Trying before AF?

[jennyb86uk]

Well, today my best friend who doesn't want children has told me shes possibly pregnant by accident and the pregnancy pack from the pregnancy I lost came through the post. Finding it really tough at the minute. Feels like its never going to happen for me

 

[aknqtpie]

Jenny - I am sorry.. it is hard, every little thing makes me remember.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Well, today my best friend who doesn't want children has told me shes possibly pregnant by accident and the pregnancy pack from the pregnancy I lost came through the post. Finding it really tough at the minute. Feels like its never going to happen for me

it will happen I promise xx

 

[vietmamsie]

Jenny: I know how you feel, it can be so hard.

AFM, my mom left from her visit and I had such a hard time last night, my first night alone in a while. It all came flooding back for me as well. I would have been 13 weeks on Saturday.

 

[Libbysmum]

Hi girls- update- I just found more spotting when I wiped...freaking out a little about it. I have the scan Friday and really am hoping all is well. I hope they can tell me why I am spotting on and off cause it's terribly frightening. I never had any spotting in my first trimester with my first LO.

 

[aknqtpie]

Hope all is well Libby! Fx'd for you.

 

[Photogmommy]

You can have 2 surges if you don't release an egg first time around. But since you got a negative 15 minutes later I doubt you did. If you are going to ovulate two times they are pretty close together within 24-48 of first egg being release. But its more likely your body being out of whack. Have you had a negative pregnancy test or bloods done to 0 yet?

The day I mc'ed i was at 12.8 hgc....2 days later it was at 4hcg. they didn't check anymore since levels below 5 are considered non-pregnant levels. I just thought that was soo weird, im not sure what to think. should i keep bd'ing? I mean dang, my girl parts are gonna fall off. Im on day 5 straight now.

 

[aknqtpie]

Get so preseed to lube it up there.

 

[mummy2o]

Jenny: I hate when people do that. My cousin gave me a scare a few weeks ago and claimed she was pregnant and was rubbing it in my face. She just missed a period in the end, which was good as she already has a 4 month old and would of been pregnant by some guy on holiday so it highly pissed me off. It is hard and it won't ever get easier to be honest. Jealously is always around. But it will happen one day and it will be you making others jealous one day

Libby: I'm sorry to hear that. I know what you mean. I had no bleeding with DS. As long as its not a lot you should be ok. Some people bleed through the whole pregnancy (not many though) good luck on your scan Friday. FX for you.

Photogmommy: If your still getting positive tests, then as horrible as it seems I doubt you'll ovulate. Your body is all in whack after a miscarriage and many don't ovulate. If you positive for a long time your body keeps trying to release and egg yet fails, or if it happens over several months you could possibly have PCOS. If I was you, purely for my own sanity I would stop testing this month, have every other day or how many times you want and wait and see what happens. If you have ovulate and got pregnant great, if not always next month. As nice as it is to get pregnant before first AF it isn't always achievable.

AFM negative test yay. TWW damn. I hate this time. 27/11 I'll test. On the plus side my cycle have only increased by 3 days from 28 to 31 so hopefully that will fix itself. But I guess a 31 day cycle isn't that bad.

 

[flapjack10]

Well, today my best friend who doesn't want children has told me shes possibly pregnant by accident and the pregnancy pack from the pregnancy I lost came through the post. Finding it really tough at the minute. Feels like its never going to happen for me

It will happen hun.

Jenny: I know how you feel, it can be so hard.

AFM, my mom left from her visit and I had such a hard time last night, my first night alone in a while. It all came flooding back for me as well. I would have been 13 weeks on Saturday.

Hi girls- update- I just found more spotting when I wiped...freaking out a little about it. I have the scan Friday and really am hoping all is well. I hope they can tell me why I am spotting on and off cause it's terribly frightening. I never had any spotting in my first trimester with my first LO.

The doc at my RMC said that we can have spotting because there's some blood vessels at the opening of the womb that can sometimes burst and it's nothing to do with the pregnancy. 20/30% of women can have spotting, so it's not normal, but is common. I know how you feel hun GL at the scan

xxx

 

[klcuk3]

Well I've been discharged from the Early Pregnancy unit, they did a pregnancy test which was negative. This is 14 days from the day I mc'd. I asked the nurse if when I'm pregnant next time whether I could have an early scan. She told me to go to my GP at 6 weeks and say I have some niggling abdo pain and get referred. I shall be taking her advice for sure x

I went down to see my manager after the scan and told her I'll be back at work tomorrow. She asked whether I was really ready and I think I am....it'll either make or break me. I just hope I don't have to care for the pregnancy loss ladies for a week or so x

I hope you're all doing ok ladies x hang in there and stay strong
Libbysmum - hope the spotting is nothing to worry about, fingers crossed for your scan x

 

[flapjack10]

Take it easy Klc

 

[jennyb86uk]

big thanks ladies. It turned out my friend wasn't pregnant, she did a test the same day and it's negative, which makes me wonder whether she told me just to test my reaction and is really trying.

Big hugs KLC, sometimes it's good to have a distraction. Hope you feel better soon *hughughug*

 

[Libbysmum]

big thanks ladies. It turned out my friend wasn't pregnant, she did a test the same day and it's negative, which makes me wonder whether she told me just to test my reaction and is really trying.

Big hugs KLC, sometimes it's good to have a distraction. Hope you feel better soon *hughughug*

What kind of person does that? I wonder too! Hopefully you get your little rainbow before she does LOL

 

[vietmamsie]

Klcuk: as mentioned above, distractions can be good. Although I wasn't quite ready to go back to work, getting back kept my mind off things.

Libby: Thinking of you, still spotting? I hope all is well. GL at the scan tomorrow.

Jenny: Your friend sounds like a nut, best to avoid negative people like that.

Mummy: I was wondering whatever happened to your cousin. Sounds like a late/missed period would be normal since she just gave birth a few months ago.

That reminds me of my friend who announced she was pregnant a few weeks ago when she was only 5 weeks along: She is still pg, everything seems to be going smoothly. I'm truly happy for her, but can't help but be a bit jealous.

AFM, still waiting to O. BDing everyday until then.

 

[Libbysmum]

Thanks ladies, I am still spotting on and off but not very much. I arranged a babysitter -usually my mother does it but I am trying to widen my babysitter list cause my mum wants to know everything I am doing and it gets a bit smothering. So this girl is coming over at 1 O'clock to watch the baby- it is funny cause it is the same girl who I actually taught when she was 5...she is now 18 makes me feel so old!
I am going to use the moment to get my hair cut as I want it looking nice for my friends wedding this wkend!

 

[mummy2o]

Jenny: That is terrible. This is why I prefer guy friends to girl friends but I lack girly talk Hopefully it will be a one off and she won't mess you around for long.

Klc: take it easy and don't push yourself

Viet: That can be annoying. You feel happy and jealous at the same time. Hopefully you'll get your BFP this month and then you can just be happy

Libby: Always good to make your babysitting list bigger. Gets her use to different people looking after her as well, which makes the whole nursery\school transition a lot easier.

 

[Libbysmum]

I really dont want to send her to school but probably will to make my life easier. I had seriously considered keeping her home and teaching her myself at one point.
Thanks for the positive vibes girls!
Am so nervous...still got to wait til 3.30pm...wish they could have done it earlier!

 

[klcuk3]

First day of work completed....am totally knackered but 13 hours on your feet does that. Also feeling a little sad this evening....just feel like I need a good cry x My day was fine, looked after a lovely lady and we ended up in theatre for a cs x

Have got tmw off and taking my gorgeous girl to rhythm time at the library so that'll be nice x

 

[xxemmyxx]

First day of work completed....am totally knackered but 13 hours on your feet does that. Also feeling a little sad this evening....just feel like I need a good cry x My day was fine, looked after a lovely lady and we ended up in theatre for a cs x

Have got tmw off and taking my gorgeous girl to rhythm time at the library so that'll be nice x

Hi klcuk I noticed u live in Worcestershire, that's where I grew up! Xx