Those that TTC together, Stick together!! 4 BABY BOYS/3 BABY GIRLS

[nypage1981]

OR maybe you should bring a box of tests. What if you got a bfp in Aruba. How special!

 

[ready4baby]

FOrgot about Aruba! Yay! Are you going to have drinkies being close to the end of 2WW?

Hehe...well, dunno yet where I'll be in a 2ww...but, yes. I don't have to get all drunk and sloppy, but I'm going to have a few drinks. I'm beginning to realize that I can't spend 50% of my months thinking that I might be pregnant. I did that for many months, but it's just too worrisome and disappointing when I find out that I am not. I hope you don't think I'm awful!

 

[ready4baby]

Oooohhh good point,Ny! If I would just ovulate already (heLLOOO ovaries), I could test in Aruba!

 

[nypage1981]

Oh Ready- I TTC for an entire year and would have drinkies in the 2WW. I used to be really strict on that but really just needed to realize that the thing's barely even implanted yet and drinks that early dont make any difference. With my daughter I was kind of bad and didn't even find out I was preg til 7 weeks! I was so worried but doc reassured me I was totally fine, and she's very very smart and never ill. So its totally fine! I sure would be drinking if I were yoU! I did with the 2WW that I got bfp, too and im not worried at all.

 

[rosababy]

FOrgot about Aruba! Yay! Are you going to have drinkies being close to the end of 2WW?

Hehe...well, dunno yet where I'll be in a 2ww...but, yes. I don't have to get all drunk and sloppy, but I'm going to have a few drinks. I'm beginning to realize that I can't spend 50% of my months thinking that I might be pregnant. I did that for many months, but it's just too worrisome and disappointing when I find out that I am not. I hope you don't think I'm awful!

I've stopped acting like I'm pregnant all the time, too. I'm sick of worrying about should I have this drink or this lunch meat, etc. I've done that for the last year now, and I'm done! Not talking about getting drunk, but I don't like to do that anymore anyway, so it's okay. I have friends that continue their lives until their bfp, and I'm planning on doing the same. My dh is backing off a little, since his wasn't perfect, but he'll still have a drink here and there as well. Plus, it's the beginning of wine tasting season!

 

[Kylarsmom]

Finally got my pic of Kendon from DH's car, lol. Not the clearest but he was really smashed up in umbilical chord and was hard to get a clear shot.

 

[Kylarsmom]

Girls, do it! Have a few drinks! TTC is stressful enough! If its earlier than your BFP anyway, I doubt much could happen to the baby! The month I got my BFP I had had a glass of wine bc I really thought I wasnt preggers. I worried of course, after my bfp, but I'm fairly certain it was before the baby implanted. Anyway I'm sure you'll be fine to enjoy yourselves!!

 

[ready4baby]

Thanks girls, for the support on relaxing a little...sounds like we have a concensus that a few drinks are okay! I just can't keep pretending like I'm pregnant. I really am exhausted by this process & the ups & downs of it. Cd 20 or something..and no O.

Who's in the tww now? Rosa, Dee,...Kiki? Where is everyone?

Kylar, I can hardly make out that pic!!!

 

[nypage1981]

Kylar- I have no idea what I am looking at on that one! Lol.

Ready- still no o? What the heck happened to it? Stupid. Hope it happens soon....you OPKing and temping right? And what do they show? Nothing?

 

[ready4baby]

Hey Ny, yeah I'm bummed. My latest O was cd37; I don't want to repeat that. My only sign of hope is I feel cranky as hell today! The last few cycles I was really irritable around O. I am temping. I did an OPK last night and it was medium colored. I OPKd last week too, and didn't catch a positive, although it did get at least as dark as the one I had last night. It's frustrating to see a surge start and then never get that temp rise. Plus I had good ewcm last week There is not a thing to be done about it but wait it out..............

 

[Kylarsmom]

Aw really? I know its smooshy, but its his face with his arm up , but you can see his eyes ears nose mouth... keep trying..LOL

 

[ready4baby]

Aw really? I know its smooshy, but its his face with his arm up , but you can see his eyes ears nose mouth... keep trying..LOL

This actually made me lol... It's like rorschach ink blots; I can't see what you see...arm up? eyes? I'm staring at the baby blob from all angles...haha.

 

[Kylarsmom]

LOL it is like that , haha! Its hard to explain over the computer but ok its just a face, not the whole body, its turned to the side a little.. the round spots are eyes, the nose is not easy to see, ill admit that, but you can see a little chin easily and the mouth is above that, then his arm is really easy to see he has it in front of his face. i wish i could point it out to youu! lol!

 

[Starchase]

oh ready I am soooooo jealous:

ARUBA, Bahamas come on sexy mamma? does the song really go like that or did i just make up those words lol.... It's a sign have a fantastic time and just laugh and dance I'm sure that is the only different thing I did this month had a few drinks, had a right laugh and enjoyed lots of sex Xxxx

Dee did u get a hair cut it's really pretty xxx

How is everyone getting on?

xxxx

 

[rosababy]

Thanks girls, for the support on relaxing a little...sounds like we have a concensus that a few drinks are okay! I just can't keep pretending like I'm pregnant. I really am exhausted by this process & the ups & downs of it. Cd 20 or something..and no O.

Who's in the tww now? Rosa, Dee,...Kiki? Where is everyone?

I'm exhausted and frustrated by the ups and downs of ttc, too. Not sure if I'm in the 2ww yet. Maybe...we are bd'ing tonight, just in case. Then, we'll relax for a while. I'm honestly so whatever about this cycle, but I don't know why...like I said, I'm so over being hopeful then hopeless over and over and over...

 

[Kiki0522]

Hi Ladies,

I give up. Going by my temps, I'm pretty sure I ovulated already and it was so early that we were not ready for it. DH has been sick so we haven't BD the last few days right after AF. Figured we had time.. We were going to start every other day today and use OPK's. But since I was temping I saw my temp dip way down to where it has gone the last 2 cycles so I had a feeling even though it was early, that I was going to O so we BD yesterday morning and last night. Sure enough today it shot up. I'm only on CD10! So my cycles are screwed up. Last cycle I didn't O til CD18 and had only a 10 day LP. Now I ovulated on CD 9. I have never ovulated that early.

I hope you all are well. I will be back later today to catch up.

 

[Deethehippy]

Kiki - that seems very early to ovulate - could you be brewing a bug? that could of affected your temps maybe?

Star - thank you, i have not cut my hair though, its a photo from a year or so ago :0) How are you doing? Are you feeling ok?

I am on 6dpo and trying not to symptom spot, bit twingey/crampy today but i have IBS so crampy can be that. Otherwise nothing much to report.

Hope everyone else is doing fine

 

[Kiki0522]

Dee- I would have just thought it was a fluke thing with my temp shooting up but since it dipped so low yesterday just like the last 2 cycles, I think it's an early O. It never dips that low and shoots up like that unless it's O. My temps are always in a range before O and after and they are following that pattern. Sucks.

Fx'd for you during your 2ww!

 

[AndreaFlorida]

I've given up on me this cycle to my temps are nearly same as last time soooo its just waiting on the to come an waiting on the doctor to call me with my referral to a specialist for my endo this is soooo pitiful....

Goodluck Dee FX for you sweetie!!

That is an early O .....I am so sorry Kiki

 

[ready4baby]

Kiki, even though it's early, it sounds like you got plenty of bd in around O...go again tonight for good times sake I know it's frustrating to have an irregular cycle (look at me, cd21), but at least you ovulated (if you did) & have another hope brewing inside!! Did you do maca this month?

Dee, FX for you

Rosa, poor thing, we can be frustrated together, and Kiki too! Damn confusing, not knowing what's going on, stupid cycles

Andrea, don't give up yet--it's still early!