baileybubs, i think you o-ed, or are o-ing right now. i do think the first good positive is usually it. get busy with the boom shake the room. -and don't stop until that opk is neg!
i hear you on the job frustration. unfortunately me and OH are in the same spot with that. i really think people of our generation are getting screwed. we're not being paid enough IF we can find decent jobs, and the healthcare situation in the US is out of control. it makes me want to move. move houses, go to a new country, get a new job, etc. unfortuantely though, my "united states-ian" OH would have to take the bar exam (for lawyers) if we moved out of state and i bet it'd be practically impossible for him to say move to NZ or the UK. it'd be a great move for me though, because though i work my butt off and i work LONG hours, i still don't have health benefits through my job.