hi all! GL to those testing soon !!
lvska - so so sorry...I really thought that was it for you
But it looks like a lot of us our cycle buddies now!
I've been laying low...CD 5 today. Been feeling sad. I feel like I get bummed when I test and see BFNs, but of course still hold on to hope until I get AF. And then when I first get AF I just feel relieved that at least the answer is definitive and I'm able to start a new cycle. Then CD 2, 3, 4 - it hits me and I feel sad and worried. So I've been staying busy and trying to focus on the positive.
Trying SMEP this cycle, which starts BDing on CD 8 so I feel good that in just a few days I will be taking purposeful action toward TTC. Wondering if there is some truth in that BDing every day reduces the quality of the sperm. When I got my BFP, we only BDed twice - the day before and day of ovulation. in July I tried the same thing and when that didn't work I tried every day of my fertile window in August. BD the 4 days leading up to O, day of O and after. and nothing.... so hoping SMEP gives me the result I want!
Also going to start drinking the Red raspberry loose leaf tea when it comes in mail tomorrow. I heard it increases EWCM. Some months I get a ton, others not so much. The only definitive thing I can pinpoint about the month I got pregnant that was different than July and Aug was the abundance of EWCM in April. so here's hoping I produce a lot this month.
FX for all of us - we got this!