Misscalais
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Oh no! Lol cheeky bubba! Hopefully you will see this time
Funny, I feel the same way but about a boy...You don't control the gender. Your male partner does. So it's all 50/50. Every time. No matter what sort of voodoo you think you can use to change it... It's always luck of the draw. I have two boys and so badly want a third that I have decided to not find out what we are having this time. I'm afraid I'll be disappointed and disconnect with the pregnancy. I've voiced my issues to my hubby and he's agreed that should we find out the baby is a girl, as horrible as this sounds, that he will request that we have no visitors at the hospital so that I can process and work through my emotions before all the excitement about baby happens. Not that I will love any gender any less, but my heart set on a boy again, I feel like I'll need time to greave the idea of having all boys.