Trying before AF?

[flapjack10]

OH MY GOD BAILEY! I'm so happy for youuuuuuuuu! That's the best news and has really given me hope.

I started bleeding yesterday... I'm taking a little break from BnB. I love all you ladies, but I'm sure you understand.

I'm pretty devastated again. This is horrible.

 

[shefali83]

With my first BFP I had diarrhoea before I tested and constipation for the whole time after! I was actually rushing to the toilet and thought I might aswell test while im here

Ohhh I cannot wait for my BFP

where are you in your cycle rightnow?

I'm cd6 if this spotting is AF which I think it is cus it's gone on for 6 days even though it's very light. But I'm not sure about my cycles either cus I was on the mini pill so never had a period, I stopped taking that in February 2011 and my cycles were all over the place and I was only getting a period every 8 weeks so after a year of trying and worrying I had fertility problems I took another birth control pill for 3 months to regulate my cycle, stopped taking that in April and had one period with a 30 day cycle and the next was my BFP so I'm really praying my cycles return regular and I get pregnant as easily as last time cus my cycles being irregular is when I have problems and I'm not doing this for another 18 months please!!

Oh my! thts difficult.. opks will help.. charting is tiring i did it for few months but it got on my nerves

 

[shefali83]

Btw shefali, is your username shefali83 coz you were born in 1983?

Yes you got it right

 

[shefali83]

Shefali - I started taking up baking when I was off work after mc, coz i ended up being off for a month due to complications, so maybe find a hobby to keep you busy. Although be warned, I ate most of what I baked

I have my own business. a hobby turned business.. jewelry making and selling. but i dont feel like doing anything these days... just have ttc and pg on my mind

 

[shefali83]

Well if I go by the date I ovulated it will be April 9th but if I go by my LMP it's April 2nd. I think seen as O was a week later than "average" cd14 that I will be telling doctors that and my edd will be April 9th, coz I don't want them doing any scans and my baby seeming a week smaller than they should be. If that makes sense lol!

yup thats a sensible approach

 

[shefali83]

Well if I go by the date I ovulated it will be April 9th but if I go by my LMP it's April 2nd. I think seen as O was a week later than "average" cd14 that I will be telling doctors that and my edd will be April 9th, coz I don't want them doing any scans and my baby seeming a week smaller than they should be. If that makes sense lol!

LOL, hope it's April 2nd thats my birthday..

Does anyone know how FF accurately detects Ovulation, I thought it was along the lines of three consecutive temp rises after a dip. This is what happend to my temps and fitted in with when I though I O'ed but have nothing detected... puzzled!!!!

i used to do temps inspite of having regular cycles and ovulation every cycle at the right time. but i felt a lil bit of temp mess used to screw up the whole chart and leave me worried and confused.. i stopped charting. hubby used to hate my morning alarms too

 

[CherylC3]

OH MY GOD BAILEY! I'm so happy for youuuuuuuuu! That's the best news and has really given me hope.

I started bleeding yesterday... I'm taking a little break from BnB. I love all you ladies, but I'm sure you understand.

I'm pretty devastated again. This is horrible.

Aw flapjack I'm so sorry Hun hope ur ok... Why is it so hard for us Hun....xxxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw flapjack I am so so sorry hun, I really wish I could give you a real hug I really hope that they can do some tests for you now and give you some help so that next time you will get your sticky bean.

Please take care of yourself and come back to us soon, hopefully with a surprise BFP sticky bean!

 

[baileybubs]

Oh and shefali we were born in the same year, May 1983 for me!

 

[shefali83]

Oh and shefali we were born in the same year, May 1983 for me!

Oh wow i am march 83 born

 

[baileybubs]

Woohoo same birth year! 30 soon though argh! Nah I'm just kidding, I'm looking forward to it!

 

[shefali83]

Woohoo same birth year! 30 soon though argh! Nah I'm just kidding, I'm looking forward to it!

Lol
I am not looking forward to the 'THIRTY'

I wanted to be a mom before i turned 30. if i hadn't had a mmc i would have given birth one month before my 30th bday but now won't be possible

 

[baileybubs]

Aw shefali, don't worry I'm sure your rainbow baby is right around the corner! And you can be pregnant on your 30th instead!

 

[shefali83]

Aw shefali, don't worry I'm sure your rainbow baby is right around the corner! And you can be pregnant on your 30th instead!

Yes i am so desperately hoping for that.. How are you feeling btw ?

 

[baileybubs]

I'm feeling ok thanks, very tired but ok. Off to the doctors this morning to get their test done. I hope that it's sensitive enough to detect it, although I am taking in my 3 positive hpts to show them lol! Just want to make sure I get it on my record that I am pregnant again and see if they can help with anything.

 

[shefali83]

I'm feeling ok thanks, very tired but ok. Off to the doctors this morning to get their test done. I hope that it's sensitive enough to detect it, although I am taking in my 3 positive hpts to show them lol! Just want to make sure I get it on my record that I am pregnant again and see if they can help with anything.

Good luck!!! Will you be getting the blood work done for hcg or progesterone?

 

[baileybubs]

Well I'm going to ask but my appointment is with a Doctor I haven't seen before and if it's an older man I'm buggared coz they dont tend to agree to those things. But I don't know if it will help anyway coz I think both my hcg and progesterone were just fine last time. I honestly think it was either a chromosome problem or a problem with the placenta development. I can always ask and see if they will though.

 

[shefali83]

Well I'm going to ask but my appointment is with a Doctor I haven't seen before and if it's an older man I'm buggared coz they dont tend to agree to those things. But I don't know if it will help anyway coz I think both my hcg and progesterone were just fine last time. I honestly think it was either a chromosome problem or a problem with the placenta development. I can always ask and see if they will though.

oh alright.. do let me know how your appointment does

 

[xxemmyxx]

OH MY GOD BAILEY! I'm so happy for youuuuuuuuu! That's the best news and has really given me hope.

I started bleeding yesterday... I'm taking a little break from BnB. I love all you ladies, but I'm sure you understand.

I'm pretty devastated again. This is horrible.

Flapjack I am so sorry! why does this happen?? Makes me so angry it's not fair!!! Have you been to the doctors? Sometimes bleeding isn't the end, or do you just know it is? I know it doesn't help but at least your losses are early so they can probably do something to help you now, I know it shouldn't take this much heartache to get help but at least they will pay attention now. Hope my words help even the tiniest little bit and hope to see you back here soon otherwise we shall miss u xx

 

[xxemmyxx]

I'm feeling ok thanks, very tired but ok. Off to the doctors this morning to get their test done. I hope that it's sensitive enough to detect it, although I am taking in my 3 positive hpts to show them lol! Just want to make sure I get it on my record that I am pregnant again and see if they can help with anything.

When I went to the doctors with my BFP he didn't do a test he just laughed that I had done 4 and said "I think that's enough tests" so I literally went in said I'm pregnant and came out again was pretty boring really and I was all excited lol, gp's are a bit crap, make a fuss, but they will probably just tell you to do all the things you alredy know, eat healthily, take your vitamins etc