I went shopping and bought a few things that is needed on my credit card (diapers, wipes, kleenex, tp..etc)...only bought $100 on groceries which bought next to nothing....he was shocked that I couldnt get more...idiot. Still mad at him...and he wont be going to Texas with Jaxon..with out me. His mom and I had a litle chat about that today on the phone....
 
Wow what a *******! He needs to do more than apologise!!
 
BIL's fiancee: I hope you message me back on Facebook to tell me what our nephew and niece would like for Christmas. If you don't, I'll never speak to you again. Oh, and don't you dare forget Alex this Christmas, especially if you remember our niece (DH's sister's daughter). If you ignore my son, you're just a shallow bitch because I've NEVER ignored your children despite BIL and DH falling out last Christmas. Children should NOT be hurt by the actions of adults.
 
:hugs: to bartness! :(

DH, you are still in bed suffering from the cold you caught off our daughter, who has smiled and laughed her way through her blocked nose, cough and sleepless nights. You, on the other hand seem to have developed a weird mutation of the same cold, how odd. Rendering you helpless and pathetic. Grow a pair and get on with it, it's nothing a lemsip and hot shower wont solve! :growlmad:
 
Ozzie, that's very good of you about not letting the children suffer for the adults actions! :hugs: so many people do.

Yeah, I've had to stay out the flat so I don't punch him! :(
 
I tell my OH to put his "big girl pants" on if he has a little whinge about anything (normally when we are in the gym and I'm being "mean" to him"......at times like that he doesnt deserve big boy pants because he is whinging like a little girl

Though I am lucky he doesnt get man flu....I on the other hand do.....I am terrible when ill and he is the sort who can be on the verge of passing out and still tries to go to work until I put my foot down and make him call in and then go to bed (doesnt happen often thankfully)
 
Mum you moaned at me to sort out Boo's Baptism. We've finally got a date that suits the Minister and us and all you do is say " a week before Christmas, what an awful time to have the Baptism". Yeah well thanks for that. And thanks for constantly repeating that my niece and nephew are missing out on their nativity to go.
Yeah i know you're ill .. you tell me all the time so try getting up in the morning and going to the GP's.
We know you're missing Boo, but you live 10 mins down the motorway, you drive, i don't and i refuse to put her on 3 different buses just because you can't shoehorn your arse off the couch, put on some clothes and come out to see her.
She cries when you hold her because you NEVER see her. We've made umpteen Sunday roast dinners for you and you never turn up for them. Enough is enough mum. Your son is flying home on his last 2 days holiday to see his niece and you can't be arsed coming 10 mins down the bloody motorway. I can't do anymore mum. I realise that nothing i do will ever be right for you. Boo is MY baby, not yours .. MINE. You brought us up your way and i will bring her up mine. Stop going on about OHs mum. At least she's reliable. We've asked you twice if you can watch Boo for us only for you to cry sick half an hour before hand. We are not gonna ask you again. So don't you dare complain or moan again about missing out on her, it's your own fault .. not mine, YOURS.

You reduced me to tears this morning thinking about all this. I hope you're happy now.
 
Government... You want mums to go back to work but why must you make it so damn difficult and expensive?!! We've done some calculations for next year and we will get approx £23 towards childcare costs... a MONTH! Are you having a fucking laugh?! We can barely afford to live now, and next year there will be less coming in even if I work but I'll be paying out more!

Yet you let people like one person I have on FB have a free flat, and he's that we'll off on benefits he regularly smokes weed, throws huge parties, goes out for meals 2/3 times a week and goes on holiday all the freaking time! It's not fair!

Why should I find a job? We'd be better off if I didn't :shrug:
 
^^We're the same. We're better off if I don't work. When we move back to Cali, I'll have to work, but you don't get benefits over there unless you're at the poverty level. I'm actually glad I can be a SAHM for the time that our kids will be little before school :)
 

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