Trying before AF?

[baileybubs]

I think I'll be too scared to do anything next time I'm pregnant lol!!! When I went for my last scan I saw a heavily pg woman outside the ward smoking and it really hurt me to think that I was getting upset about having the odd cup of coffee and thinking that might have been one of the causes of my mc (which I know is completely untrue, but you blame yourself no matter what don't you?)

 

[flapjack10]

Yep, that's so true. I did some lifting in work and thought that might have been the cause and really beat myself up about it.

Most miscarriages are due to a chromosome problem, so we really shouldn't feel guilty. It's just one of those things that wasn't meant to be

PMA! IT WILL BE US AGAIN!

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Hey ladies, just thought I would update, I miscarried today ... I feel so heartbroken.

Im taking a break from trying for a few months, I think it was just too early

 

[nevergivingup]

Hey ladies, just thought I would update, I miscarried today ... I feel so heartbroken.

Im taking a break from trying for a few months, I think it was just too early

O NOOOO!!!! Are U totally sure...i know that may be a crazy question to ask but you know we really dont like m/c's

Sorry Babee_Bugs,that you have to go through this again

 

[Koukla]

Aye up ladies...

This is a bit random and gross but guess were all used to that here
When I wiped this morning I had a big clump of what I can only describe as Snot CM, had a slight tinge of yellow to it too, I have never had this before as far as I know and just wondered if anyone else has had it and if it indicated anything to get excited about lol?
Julie xx

I had it last month for a few days before I got my BFP. It freaked me out, so I spent hours on the forums and Google to make sure it was normal, and apparently it is. As long as you don't have any pain/itching/burning pee with it, which could mean an infection. How many DPO are you?

 

[baileybubs]

Oh baby bugs I'm so sorry, I would say I hope you are alright or are you ok but I know the answer. Please take care of yourself, loads of hugs to you and your family xxxxx

 

[flapjack10]

Hey ladies, just thought I would update, I miscarried today ... I feel so heartbroken.

Im taking a break from trying for a few months, I think it was just too early

I'm so sorry Babee

I hope you get your little one soon.

Like bailey said, take care of yourself and you know we'll be here if you need to rant or cry.

xxx

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Hey ladies, just thought I would update, I miscarried today ... I feel so heartbroken.

Im taking a break from trying for a few months, I think it was just too early

O NOOOO!!!! Are U totally sure...i know that may be a crazy question to ask but you know we really dont like m/c's

Sorry Babee_Bugs,that you have to go through this again

Yeh I'm pretty sure I passed the sac etc earlier, I took a picture and my friend had a look for me, she's had 10 losses before and she confirmed it was the sac

 

[baileybubs]

Yep, that's so true. I did some lifting in work and thought that might have been the cause and really beat myself up about it.

Most miscarriages are due to a chromosome problem, so we really shouldn't feel guilty. It's just one of those things that wasn't meant to be

PMA! IT WILL BE US AGAIN!

I have to keep telling myself that bit it's so hard isn't it? My job is physical and can be stressful and I blamed that, I blamed caffeine, I blamed all sorts but logically I know I couldn't have done anything differently. I just have to keep the faith that this one sticks!! Listen to me.....I'm saying 'this one' already haha!! I really feel like I'm pregnant though.....it might just be wishful thinking but sometimes I think women have an intuition about these things....last month deep down I knew I wasn't pregnant, I was just hoping. This month feels different somehow...

 

[nevergivingup]

Hey ladies, just thought I would update, I miscarried today ... I feel so heartbroken.

Im taking a break from trying for a few months, I think it was just too early

O NOOOO!!!! Are U totally sure...i know that may be a crazy question to ask but you know we really dont like m/c's

Sorry Babee_Bugs,that you have to go through this again

Yeh I'm pretty sure I passed the sac etc earlier, I took a picture and my friend had a look for me, she's had 10 losses before and she confirmed it was the sac

O my sorry Babee_Bugs Hope you find peace soon!

 

[flapjack10]

Yep, that's so true. I did some lifting in work and thought that might have been the cause and really beat myself up about it.

Most miscarriages are due to a chromosome problem, so we really shouldn't feel guilty. It's just one of those things that wasn't meant to be

PMA! IT WILL BE US AGAIN!

I have to keep telling myself that bit it's so hard isn't it? My job is physical and can be stressful and I blamed that, I blamed caffeine, I blamed all sorts but logically I know I couldn't have done anything differently. I just have to keep the faith that this one sticks!! Listen to me.....I'm saying 'this one' already haha!! I really feel like I'm pregnant though.....it might just be wishful thinking but sometimes I think women have an intuition about these things....last month deep down I knew I wasn't pregnant, I was just hoping. This month feels different somehow...

Eeeeek I can't wait for you to test!

I didn't have a smiley face on my OPK this morning, so I guess I'm 1dpo today!

FX!

 

[baileybubs]

Someone on another thread told me that the day you get the positive opk is the day before you O and when you get a negative one after that is the actual day of O, which would only make me 2dpo today even though my positive opk was 3 days ago.....which does make sense. But I suppose it depends when your ovary actually releases the egg after the LH surge I guess. I'm playing it safe so I don't test way too early and saying I'm 2dpo today (although I will probably still do an IC on Wednesday anyway lol)

 

[Preciousone]

Hello Ladies, Im in limbo at the moment after recieving bad news at my scan 8 weeks bean measured 6 no HB. Im going to my Drs today for blood tests.

I know my dates arent wrong and im opting for a EPRC (d&c) after my scan thursday, My question was going to be do you think i could get another BFP after this but this thread answers it for me ! Thank you
I hope to join most of you with BFP in July FX for us all, I did get caught quick ie 2 months of trying so who knows

 

[flapjack10]

Sorry for your loss preciousone.

GL with getting your sticky bean!

xxx

 

[ehdo9967]

did most of you get negative pregnancy tests before starting to try? My OPK and Pregnancy tests still show me as postive but I haven't BD-ed yet. I know levels need to drop low to o, but how low do they have to be? Does anyone have guideance?

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Everything I've read and heard you can still ovulate and get AF with 50miu of hcg in your system or lower... X

 

[baileybubs]

I've read the same, but it's not definate. I got a bfn before my bleeding stopped though so I'm not really too sure (I bled for 5 weeks though so it's not a surprise I got bfn!!)

 

[flapjack10]

I didn't do any pg tests after the initial tests when I saw the line getting fainter. The doc told me to test two weeks after the bleeding, but I couldn't face it.

xxx

 

[Preciousone]

I didn't realise even after Eprc a test will still be positive how shit are our bodies, I just want to try again ASAP and seems like its gonna take forever

 

[flapjack10]

I know hun

The waiting and frustration is so rubbish!

xxx