Trying before AF?

[ArmyWife1984]

i had my scan yesterday, It went well! Got to see lil bean and a flickering hb!!
HB was at 96-97bpm.....made me a lil nervous because once I got home i started googling

Im just a tad of shy of the normal 103-126 so trying to relax and not read too much into it.
Next appt is at 9wks.. on the 28th.

 

[flapjack10]

STAY AWAY FROM DR.GOOGLE AW! THAT IS AN ORDER!

So happy for you

 

[mummy2o]

I'm good. I think I just entered the dreaded tww. I'm getting spots like no tomorrow and my nipples are sore. On the plus side I've actually ovulated on time for the first time since the mc so hopefully will get the full 14 day lp not just 12

 

[flapjack10]

I hope you get a BFP so you don't know how long your LP is!

xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Happy new year!! Hope your all ok xxx

 

[aknqtpie]

Hi Ladies!

I can't remember if I updated you all... last week I went back to my doctors and they did an u/s to find that there was still some retained product (shocker!)... so I had a D&C yesterday. Feeling really crampy and light bleeding today. Hopefully it goes away by the end of the week. I have my post op appointment on the 25th. But I may start TTC in two weeks (assuming the bleeding goes away and my uterus goes back to normal).

How is everyone else doing?

 

[Starry Night]

Good luck, mummyclo!

I keep getting pinching pains which makes me think of ovulation but the pinching pains switch sides from day to day. I think my hormones are playing mind tricks on me this cycle. It's only my first full cycle since the m/c so I was kind of expecting things to go kind of funny but I would like to know when to expect AF or when to test. Ah well. Will keep BD'ing and hope for the best.

 

[flapjack10]

aknqtpie - Hope you're ok. Take it easy hun.

StarryNight - Keep goin'!

 

[mummy2o]

aknqtpie: I'm sorry you had to go through all that Hopefully you'll get your BFP soon now everything is all ok

Starry: I love mind games. I think we bring them onto ourselves at times. We should just try and ignore them as much as possible. I always read to much into them!

 

[aknqtpie]

It's okay, I am glad it was finally done... I wish I would of had it sooner. I felt kinda crappy yesterday, and was doped up on monday. But today I feel back to normal.

 

[Starry Night]

Glad you're starting to feel more normal. I really hope this is the end of the drama for you and you can get back to TTC your rainbow.

 

[aknqtpie]

Ugh, me too...

I am still debating whether or not to start trying in 2 weeks... or wait a full cycle to start trying. Part of me doesn't want to wait since this has been a 3 month ordeal already.

 

[Starry Night]

It can be a tough/scary choice especially when doctors can't agree when it's best to start trying again. I just go by whether or not I'm ready because there is no consensus if it is safe or not and I'm impatient. I think your body will let you know if you're ready. My first AF was so messed up with all sorts of gook that I'm glad that circumstances prevented me from trying before AF.

 

[aknqtpie]

Yeah, I guess it depends on how fast I heal up from this. So far it looks like the bleeding is lightening up pretty quick. So hopefully it stops in the next few days!

 

[vietmamsie]

aknqtpie: Sorry you have to go through all this. Hopefully they got it all this time around and things will look up from here. I think you should go ahead and try, if your body isn't ready for a baby, then you won't get pg. If you do, then it's probably ready. I always thought one of the reasons they want you to wait is to build back up your vitamins and minerals... you've already have three months of getting your levels back. I say go for it!

 

[Libbysmum]

how are you going Viet? Hope your tests go well tomorrow!

 

[vietmamsie]

how are you going Viet? Hope your tests go well tomorrow!

Yeah, I'm super excited! MY husband is coming with me this time and we're hoping to see something and that everything is fine in there. I feel like after this appointment, it will all feel real and be a little more for sure (that is if everything is going smoothly!) Fingers crossed and positive vibes!

 

[aknqtpie]

Hi Viet!! Hope your appointment goes good! Can't wait to hear about it!

I decided I am not going to wait until AF shows.. I have waited long enough!!!! I am feeling a lot better..and bleeding has pretty much stopped.

 

[Starry Night]

Good luck, aknqtpie! Have fun as you work to catch that eggie!

viet - good luck with your tests. Sending positive vibes your way.

I think I'm getting sick again. No! Why, Universe, why???? Please just be a cold! I can handle a cold!

 

[mummy2o]

Viet: Good luck with your test. Hope you get good results

Aknqtpie: I honestly don't blame you. You've waited far to long as it is.

Starry: I get a cold every time I ovulate. So without fail I know roughly when to dtd.