Trying before AF?

[MummyWant2be]

hi Ladies,

hope you still have room for one more?

i lost my first lil beanie about 2weeks ago at only 5weeks and i've been since waiting for AF - the doc gave us the go ahead to start trying immediately!

sorry for all your losses and Congratz on those BFP

Welcome on board sweetie This is the place to be

Really sorry for your loss I had mmc a little over two weeks back as well

Are you using opks to keep a tab on O?

thanx hun - sorry for u loss as well

nope no OPK's.. just going with my body for now...still waiting for Af...where are u in ur cycle?

 

[shefali83]

hi Ladies,

hope you still have room for one more?

i lost my first lil beanie about 2weeks ago at only 5weeks and i've been since waiting for AF - the doc gave us the go ahead to start trying immediately!

sorry for all your losses and Congratz on those BFP

Welcome on board sweetie This is the place to be

Really sorry for your loss I had mmc a little over two weeks back as well

Are you using opks to keep a tab on O?

thanx hun - sorry for u loss as well

nope no OPK's.. just going with my body for now...still waiting for Af...where are u in ur cycle?

GL dear

i got a positive opk on CD15 if i count CD1 as MC(the day i passed baby and sac ) We on CD15 and twice on CD16 though the opk was no longer positive on CD16. I am on CD18 today. Not sure if the LH surge lead to O or not.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Just a quick pop in before work!
Hope you are all ok!

Hi again shefali!!

Emmy, weren't you 7 dpo two days ago lol!! Or am I goin bonkers lol!!

Flapjack - nice to hear from you!!

Storm - hope you are well! I'm ok thanks chick, sometimes I don't feel preggers, others I feel sooooo tired I can't deny it!!!

Will catch up later after work!!

Lol no I did a test 2 days ago when I was 5 or 6 dpo, I didn't get an opk so not sure wen I ovulated, but horsey pants was saying she got a faint BFP at 7dpo before so that may be why you thought I was, I got confused for a second and thought maybe I was more dpo then ohhhhhhhh hurry up 2ww!!

 

[flapjack10]

Yup the LH surge and the positive OPK come just before O, so good BDing and FX!

xxx

 

[MummyWant2be]

hi Ladies,

hope you still have room for one more?

i lost my first lil beanie about 2weeks ago at only 5weeks and i've been since waiting for AF - the doc gave us the go ahead to start trying immediately!

sorry for all your losses and Congratz on those BFP

Welcome on board sweetie This is the place to be

Really sorry for your loss I had mmc a little over two weeks back as well

Are you using opks to keep a tab on O?

thanx hun - sorry for u loss as well

nope no OPK's.. just going with my body for now...still waiting for Af...where are u in ur cycle?

GL dear

i got a positive opk on CD15 if i count CD1 as MC(the day i passed baby and sac ) We on CD15 and twice on CD16 though the opk was no longer positive on CD16. I am on CD18 today. Not sure if the LH surge lead to O or not.

I'm on cd20 today (counting the day i passed my beanie as day1) and we just BD today...really hope u catched the eggy hun

 

[flapjack10]

mummywant2be. Sorry for your loss. Really hope you've caught that egg!

I still have cramps, so bloated, sore boobs, full feeling in uterus, this morning had another bit if brown discharge when I wiped, headache, I actually feel really rubbish, I'm only 7 or 8 dpo can I feel all this or is it just my mind playing tricks on me?

I hope it's not your mind playing tricks on you! All sounds good to me!

xxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

good evening everyone how is every body?
sorry that i havnt been about for a few day i have been out all week end with OH and OH had today off of work for our hospital appointment.

Storm7 - Yes defo, 2ww is dragging.i have been absolutly exhausted yesterday and today. i got out of the shower today laid on the bed and fell asleep for an hour and a half. i feel slightly bloated as well but i am only 5dpo.

Flapjack10 - FX'd for you for O soon.

Mummywant2be - welcome and sorry for loss.

xxemmyxx - FX'd that all these are really positive symptoms. i hope it i not just your mind playing tricks. i get how you feel i am only 5dpo and starting to think can these symptoms really be true.

AFM - exhausted and feeling bloated but only 5dpo.
OH and I have been to the hospital for our fertiliy appointment, and they discharged us, told us that because i managed to fall preg naturally that they no wont help me.
i could understand if we had fallen preg in the first year or 18 months but 1 preg that ended in MC in 3 1/2 years is now apparently normal so we have just gotta keep going.
so GUTTED at the moment.
F***ing NHS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Mrs s fingers crossed we are not imagining these symptoms! I am so bloated it's ridiculous, my jeans don't do up! Really hope this is it for you, bloody waste of time that appointment then! How can they possibly think thats normal, 3 and half years is surely long enough to get help, have either of u had any fertility tests? Xx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

Mrs s fingers crossed we are not imagining these symptoms! I am so bloated it's ridiculous, my jeans don't do up! Really hope this is it for you, bloody waste of time that appointment then! How can they possibly think thats normal, 3 and half years is surely long enough to get help, have either of u had any fertility tests? Xx

OH and i have both had fertility test when we were under a different hospital but they were S**T so today was ment to be a new hospital a new start.
OH swimmers are absolutly fine.
I have got PCOS (although since dramatic weight loss have had no cysts)
I aslo have endometriosis. i had ovrian drilling a year ago this week and had the endo qurterised and my left overy was stuck down by the endo so they released my ovary (at least i didnt lose it)
i think if i had unexplained fertility or no actual diagnosed fertilty problems then i would probably be ok with keep trying and wait and see aproach, but if nothing happens in 6 months then we can get a new referal from the GP, but that referal will take about 6 months and then by the time we actually get seen and get any treatment we will getting on for 5 yrs ttc.
so just keeping our fingers crossed for an extreamly sticky bean soon.

sorry rant over.

and FX'd for you to have an extreamky sticky bean aswell

 

[horseypants]

emmy, fingers crossed for you, and !!

mrs_swj2be, sorry about the long hard road : (

i'm waiting to o..........

flapjack, glad to hear your updates

and hugs to all the ladies

 

[Storm7]

Evening ladies!

Hope everyone is doing well.

I am confused and hoping you can help.... I had a positive OPK on CD12 which would now make me 5DPO and yet tonight I have an excess of EWCM. Not really sure why. Has anyone had this? Have I had some kind of delayed O? I am away again at the moment til Thursday night so hoping not. I wish my body would just sort itself out!

 

[horseypants]

it's happened to me a number of times but i'm sorry i don't know why. the only clue i have is that your ewcm could be late coming down the tubes so to speak (that is my own junk science) or you could have more estrogen than usual right now, since that's the hormone responsible for the ew cm.

 

[xxemmyxx]

When I was pregnant I had increased cm almost straight away, it was clear and I constantly felt wet, so it could also be that?

 

[FoxMommy]

Perhaps. Fx!

Sorry I missed the weekend and can't catch up as my daughter will be home to bf from the park in about ten minutes.

I'm feeling crampy, and nauseous and soooo moody...however I have no idea IF I've ov'ed since mc but I'm hoping this is pregnancy symptoms. I'm heading out of town on thursday but will be bringing my secret dollar store hpts I bought with me to check! I've decided Sunday is my testing day so i dont test everyday as i have no idea where in my cycle i am as I found out I was pregnant on a Sunday with my angel baby and gave birth to my daughter on a Sunday.

 

[Storm7]

Thank you. At 5DPO I don't think it is likely yo be a pregnancy sign as implantation shouldn't have happened as yet... Who knows though!

Today I just wish I could crawl back into bed for some extra sleep!

to you all x

 

[shefali83]

Yup the LH surge and the positive OPK come just before O, so good BDing and FX!

xxx

ok so i am totally frustrated rightnow.. i got lot of ewcm leading to a clear positive opk on cd15 after mmc(as cd1). bd cd15 and cd16. And i am spotting little red since 2-3 days now. i am on cd19 and it seems to increasing slowly!! Whats happening???

Scan showed that my uterus was all clear and hcg gone as well so how come i am spotting again..i think its af but dont you think its super early!! I am so upset and confused as hell

 

[flapjack10]

mrs_swj2be - That's sooooo FRUSTRATING! Urrrrrgh bloody NHS!!

Storm7 - I think you can get EWCM as an early preggo symptom. I hope it is! (I love your avatar btw, don't know if I've ever said before!)

shefali83 - I'm sorry hun it's so hard. This first cycle after MC is so hard

AFM - Got a smiley face on my OPK this morning so FX I don't have a crazy, long cycle. Not BDing though!

Love to you all!

 

[xxemmyxx]

I'm spotting red blood now, this can't be right! Why is this happening?? I'm still 6 days away from AF, it can't be coming early how cruel is that!! This is 4th day spotting but before now it was brown, I don't want it to be AF cus that means I'm not pregnant plus my cycle is messed up and only 23 days arrghh I'm so angry I really thought this was it

 

[mrs_swj2be]

I'm spotting red blood now, this can't be right! Why is this happening?? I'm still 6 days away from AF, it can't be coming early how cruel is that!! This is 4th day spotting but before now it was brown, I don't want it to be AF cus that means I'm not pregnant plus my cycle is messed up and only 23 days arrghh I'm so angry I really thought this was it

emmy - dont get disheartened it might not be af, my gp told e that spotting red blood can be very normal throughout pregnancy especialy early pregnancy as your ody starts to change. are you in any pain all?????

 

[flapjack10]

I'm spotting red blood now, this can't be right! Why is this happening?? I'm still 6 days away from AF, it can't be coming early how cruel is that!! This is 4th day spotting but before now it was brown, I don't want it to be AF cus that means I'm not pregnant plus my cycle is messed up and only 23 days arrghh I'm so angry I really thought this was it

I'm so sorry hun. If it is AF early then that means you can start afresh and get working towards your rainbow BFP.

Chin up hun